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Posted by daizy on March 26, 2003, at 8:55:53
Im sorry, I dont know what made me think I have the right to tell people what to do, so I apologise if hurt anyones feelings. My paranoia is getting the best of me and I feel like evryone is laughing at me, I wont be here for a while thanx everyone for your support, but only I can change things for myself and get me out of this hole I keep digging for myself, or choose to go under.
Posted by beardedlady on March 26, 2003, at 9:27:16
In reply to Sorry, posted by daizy on March 26, 2003, at 8:55:53
daizy:
I don't think you told anyone what to do, but I don't read all the posts. There's a difference between telling someone what to do and making suggestions; do you think you might be making suggestions?
Don't be so hard on yourself.
beardy : )>
Posted by Dinah on March 26, 2003, at 10:13:03
In reply to Sorry, posted by daizy on March 26, 2003, at 8:55:53
Beardy's right, daizy. I haven't seen you do anything inappropriate, and I *have* read all the non-med board posts.
It's a tense time. Be kind to yourself.
Posted by gabbix2 on March 26, 2003, at 10:58:50
In reply to Re: Sorry » daizy, posted by Dinah on March 26, 2003, at 10:13:03
Daisy... do you get those weird almost paranoid days too? I've had days where I thought people on the board were all angry at me for some reason, though I *Knew* they weren't I still felt as if they were. (does that make sense?)
I get that way in my life about rejection too, I see it in places it isn't. Sometimes if I'm dating someone I'll turn everything they say into a hint that they are going to break up with me.
Usually they weren't thinking that at all, sometimes though I need so much reassurance from them that they aren't, I drive them crazy, and then they do :(I've never seen you be anything but polite, and geez even if you weren't nobody's perfect!
Be as understanding to yourself, as you would be to someone else, you deserve that.
Posted by tina on March 26, 2003, at 11:05:36
In reply to Re: Sorry, posted by gabbix2 on March 26, 2003, at 10:58:50
we all have our ownn personal opinions daizy and are totally entitled to them. No one has to take your advice when you give it, it's up to them. don't worry so much. We all have our paranoid days and like Dinah said, times are a little sensitive right now so emotions will be too.
Give yourself a break.
take it easy on yourself.
tina
Posted by beardedlady on March 26, 2003, at 11:07:08
In reply to Re: Sorry, posted by gabbix2 on March 26, 2003, at 10:58:50
> I've had days where I thought people on the board were all angry at me for some reason, though I *Knew* they weren't I still felt as if they were.
Yeah, and I'm STILL not speaking to you. ; —: )>
beardy : )>
Posted by lostsailor on March 26, 2003, at 11:44:50
In reply to Re: Sorry » gabbix2, posted by beardedlady on March 26, 2003, at 11:07:08
same thing. Wow. I "know" I've done that with some old friendships, but maybe in relationships, too. You have a very good point there. I can just imagine how taxing I must seem to some. ~tony
Posted by gabbix2 on March 26, 2003, at 12:30:16
In reply to Re: Sorry » gabbix2, posted by beardedlady on March 26, 2003, at 11:07:08
Would you believe that actually had me scared for a second? It did. Really. Yikes.
I better not go out today, I might think that the bus driver is looking at me in a mean way and start crying :)
Posted by beardedlady on March 26, 2003, at 12:49:40
In reply to Bearded Lady Shame on you!, posted by gabbix2 on March 26, 2003, at 12:30:16
Why on earth would I be mad at you? : )>
I'm about to go upstairs and say to the painter, who has about two days left on the job, "So, you're going to be finished today, like we planned?"
Nah, better not. His sense of humor might not be as good as yours!
Your pal,
beardy : )>
Posted by gabbix2 on March 26, 2003, at 14:29:02
In reply to No, shame on YOU! » gabbix2, posted by beardedlady on March 26, 2003, at 12:49:40
I don't know what else to call those things!
Posted by gabbix2 on March 26, 2003, at 14:36:29
In reply to Maybe that's why I'm single. I may do thegabbix, posted by lostsailor on March 26, 2003, at 11:44:50
Oh I think its a great way to kill relationships,
faster than you can say "Wipe out!"
Not that it stops me from doing it, because each time I have one of those 'rejection days'
I think "know this time its REAL"I also think (sadly) that it is human nature to want what you can't have. If you let the person your with know how insecure you are about losing them, you suddenly might seem not so attractive.
Its just a hunch. I don't know if it works that way in long term relationships cause well..
I've never had one longer than 2 years.Really though of all the reasons to pick for being still, its one of the more pleasant ones. ; )
Posted by Tabitha on March 26, 2003, at 15:02:29
In reply to Re: Maybe that's why I'm single. I may do thegabbix, posted by gabbix2 on March 26, 2003, at 14:36:29
OK it's official... my mind is in the gutter these days.
Posted by sienna on March 26, 2003, at 15:14:50
In reply to Sorry, posted by daizy on March 26, 2003, at 8:55:53
I think you are A ok. I ddint read anythign bad you wrote. I hope you will stay if you are comfortable with it. I was enjoying chitchating with yuo before.
take care of you k?
sienna
Posted by lostsailor on March 26, 2003, at 15:17:36
In reply to Re: I may do the gabbix?, posted by Tabitha on March 26, 2003, at 15:02:29
Great, Tab.; her post has me crying and turns you on.
Posted by lostsailor on March 26, 2003, at 15:24:08
In reply to Re: I may do the gabbix?, posted by lostsailor on March 26, 2003, at 15:17:36
Did I really hit confirm a minute ago??????????????UUUUUUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!
Posted by lostsailor on March 26, 2003, at 15:34:51
In reply to AwwBeardy you gave me a warm shiver thanks., posted by gabbix2 on March 26, 2003, at 14:29:02
Posted by lostsailor on March 26, 2003, at 15:41:51
In reply to I call them hibbie jeebies (spelling?????) (nm), posted by lostsailor on March 26, 2003, at 15:34:51
Posted by sienna on March 26, 2003, at 16:36:19
In reply to the correct misspelling might be hebbie (nm), posted by lostsailor on March 26, 2003, at 15:41:51
or maybe heebie? i dont really know but you all are totally cracking me up. =)
sienna
Posted by lostsailor on March 26, 2003, at 16:46:13
In reply to the correct misspelling, hehe, posted by sienna on March 26, 2003, at 16:36:19
Thank you sienna; I am cracking up as well...lmao
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