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Posted by alesta on November 28, 2006, at 18:49:09
i know i said i was gone but everytime i announce i'm leaving i always end up coming back for something..ok..so, to the point..i *need* to vent this somewhere..and to ppl who know me...or somewhat know me...anyway!
i recently went through some of my stuff in storage...y'all remember my ex, the crack addict? well, i told him to go ahead and move all my stuff out of his house for me a while ago, as i was unable to at the time. i recently went through everything and discovered that he had destroyed and thrown away *all* my pictures, *all* my old letters from friends, *all* my awards, newspaper clippings, *everything*!! i need to get this off my chest before i do something i regret. i am so sad that all my pictures are gone and everything.
i am carrying this around and must release it. i am really not the vengeful type, and really don't want to hurt him, as i want him to be in a good mental state so that he will be kind to his dogs (hate has a ripple effect, as does love). i just needed to tell y'all. any words of consolation? i have to move on...this is just really bothering me!
i realize there's been a lot of turnover here..but i know there are some of you here still that know me. please help...i feel like i've lost my past. i guess i feel better already. i had to get it out man!!!
Take care,
AmyI wouldn't be me if i didn't end this post with a 'musical' quote lol:
"cause i'm looking at you through the glass, don't know how much time has passed...god, it feels like forever.."
Posted by zenhussy on November 28, 2006, at 19:14:39
In reply to i am like *so* mad at my ex (crack addict one), posted by alesta on November 28, 2006, at 18:49:09
an ex in our past did that to us. even went so far as to empty out the fridge contents into the drawers and other furniture items. imagine how yummy yogurt was weeks later tossed over everything in the storage locker........ew!
sorry crack boy behaved so poorly toward you and your items.
it hurts to have precious things destroyed by others. allow yourself to feel hurt, express that hurt, and move forward from that hurt.
you are NOT the hurt. you will feel it and then release it as you said the energy is more important than the vengence.
although the vengeful thoughts can be satisfying heh heh heh
thinking to help release the feelings is good....acting on vengeful feelings....probably not so good.....probably what compelled his actions? bah to him and his unhappy ways.
love you aimster
--zh
Posted by Phil on November 28, 2006, at 19:21:00
In reply to i am like *so* mad at my ex (crack addict one), posted by alesta on November 28, 2006, at 18:49:09
Amy long time no see. You have my permission to go kick his As~.
In all sincerity of course...
Phil
Posted by Phillipa on November 28, 2006, at 20:11:04
In reply to Re: i am like *so* mad at my ex (crack addict one) » alesta, posted by Phil on November 28, 2006, at 19:21:00
Alesta I miss you. Love Phillipa
Posted by karen_kay on November 29, 2006, at 5:56:27
In reply to Re: i am like *so* mad at my ex (crack addict one) » alesta, posted by Phil on November 28, 2006, at 19:21:00
be careful kicking his *ss, crackheads have super-strength! i've known a few (and i wouldn't want to fight them!)
sorry bout your stuff. that sucks!
Posted by kid47 on November 29, 2006, at 10:09:14
In reply to i am like *so* mad at my ex (crack addict one), posted by alesta on November 28, 2006, at 18:49:09
Hey A. Bummer about your stuff, but it is good to see ya round these parts. Maybe friends/family have dups of any of the pics?....would there be any online availabilty of the news paper clippings? My ex destroyed/stole a bunch of my stuff....and she's not even a crack head....just a real b*tch. How's the rest of your life going? Great, I hope.
Peace and Happiness
kid"Wish I didn't know now, what I didn't know then."
> i know i said i was gone but everytime i announce i'm leaving i always end up coming back for something..ok..so, to the point..i *need* to vent this somewhere..and to ppl who know me...or somewhat know me...anyway!
>
> i recently went through some of my stuff in storage...y'all remember my ex, the crack addict? well, i told him to go ahead and move all my stuff out of his house for me a while ago, as i was unable to at the time. i recently went through everything and discovered that he had destroyed and thrown away *all* my pictures, *all* my old letters from friends, *all* my awards, newspaper clippings, *everything*!! i need to get this off my chest before i do something i regret. i am so sad that all my pictures are gone and everything.
>
> i am carrying this around and must release it. i am really not the vengeful type, and really don't want to hurt him, as i want him to be in a good mental state so that he will be kind to his dogs (hate has a ripple effect, as does love). i just needed to tell y'all. any words of consolation? i have to move on...this is just really bothering me!
>
> i realize there's been a lot of turnover here..but i know there are some of you here still that know me. please help...i feel like i've lost my past. i guess i feel better already. i had to get it out man!!!
>
> Take care,
> Amy
>
> I wouldn't be me if i didn't end this post with a 'musical' quote lol:
>
> "cause i'm looking at you through the glass, don't know how much time has passed...god, it feels like forever.."
