Posted by Bob on November 8, 1999, at 9:25:13
In reply to Re: Workplace discrimination , posted by JohnL on November 8, 1999, at 3:36:26
I think the one thing in common in all of this is to take action. Do not wait a moment to start putting things into action. That's what shame and stigma will do to you -- make you want to wait, to delay, to see if things will clear up on their own. Sure, there is probably some chance between a sure thing and diddly-squat that it will clear up on its own. In the mean time, you suffer. So don't. Don't wait, don't let your husband cave into feelings of inadequacy, fight the lethargy -- go out and take some positive action. My money is on things getting far worse if you just let it lie, and taking action then will be all that much harder.
Again, Jen, encourage your husband to stop by. Let him know he has friends here who have walked a parallel path and can help him through what he'll face.
Bless you both,
Bob
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