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Posted by Dinah on June 12, 2006, at 22:08:07
In reply to Re: I can't believe it's hurricane season again, posted by Dinah on June 12, 2006, at 22:04:49
Posted by All Done on June 13, 2006, at 0:15:48
In reply to Re: I can't believe it's hurricane season again, posted by Dinah on June 12, 2006, at 22:04:49
What did the rocker look like, Dinah? I bet it was very comfy.
FWIW, I heard that the water near you isn't as warm (or cold? I can't remember) as it was last year, so any storms won't be as bad. I hope that's true.
(((((Dinah)))))
Posted by TofuEmmy on June 13, 2006, at 6:06:50
In reply to Re: (((((((Dinah))))))), posted by All Done on June 13, 2006, at 0:15:48
Dinah - Remember this?
http://www.printsandphotos.com/prints_photos/5571.html
Maybe you could get one of these!
Sending you warm, dry thoughts, emmy
Posted by ClearSkies on June 13, 2006, at 6:49:03
In reply to Re: I can't believe it's hurricane season again, posted by Dinah on June 12, 2006, at 22:04:49
It was a wild and woolly night. No substantial damage where I live, and no coastal flooding either (I'm on the central Florida gulf coast). I was paralyzed with anxiety last night, slept about 2 hours. Boy do I miss my xanax.
Take care, Dinah.
CS
Posted by Dinah on June 13, 2006, at 9:12:21
In reply to ((((Dinah))))), posted by ClearSkies on June 13, 2006, at 6:49:03
I'm so glad you're ok.
My therapist is in Florida this week, and I didn't pay too much attention to where. I think he said Pensacola so he should be all right.
It's going to be a long several months.
Posted by Dinah on June 13, 2006, at 9:15:34
In reply to Re: (((((((Dinah))))))), posted by TofuEmmy on June 13, 2006, at 6:06:50
I love that! I had forgotten. :) It's just how I used to feel.
Daddy always rocked when he was upset. You could tell *how* upset by lying awake at night and hearing the squeak of the rocker. It's funny to think of him being soothed by the motion, but I know I am so I guess he was as well.
Posted by Dinah on June 13, 2006, at 9:29:01
In reply to Re: (((((((Dinah))))))), posted by All Done on June 13, 2006, at 0:15:48
It looked pretty much like the one in Emmy's link, but with a cushioned seat and back. I'm going to have to settle for a rocker recliner, I think. Because unless I get the propmasters to build me one, I don't think I can curl up in a rocker any more. :)
It was just that I suddenly felt like I did in that hotel room, huddled over the internet, trying to tune in our local radio station, and watching the national news simultaneously. Hearing about people on roofs and shootings and lootings and fires and seeing our officials cry, and wondering if there was a home to go back to, and wondering if life as we knew it was over.
Of course the news was exaggerated as often is the case. But life as we knew it is over, so it wasn't completely wrong.
It's silly to feel so distressed. We had a very trauma free evacuation. We weren't at the Superdome or Convention Center like some people we knew. Our house wasn't flooded. We didn't go to a shelter except to pick up our inlaws (who refused to evacuate when we did.) We evacuated very early and went to our reserved hotel room. We were really very lucky.
Posted by ClearSkies on June 13, 2006, at 9:38:11
In reply to (((((((All Done))))))), posted by Dinah on June 13, 2006, at 9:29:01
> It's silly to feel so distressed.Please rephrase - no, please try again...
It's *not* silly to feel so distressed.
It's natural, it's human nature, it's sensible. Heck, the entire nation was fearful of that storm. Try to do what I'm not very good at - take it easy on yourself.Here's another hug for good measure
(((((((((((Dinah)))))))))))))))
Posted by NikkiT2 on June 13, 2006, at 10:29:24
In reply to (((((((All Done))))))), posted by Dinah on June 13, 2006, at 9:29:01
I just posted a care package out to my friend in NO yesterday, and hadn't realised the season had started over..
She's still living on a great big cruise ship (she's a police captain), but says its not so bad, she just wishes she could be living with her husband and step-son again though
Nikki xx
Posted by AuntieMel on June 13, 2006, at 11:19:45
In reply to ((((Dinah))))), posted by ClearSkies on June 13, 2006, at 6:49:03
But then I saw it was heading north of you and it wouldn't be too bad.
The offer is still open to send them my way!
Posted by AuntieMel on June 13, 2006, at 11:24:41
In reply to I can't believe it's hurricane season again, posted by Dinah on June 12, 2006, at 21:55:53
There was an article in the paper the other day. NO still has a population about 40% (??) smaller than before. One parish to the south is only about 4% of the population it used to be.
They officially estimate about 95,000 to be in Houston, but that number can't be right. There's still about 92,000 on FEMA aid, so most estimate us to have about 150,000 from your area.
It must be very strange for those still there.
