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Posted by rjlockhart37 on August 27, 2013, at 0:29:17
i've given up on writing emotional posts, but i just wanted to ask has anyone been scared to the point where it keeps you from making relationships outside of the comfort zone....when i was in high skool....i would walk around the cafeteria and just sit and watch, not talk, just sit and stand, couldnt make friends....and that memory hurts, even till today...but learning to get out of it, and not dwell on it the rest of life....change, is a key survival thing....the past hurts, but use it for records to not do the same thing bad again, i've changed much since 8 years ago in 2005, maybe for the best.....and just let go...let go of everything that makes you dwell...in sadness....
but i wnat to somehow make a a improvement system here on babble, not just for me, but others that are both in a similar situation, and need coping, and learn to evolve out of the old state of failure....
Posted by vbs on August 27, 2013, at 5:45:39
In reply to learn from past....improve, posted by rjlockhart37 on August 27, 2013, at 0:29:17
I had more friends and satisfying relationships before I really started having problems. Now I have few friends. I'm a loner these days. The thing is that I'm happy being alone. I know it's not good for me, but oh well. It is what it is.
Posted by vbs on August 27, 2013, at 5:47:57
In reply to learn from past....improve, posted by rjlockhart37 on August 27, 2013, at 0:29:17
My best friend is my cat. Unconditional love.
Posted by Phillipa on August 27, 2013, at 10:38:58
In reply to Re: learn from past....improve, posted by vbs on August 27, 2013, at 5:47:57
Pups are good to. I enjoy meeting people when out on bike or in stores. Phillipa
Posted by Phil on August 27, 2013, at 12:30:23
In reply to Re: learn from past....improve » rjlockhart37, posted by vbs on August 27, 2013, at 5:45:39
I'm the same way. As far as dating, I'm 60 and I'm not real excited about dating someone my age. Sad but true.
Posted by Phillipa on August 27, 2013, at 20:40:08
In reply to Re: learn from past....improve » vbs, posted by Phil on August 27, 2013, at 12:30:23
Some of us aren't bad!!!!
Posted by Phil on August 28, 2013, at 8:13:32
In reply to Re: learn from past....improve » Phil, posted by Phillipa on August 27, 2013, at 20:40:08
It has more to do with me.
Posted by rjlockhart37 on August 28, 2013, at 11:42:35
In reply to Re: learn from past....improve » rjlockhart37, posted by vbs on August 27, 2013, at 5:45:39
yea mine is the opposite, i started in high school with no friends, got made fun sometimes but i've realized that anyone can tell themselves "its a new start" leave everything behind, and start again like i did when i was 18....2005, all the posts i posted in 2005 was vanity, it doesnt matter now, because going back in the past causes regression, just leave it all, keep records of failure and leave the emotions out....start new.
Posted by rjlockhart37 on August 28, 2013, at 11:43:30
In reply to Re: learn from past....improve, posted by vbs on August 27, 2013, at 5:47:57
My cat Queen el bano is my favorite, she leaves a memoery of nothing but stinky....
Posted by rjlockhart37 on August 28, 2013, at 11:45:58
In reply to Re: learn from past....improve » vbs, posted by Phillipa on August 27, 2013, at 10:38:58
hey phillipa......pups are good, i've stayed with my gf for a week now, she has a poodle....and i've been wrestling and playing tug a war....dogs are more active than cats, maybe good sometimes and bad other times.....they bark is the only thing which is bad when sleeping is needed....
Queen LaPeePee is 16 years old now, nothing but memories of stinky....
Posted by Phillipa on August 28, 2013, at 20:07:53
In reply to Re: learn from past....improve » Phillipa, posted by rjlockhart37 on August 28, 2013, at 11:45:58
So you do still have Queen La Pee Pee!!! Hows she doing? Phillipa
Posted by rjlockhart37 on August 28, 2013, at 23:21:31
In reply to Re: learn from past....improve » rjlockhart37, posted by Phillipa on August 28, 2013, at 20:07:53
lol....she's doing good, she's old and does nothing but sleep....she's big, round....ill pesture her and get her to move around because she just lays around and does nothing, and stinky....
we got her in 1998...i think, maybe 97, she's an old camper....i was 12 when i found her....so thats really i long time....im 26 now....
Snowie Kitty is young....we have another cat named Lightning...he's black, and an old too...but its a family...they all know eachother....LOL
hows your puppy?
Posted by Phillipa on August 29, 2013, at 20:51:24
In reply to Re: learn from past....improve, posted by rjlockhart37 on August 28, 2013, at 23:21:31
Two Teddy & Chloe both are spoiled one 9 & one 7. Phillipa
Posted by rjlockhart37 on August 31, 2013, at 20:11:50
In reply to Re: learn from past....improve » rjlockhart37, posted by Phillipa on August 29, 2013, at 20:51:24
my gf has a poodle, sweetie.....actually there not that bad....i've thought about getting a poodle, i really want to get a samyoed
teddy and chloe need to come and take care of my cats, lol yea we have 3 cats, snowie kitty, blackie, and Queen LaPeePee LOL
Posted by Phillipa on August 31, 2013, at 20:49:30
In reply to Re: learn from past....improve, posted by rjlockhart37 on August 31, 2013, at 20:11:50
Girlfriend!!!! How long have you been together? Tell me more? Phillipa
Posted by rjlockhart37 on September 3, 2013, at 14:02:52
In reply to Re: learn from past....improve » rjlockhart37, posted by Phillipa on August 31, 2013, at 20:49:30
yea....christina....we've been together as dating since 2011, we first started hanging out with eachother in 2010, and we kinda fell into love a bit, we still are dating and she is the sweetest girl there is....i can tell her anything, and not have to worry about getting embarrased, or feel bad.....we're still slowly getting close we've been close, but its like move through differnt stages of getting into a closer feeling, which is a bit wierd because i've known her for 3 years now....so its still a good relationship....stable...
i stayed at her place for a week because my folks went to maui....had the best time.....hopefully it will grow.....maybe engagement later on.... lol
Posted by Phillipa on September 3, 2013, at 21:09:13
In reply to Re: learn from past....improve, posted by rjlockhart37 on September 3, 2013, at 14:02:52
That's fantastic. I do hope the love continues to grow Phillipa
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