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Posted by iris2 on October 8, 2004, at 13:24:44
My dog had a big operation Wednesday morning and I have been a bit upset. He is going to be fine but it is difficult to see him suffer. He is 11 and never really makes any noise or anything when he is in pain. I am again having trouble getting out of bed. I have at least taken him out but I have not gotten dressed yet and it is almost 2:30. I really do not like myself at all.
I start a job Monday. First job in two years. It is just part time dog walking. Really not much of a job and the owner really takes advantage of the people that work for her. I figured if I can do this job for a while than perhaps I can apply for something that is more professional and pays more, still part time. I know I am rambling.
Hope to hear from someone out there,irene
Posted by jlynne on October 8, 2004, at 14:30:58
In reply to Lonely no one to talk to, posted by iris2 on October 8, 2004, at 13:24:44
Irene, just a quick note to let you know that you are not alone . . . I am on my way to work.
I think walking the dogs is a great step to take. It will get you out and moving again, and you know our lymphatic systems operate on body movement, so that will help get you some energy, too.
I hope you find someone to talk to today; and heck who cares if you stay in your jammies ALL DAY LONG!
(((Irene)))
. . . jlynne
Posted by jlynne on October 8, 2004, at 14:32:49
In reply to Re: Lonely no one to talk to » iris2, posted by jlynne on October 8, 2004, at 14:30:58
Please, forgive me Iris. Someone kept me up very late last night - AND HE KNOWS WHO HE IS!!
(((IRIS)))
. . . j-idiot
Posted by jlynne on October 8, 2004, at 14:42:42
In reply to Oh, god i'm so sorry i got your name wrong, posted by jlynne on October 8, 2004, at 14:32:49
Iris, just a quick note to let you know that you are not alone . . . I am on my way to work.
I think walking the dogs is a great step to take. It will get you out and moving again, and you know our lymphatic systems operate on body movement, so that will help get you some energy, too.
I hope you find someone to talk to today; and heck who cares if you stay in your jammies ALL DAY LONG!
(((Iris)))
. . . jlynne
Posted by justyourlaugh on October 8, 2004, at 16:21:49
In reply to Lonely no one to talk to, posted by iris2 on October 8, 2004, at 13:24:44
iris,,
monday i will walk along beside you..
chatting..
we will stop for a coffee.
ponder lifes questions
scratch the chins of your furry friends
maybe even laugh out loud
jyl
Posted by Jai Narayan on October 8, 2004, at 16:25:15
In reply to Re: Lonely no one to talk to » iris2, posted by justyourlaugh on October 8, 2004, at 16:21:49
I like this virtual walking of dogs....I can't have a dog but I'd love to. Maybe in this reality I can?
Here goes:
I have a medium size sweet black lab female. She is very vocal and I love hugging her. That is my virtual dog.
I too will be there with you walking my dog.
cheery thought.
Posted by iris2 on October 8, 2004, at 17:34:13
In reply to Re: Lonely no one to talk to, posted by Jai Narayan on October 8, 2004, at 16:25:15
Thanks everyone. I freaked out and canceled the dog walking job. If I find a picture of my dog I'll send it to you so you can virtually pet it. At lest the friendly one.
irene
Posted by jlynne on October 8, 2004, at 17:50:39
In reply to Re: Lonely no one to talk to » Jai Narayan, posted by iris2 on October 8, 2004, at 17:34:13
Iris/Irene . . . now I get it. I need a nap. TGIF, eh?
Can I reserve some virtual pets/pats, too?
. . . jlynne
Posted by iris2 on October 9, 2004, at 11:43:07
In reply to Ok, now i am TOTALLY confused . . ., posted by jlynne on October 8, 2004, at 17:50:39
I was just responing to your post:
I like this virtual walking of dogs....I can't have a dog but I'd love to. Maybe in this reality I can?
Here goes:
I have a medium size sweet black lab female. She is very vocal and I love hugging her. That is my virtual dog.
I too will be there with you walking my dog.
cheery thought.
Cheers,
irene
Posted by Jai Narayan on October 9, 2004, at 12:10:01
In reply to Re: Ok, now i am TOTALLY confused . . . » jlynne, posted by iris2 on October 9, 2004, at 11:43:07
irene,
now I hope you know...
really know you are not alone.
we are here and care.
I know I do.
cheers
jai
Posted by iris2 on October 9, 2004, at 13:53:32
In reply to walking that virtual dog...no dodo do deal with, posted by Jai Narayan on October 9, 2004, at 12:10:01
So what about you?
I know you have virtual dog. By the way he is just the cutest:) What is his name?
My little one George (one of the "boys") the one who had his bladder stones out is doing great. He is a real trooper.By the way you are a great writer.
I guess I will start to look for another job. I am afraid to work again. Lots of reasons. But if I am able then I need to for health and money.
At least my Dad, who has always hounded me to work no matter how ill I was, told me I made a good decision not to take that job. He is getting less harsh as he gets older. I cannot say old because he is in better shape than I have probably ever been and is almost 76. He keeps himself really healthy. I used to long ago. Exorcise was difficult because I am too depressed to move but I have always eaten right and when I do feel better the first thing I always do is take walks or this time bike ride and kayak. I figure not only will it make me physically healthier but mentally. Those endorphins you know. Hey I have not written much in a while but I found this poem I wrote when I was about 15. I thought, as you are such a great manipulator of words that you might enjoy it. It is a little childish perhaps but I like the theme:
Smiles the clown,
perhaps inside he frowns.