>
Posted by alesta on December 4, 2006, at 14:57:16
In reply to Re: i am like *so* mad at my ex (crack addict one) » alesta, posted by zenhussy on November 28, 2006, at 19:14:39
> an ex in our past did that to us. even went so far as to empty out the fridge contents into the drawers and other furniture items. imagine how yummy yogurt was weeks later tossed over everything in the storage locker........ew!
>
> sorry crack boy behaved so poorly toward you and your items.
>
> it hurts to have precious things destroyed by others. allow yourself to feel hurt, express that hurt, and move forward from that hurt.
>
> you are NOT the hurt. you will feel it and then release it as you said the energy is more important than the vengence.
>
> although the vengeful thoughts can be satisfying heh heh heh
>
> thinking to help release the feelings is good....acting on vengeful feelings....probably not so good.....probably what compelled his actions? bah to him and his unhappy ways.
>
> love you aimster
>
> --zhhi zenny! would've replied sooner if i could but schedule didn't permit..and i'm so bloody tired lately from too much to do. thanks..i'm so sorry you went through something similar...euh!!
thanks for the advice..believe me, i don't intend to go anywhere near 'crack boy' .:) yes, great advice! i concur, zen. i have learned that anger or other negative emotions are not bad, and actually, you need to allow yourself to feel those emotions, for your own mental health. the emotions themselves aren't bad...it's what you potentially could do with them...heheheh...hehhehhhhh....;)
love you, too, zen. you're a sweetheart!
love,
amy
Posted by alesta on December 4, 2006, at 15:04:47
In reply to Re: i am like *so* mad at my ex (crack addict one) » alesta, posted by Phil on November 28, 2006, at 19:21:00
> Amy long time no see. You have my permission to go kick his As~.
>
> In all sincerity of course...
> PhilLOL thanks, phil! a sincere *ss-kicker..interesting..LOL kinda reminds me of that black dude from "Pulp Fiction" for some reason..he was sincere, yet violent aye? anyway...hope you're cool.
Take care!
Aimp.s. alll mah exes live in virginia...er..texas!...
Posted by alesta on December 4, 2006, at 15:17:56
In reply to i am like *so* mad at my ex (crack addict one), posted by alesta on November 28, 2006, at 18:49:09
Posted by Phillipa on December 4, 2006, at 18:31:25
In reply to Re: i am like *so* mad at my ex (crack addict one) » Phil, posted by alesta on December 4, 2006, at 15:04:47
Alesta any new plans in the work? Love Phillipa
Posted by alesta on December 5, 2006, at 17:59:58
In reply to Re: i am like *so* mad at my ex (crack addict one), posted by Phillipa on November 28, 2006, at 20:11:04
> Alesta I miss you. Love Phillipa
haylo...miss you, too...to answer your other post..nothing i care to devulge, dude..for obvious reasons i don't put my personal life on display anymore...and won't be...be well!Take care,
Amy
Posted by alesta on December 5, 2006, at 18:07:35
In reply to Re: i am like *so* mad at my ex (crack addict one), posted by karen_kay on November 29, 2006, at 5:56:27
> be careful kicking his *ss, crackheads have super-strength! i've known a few (and i wouldn't want to fight them!)
LoL thank you KK...no worries...you couldn't pay me to go near that crackmongering self-destructeur exceptionale...
> sorry bout your stuff. that sucks!Thank you!:) i recently realized that he also must have tossed some old cassettes of me and my bro...all the way back from when i was like nine...my brother is no longer with us so that was the last remnant of audio of him. i guess i'm most upset over that. but i'm okay though :) thanks to you guys' wonderful support!
Take care,
Amy
Posted by alesta on December 5, 2006, at 18:17:22
In reply to That sucks., posted by kid47 on November 29, 2006, at 10:09:14
> Hey A. Bummer about your stuff, but it is good to see ya round these parts.
< Maybe friends/family have dups of any of the pics?....would there be any online availabilty of the news paper clippings? My ex destroyed/stole a bunch of my stuff....and she's not even a crack head....just a real b*tch. How's the rest of your life going? Great, I hope.
>
> Peace and Happiness
> kid
>
> "Wish I didn't know now, what I didn't know then."Hello kid! how are you man?...thanks for the well wishes and i hope you are doing well as well.
well...the cool thing is that i lent my mom one of my photo albums several years ago which she refused to give back lol...just like mummy...anyway...now i'm glad because i still do have some childhood pics.:) and good idea about the newspaper clippings...that is a consolation as well. but there's so much gone. oh well..i don't live in the past anyways! oh, sorry to hear about your ex! gotta love the human species sometimes.:)
> "Wish I didn't know now, what I didn't know then."
yes..yeeess!!! love that one!!
see you around kid...!
A
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