Posted by Dinah on June 13, 2006, at 11:52:27
In reply to Re: Displaced La. people » Dinah, posted by AuntieMel on June 13, 2006, at 11:24:41
It really is strange. And the strangest part is the emptiness. Although you wouldn't know it from parking downtown or traffic. The surrounding areas are bustling, but the main part of New Orleans, except for the few high areas along the river, are still eerily empty. Not as quiet as they used to be, with construction much greater than it used to be, but still empty.
Now the distressing part is reading about the theft of construction materials and even architectural details from the older homes. It must be terrifying for those who have rebuilt or are rebuilding to know how rampant crime is.
I have to stop reading the paper.
Posted by Dinah on June 13, 2006, at 11:55:27
In reply to ((((((Dinah))))), posted by NikkiT2 on June 13, 2006, at 10:29:24
I'm so lucky our family was able to stay together. My husband was assigned to Texas after the hurricane and we would have had to live apart for over six months. But then Rita came and they decided to send him home instead.
I can't imagine what would have happened to us had we been separated. I'm not cut out to be a single mom, and he's not cut out to be a single dad.
I really admire your friend. To have that job is hard enough, to have it and be separated from your family is heartbreaking.
Posted by Dinah on June 13, 2006, at 11:56:29
In reply to Dinah, posted by ClearSkies on June 13, 2006, at 9:38:11
I think it's survivors guilt. No one here seems to be able to complain about anything without adding appreciation that we have it better than so many others. And that includes the people who lost their homes.
Posted by Phillipa on June 13, 2006, at 12:00:11
In reply to Re: Dinah » ClearSkies, posted by Dinah on June 13, 2006, at 11:56:29
Believe it or not one of the reasons we moved inland to Charlotte was because of the hurricaines. Sure you don't want to reconsider Durham or Chapel Hill? Love Phillipa
Posted by MidnightBlue on June 13, 2006, at 17:11:42
In reply to I can't believe it's hurricane season again, posted by Dinah on June 12, 2006, at 21:55:53
Dinah,
I understand, and I'm SOOO sorry. Looking forward to NOVEMBER........
MB
Posted by Tamar on June 13, 2006, at 17:45:24
In reply to I can't believe it's hurricane season again, posted by Dinah on June 12, 2006, at 21:55:53
Posted by Jay on June 13, 2006, at 17:57:54
In reply to I can't believe it's hurricane season again, posted by Dinah on June 12, 2006, at 21:55:53
Ya, those pesky scientists and their warnings about increasing and more powerful deadly storms as a result of us messing with Mother nature as badly as we have. To think this is only the start..
Jay
Posted by Dinah on June 13, 2006, at 19:05:27
In reply to Re: I can't believe it's hurricane season again, posted by Jay on June 13, 2006, at 17:57:54
Posted by Dinah on June 13, 2006, at 19:07:09
In reply to Re: Dinah » Dinah, posted by Phillipa on June 13, 2006, at 12:00:11
I'm regretting very much right now that we didn't leave. Husband says we can't reconsider until next year at earliest if opportunity comes up again.
I think if the first hurricane had come before we decided, I'd have decided to move.
Where did you used to have to evacuate from?
Posted by Dinah on June 13, 2006, at 19:07:55
In reply to Re: I can't believe it's hurricane season again, posted by MidnightBlue on June 13, 2006, at 17:11:42
Yup. I always did of course, because November is cool again. But now it will be especially beautiful.
Posted by Dinah on June 13, 2006, at 19:08:35
In reply to (((((Dinah))))) (nm) » Dinah, posted by Tamar on June 13, 2006, at 17:45:24
Thank you. :)
Posted by Phillipa on June 13, 2006, at 19:15:24
In reply to Re: Dinah » Phillipa, posted by Dinah on June 13, 2006, at 19:07:09
Dinah we drove three hours north toward Charlotte and the flooding and wind stopped. Charlotte is six hours inland. And about the same for Durham and Chapel Hill. Yeah I know until it's here again we don't think of it. We still have a condo to sell there. It's been for Sale since last hurricaine lot of damage done and its just now finished. Emerald Isle was where it is. Hope they stay away from you this year. Love Phillipa ps do you have a plan?
Posted by Dinah on June 13, 2006, at 19:24:10
In reply to Re: Dinah » Dinah, posted by Phillipa on June 13, 2006, at 19:15:24
Yeah, at least temporarily. Not sure if it will last long term. It should be pretty good, really. We just need to find accomodations for the dogs.
Not that any evacuation is pleasant. Gridlock traffic for forever.
Posted by TexasChic on June 14, 2006, at 16:12:12
In reply to Re: Dinah » Phillipa, posted by Dinah on June 13, 2006, at 19:24:10
Yall stay safe, and everyone else is in that area. I'm sorry I don't respond much to these posts. The whole Katrina situation messed with me in some way, especially the Superdome. Just hearing the word brings tears to my eyes. I think I have some sort of PTSS that surfaces when I hear about kids being hurt. And then I feel bad to be upset about the situation when the ones who actually experienced it are far worse off. Like what right do I have to be upset about it? I don't know if that makes any sense, I can't really explain what's going on in my head about that.
-T
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