Able to perform intricate feats,
he tries to conquer unhappiness he meets.
On many occasions he will succeed,
concentrating hectically on his deed.
Forgetting his unfortunate frown,
in happiness does he abound!
Take care and don't forget to walk that dog!
Perhaps you should wear a CD player or radio while you walk him. I know he is so good he will not pull on his leash. The exorcise will do you both good.Irene
Posted by alesta on October 9, 2004, at 14:49:38
In reply to Lonely no one to talk to, posted by iris2 on October 8, 2004, at 13:24:44
hi, irene, :)i'm so sorry you're having such a rough time! i'd address your emotional issues with your dog but i have my own animal grief issues.)
irene, why don't you like yourself? i feel like posting to you the same thing that i posted pegasus. maybe you could read that post...you are a worthy person..we are all worthy people in this world! don't base your worth on superficial things like appearance, intelligence, personality, whatever. none of those things mean anything..it's who you really are..your core..your soul that is all you are..and it is a valuable one..:)
what meds are you taking hon? are they not working for you right now? maybe you need a med switch? i know your circumstance with your dog is a cause of depression and upset for you right now. i wish i could take the pain away..but i do believe that our animals live beyond this life just as we do. (i've read this in near-death experience accounts.) everything will be all right..:)
please let me know if i can help with med suggestions or anything. i am here for you.
take care, sweetie,:)
amy
Posted by Jai Narayan on October 9, 2004, at 20:20:38
In reply to Re: walking that virtual dog...no dodo do deal with » Jai Narayan, posted by iris2 on October 9, 2004, at 13:53:32
> So what about you?
***you are such a cutie.....
> I know you have virtual dog. By the way he is just the cutest:) What is his name?***by the way I have a broken ankle and the only walking is virtual my dog is a female and her name is...Mu. Named after a dog I had years ago that was part great dane and samoid.
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> My little one George (one of the "boys") the one who had his bladder stones out is doing great. He is a real trooper.
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**That must have been intense. wow.
> By the way you are a great writer.***I am touched you are saying that.
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> I guess I will start to look for another job. I am afraid to work again. Lots of reasons. But if I am able then I need to for health and money.**Jobs take one into so many realities....it's intense.
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> At least my Dad, who has always hounded me to work no matter how ill I was, told me I made a good decision not to take that job.
**that sounds so hard. How do you work when you feel so bad?>He is getting less harsh as he gets older.
**good.
>I used to long ago. Exorcise was difficult because I am too depressed to move but I have always eaten right and when I do feel better the first thing I always do is take walks or this time bike ride and kayak.**these are my two most favorite things to do. I feel like I get sane when I canoe and bike ride. You have choosen some really great activities.
> Hey I have not written much in a while but I found this poem I wrote when I was about 15. I thought, as you are such a great manipulator of words that you might enjoy it. It is a little childish perhaps but I like the theme:
>
> Smiles the clown,
>
> perhaps inside he frowns.
>
> Able to perform intricate feats,
>
> he tries to conquer unhappiness he meets.
>
> On many occasions he will succeed,
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> concentrating hectically on his deed.
>
> Forgetting his unfortunate frown,
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> in happiness does he abound!
>
**It's amazing how we write the most remarkable poetry when we are young. I think this poem is very caring, loving and hopeful.
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> Take care and don't forget to walk that dog!
> Perhaps you should wear a CD player or radio while you walk him. I know he is so good he will not pull on his leash. The exorcise will do you both good.**you are so right about that. I need the music and the exercise and the dog...I am truly a dog person.
Thank you Irene I am touched by your caring.Jai
Posted by iris2 on October 9, 2004, at 22:22:05
In reply to Re: walking that virtual dog...no dodo do deal with, posted by Jai Narayan on October 9, 2004, at 20:20:38
Jai,
I have two dogs. Tig is psycho. I used to have him on imipramine. Then I decided it did not help him enough. He acts nuts outside around people and animals. All my neighbors are afraid of him. I would be too. He is happy inside so I keep in inside most of the time.
I just started biking and kayaking. Someone loaned me a bike. They let me use their kayak too. How long have you been biking and canoeing?
Do you find it difficult to do when you are depressed?I have always liked to hike the most. I like to hike in the mountains most especially around water. I find water and water falls about the only natural thing that calms me.
I have been on disability for a long time. Most of the time I have worked at least part time. Not in two years now. If I can get a job that I am able to calm the negative thoughts I have on the job down I feel a lot better when I am working. What my father just never seemed to understand is that first I have to be just well enough to work, able to feel okay enough to get up and get there and feel good enough not to freak out if I make a mistake or think my supervisor hates me etc. Once I am well enough to be able to accomplish that and be able to go through the stress of finding a job he is right I feel even better when I am working. It is just being able to get to and maintain that equilibrium.
Sorry about your ankle. How did that happen? Is it in a cast? That is such an inconvenience. Think about how much we take for granted the use of both our arms and legs and all our toes and fingers until something like that happens. It really is amazing how the smallest thing makes such a big impact on our lives.
You are really sweet.
Hope your back on your feet soon,
irene
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