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Doing well with independence

Posted by ClearSkies on March 20, 2016, at 22:26:31

I think a big trigger is trying to live with someone else. LOL. Maybe that's why my marriages ended.

Enjoying Sunday evening on my own.

CS

 

Re: Doing well with independence » ClearSkies

Posted by SLS on March 21, 2016, at 6:22:17

In reply to Doing well with independence, posted by ClearSkies on March 20, 2016, at 22:26:31

> I think a big trigger is trying to live with someone else. LOL. Maybe that's why my marriages ended.
>
> Enjoying Sunday evening on my own.
>
> CS

I'm glad that you have forged your own path towards health and happiness.

My sky is mostly cloudy, but there is still a ray of hope poking through.


- Scott

 

Re: Doing well with independence » ClearSkies

Posted by J Kelly on March 21, 2016, at 10:57:13

In reply to Doing well with independence, posted by ClearSkies on March 20, 2016, at 22:26:31

> I think a big trigger is trying to live with someone else. LOL. Maybe that's why my marriages ended.
>
> Enjoying Sunday evening on my own.
>
> CS

Well this gives me hope :)

I, too, am a repeat offender. I cannot even imagine having to accommodate another person right now. Family members bug me about dating and I look at them like they're insane. Do you not "see" me? lol

I'm fine with independence. At least for now.

Glad your skies are clear!

Jade

 

Re: Doing well with independence

Posted by SLS on March 21, 2016, at 12:34:20

In reply to Re: Doing well with independence » ClearSkies, posted by J Kelly on March 21, 2016, at 10:57:13

You guys ROCK!


- Scott

 

Re: Doing well with independence » ClearSkies

Posted by Tabitha on March 21, 2016, at 14:42:51

In reply to Doing well with independence, posted by ClearSkies on March 20, 2016, at 22:26:31

Solitude is under-rated. There's way too much pressure to be in some situation as close as possible to a nuclear family. I always wished there were more options. Enjoy your independence!

 

Re: Doing well with independence » SLS

Posted by J Kelly on March 21, 2016, at 16:33:46

In reply to Re: Doing well with independence, posted by SLS on March 21, 2016, at 12:34:20

> You guys ROCK!
>
>
> - Scott

:-)

Jade

 

Re: Doing well with independence » SLS

Posted by ClearSkies on March 21, 2016, at 22:57:59

In reply to Re: Doing well with independence, posted by SLS on March 21, 2016, at 12:34:20

> You guys ROCK!
>
>
> - Scott

:-)

CS

 

Re: Doing well with independence » ClearSkies

Posted by baseball55 on March 22, 2016, at 19:27:50

In reply to Doing well with independence, posted by ClearSkies on March 20, 2016, at 22:26:31

Since I left a relationship of 37 years two years ago, I have never felt better. I don't enjoy solitude so much, but I enjoy being able to plan things with friends, do things I enjoy, go to 12-step meetings without worrying about whether he and I are spending enough time together or his complaining that I'm never home, am spending too much money, etc. Being single is great.


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