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Posted by Tanzanite on March 26, 2006, at 14:11:42
I have not been doing good at all. I have been dealing with a lot of mind games with my husband and a lot of anger he directs towards me...always threatening to leave me, divorce me, just because I speak up and tell him how I feel and how things could be better around here for all of us. I feel that he neglects me and my stepdaughter, never goes the extra mile. Things are so stressful financially. Fighting has been going on and off for two weeks. I want to run away. Sometimes I just wish I were not here anymore at all, Like I should crawl in a hole and die. My house is falling apart. My life is falling apart. I thought we could do better, but he won't get the help he needs and wants to place all of this on me. The only other option I have is to leave if this keeps up. I love him and don't want to leave. Unfortanately, I would be walking out on my responsibility to pay on this mobile home we have that is in my name and the lease as well. The only option I have is to go back to my parents house (which would be a very bad idea), or stay here with no transportation, if he decides to leave. He says he isn't and is staying. But, the swearing, the threats of divorce, him not understanding that I have needs and desires, and feelings. No pill is gonna change that. I live everday in fear that I will be left all alone. I live everday in fear that I don't belong anywhere. I haven't even been posting. I don't feel like I can trust the person in the world I love the most because of lies and lack of patience. I just am soo tired. So very tired.
:(
Chelle
Posted by Damos on March 26, 2006, at 15:27:21
In reply to Not doing good guysTrigger, posted by Tanzanite on March 26, 2006, at 14:11:42
((((((((((Chelle)))))))))))
I'm sorry you're having such a bad time, I really am. Know some of those feelings only to well :-(
Please know you aren't alone, and that others struggle with these same questions and the fact that none of them seem to have a *good* answers, and that every choice seems to just mean more hurt and pain. Please know you are not alone and that people do care and feel how much you're hurting.
How did your IV thing go, sorry I forgot to ask before?
Please take good care of you okay
(((((Chelle)))))
Posted by Deneb on March 26, 2006, at 16:07:40
In reply to Not doing good guysTrigger, posted by Tanzanite on March 26, 2006, at 14:11:42
(((((Tanzanite)))))
I'm not sure what to say. I don't have much experience with relationships. I hope things get better for you and the fighting will stop.
Deneb*
Posted by Phillipa on March 26, 2006, at 20:14:01
In reply to Re: Not doing good guysTrigger » Tanzanite, posted by Deneb on March 26, 2006, at 16:07:40
I can totally relate to you. Love Phillipa
Posted by milly on March 27, 2006, at 6:26:26
In reply to Not doing good guysTrigger, posted by Tanzanite on March 26, 2006, at 14:11:42
((((((((chelle))))))))))
i'm so sorry you are having such a horrid time at the moment, it doesn't sound easy at all.
hang on in there and keep posting, we care
((((((((chelle)))))))))
Posted by Tanzanite on March 27, 2006, at 9:07:41
In reply to Not doing good guysTrigger, posted by Tanzanite on March 26, 2006, at 14:11:42
I have very little energy and will post more later when I have time. I am holding on and just trying to get over the hell I have lived over the past two weeks. Hubby and I are ok for now. I will say for now. Because it seems like I am not allowed to open my mouth without starting something, and believe me when I say something it is because of something that is bothering me, or has been let go for too long, or has been going on for 2 1/2 years. Hugs to you all, and thank you for the support. Hopefully I can return to somewhat normal. Soon. My brain and heart hurt.
Chelle
Posted by Susan47 on March 30, 2006, at 0:08:45
In reply to Holding on and thank you, posted by Tanzanite on March 27, 2006, at 9:07:41
Hi Chelle, I know what the feeling is, I know the trapped feeling. Wanting better for yourself but feeling like you're stepping off a cliff if you change things. Well, remember that sometimes you'll find out if you step off the cliff, you can actually fly. You won't fall like you're afraid of. Get a bicycle, hire a taxi, take a bus, sell the GD trailer and get an apt. in town, do whatever it takes when the time is right, if you aren't getting to your goal. What's your goal? Do you want to be happy?
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