Psycho-Babble Psychology Thread 1067697

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My first post after over 10 years

Posted by sassyfrancesca on July 1, 2014, at 9:11:27

Hi, all! (I posted as Kate a short time ago), and Dr. Bob gave me my previous name and password).

I am 67 and at age 60, wrote about my life and won a scholarship and am a Sophomore in college (social work).

I have enclosed a little about me (not sure if it shows up or if I am allowed to do that); still figuring out the techie stuff.

I went to see a t because of a spiritual abuse issue (church voted me out of membership with my name up on a big screen,, followed by the words, "Conduct Unbecoming a Child of God." This was because I got a divorce after 31 years of abuse, and let him live in m house for awhile afterwards).


I was called to a meeting of deacons, not allowed to have a woman with me and asked: "Are you still having sex with your ex?"

My t journeyed with me for the 18 months, and when the debacle was over, I stayed with him, because I loved him......that has not changed.

Unfortunately, He led me on and I am trying to find the courage to confront him about that.

So, hello to everyone, and hope I didn't ramble, LOL

Kind Regards, sassyfrancesca

P.S. I had posted about Jadah......she was having an affair with her t and had cancer; I have always wondered what happened to her....everyone was so loving and supportive.

P.S. #2 I might, if I find the courage, eventually post the things my t said and did.
http://www.oakland.edu/view_news.aspx?sid=34&nid=9352


http://www.theoaklandpress.com/articles/2013/03/07/news/local_news/doc513915a3d0e9e141194681.txt
http://oaklandpostonline.com/2013/01/26/life/alice-carelton-finds-strength-from-a-painful-past/

 

Re: My first post after over 10 years » sassyfrancesca

Posted by Partlycloudy on July 1, 2014, at 9:23:16

In reply to My first post after over 10 years, posted by sassyfrancesca on July 1, 2014, at 9:11:27

Hello, Sassy, and welcome back. Congratulations on your accomplishments! Babble has seen some not insignificant changes in the interim.

I look forward to reading your posts again, and would love to know how you are doing now.

PartlyCloudy (used to post as Clearskies briefly, but the weather keeps changing.)

 

Re: My first post after over 10 years » Partlycloudy

Posted by sassyfrancesca on July 1, 2014, at 9:33:04

In reply to Re: My first post after over 10 years » sassyfrancesca, posted by Partlycloudy on July 1, 2014, at 9:23:16

Thank you for the welcome back, "Cloudy" Yours was my first response!

Well I excruciatingly DISlike being alone, and that is the reason the divorce was so scary. Been on the dating sites for 10 years....abysmal at best, LOL

Thank you once again for your warm welcome!

Sassy

 

Re: My first post after over 10 years » sassyfrancesca

Posted by Partlycloudy on July 1, 2014, at 9:48:03

In reply to Re: My first post after over 10 years » Partlycloudy, posted by sassyfrancesca on July 1, 2014, at 9:33:04

I would NOT want to date again, at any age. I still have problems isolating myself, so I have joined two women's support groups. I don't think I'd have the chutzpah to put myself out there in the dating scene.
You're brave!

 

Re: My first post after over 10 years » sassyfrancesca

Posted by Phillipa on July 1, 2014, at 9:52:54

In reply to My first post after over 10 years, posted by sassyfrancesca on July 1, 2014, at 9:11:27

Sassy I also remember you. Welcome. Phillipa

 

I wish we had Like buttons. (nm)

Posted by Partlycloudy on July 1, 2014, at 10:00:53

In reply to Re: My first post after over 10 years » sassyfrancesca, posted by Phillipa on July 1, 2014, at 9:52:54

 

Re: My first post after over 10 years » Phillipa

Posted by sassyfrancesca on July 1, 2014, at 10:23:23

In reply to Re: My first post after over 10 years » sassyfrancesca, posted by Phillipa on July 1, 2014, at 9:52:54

Thank you, Phillipa, I remember you also. Hope you are well!

Sassy

 

Re: My first post after over 10 years » sassyfrancesca

Posted by baseball55 on July 1, 2014, at 20:54:39

In reply to Re: My first post after over 10 years » Phillipa, posted by sassyfrancesca on July 1, 2014, at 10:23:23

I only started posting here about 6-7 years ago, so don't know you, but welcome back.

 

Re: My first post after over 10 years

Posted by sassyfrancesca on July 3, 2014, at 9:13:05

In reply to Re: My first post after over 10 years » sassyfrancesca, posted by baseball55 on July 1, 2014, at 20:54:39

HI, Thank you for the welcome back!

Sassy

 

Re: My first post after over 10 years

Posted by Angela2 on July 3, 2014, at 12:21:25

In reply to My first post after over 10 years, posted by sassyfrancesca on July 1, 2014, at 9:11:27

Hi! I remember your name! I can't believe I started here 10 years ago. That's so long ago.

I am so sorry that that happened to you. And really happy that you are moving on and finding solace!

Nice to see you :)

 

Re: My first post after over 10 years » Angela2

Posted by sassyfrancesca on July 3, 2014, at 14:47:50

In reply to Re: My first post after over 10 years, posted by Angela2 on July 3, 2014, at 12:21:25

Hi, Angela2! Thank you so kindly for the welcome back!

Do you remember Jadah's posts? I so wish I knew what happened to her, but I can't imagine there is any way to find out.

Happy 4th of July!

Sassy

 

Re: My first post after over 10 years » sassyfrancesca

Posted by Phillipa on July 3, 2014, at 20:46:34

In reply to Re: My first post after over 10 years » Angela2, posted by sassyfrancesca on July 3, 2014, at 14:47:50

You could go into the archieves find a post and if her babblemail was on babblemail her? I've done this with others before and they wrote back. Phillipa

 

Re: My first post after over 10 years

Posted by Angela2 on July 4, 2014, at 19:35:15

In reply to Re: My first post after over 10 years » Angela2, posted by sassyfrancesca on July 3, 2014, at 14:47:50

Hey Sassy :) Unfortunately, I don't remember a Jadah. But there were so many different people back then. Sorry that I cannot help. I hope you're having a good 4th!

 

Re: My first post after over 10 years » sassyfrancesca

Posted by Tabitha on July 5, 2014, at 19:25:24

In reply to My first post after over 10 years, posted by sassyfrancesca on July 1, 2014, at 9:11:27

Hi sassy, welcome back! I remember you. Glad you are doing well.

 

Re: My first post after over 10 years

Posted by sassyfrancesca on July 7, 2014, at 7:30:13

In reply to Re: My first post after over 10 years, posted by Angela2 on July 4, 2014, at 19:35:15

Thank you, Angela! Yes, I had a good 4th....as a Veteran I attended a (free) baseball game in Detroit; all of us veterans walked out on the field and shook hands with the players. I havent been to a game in over 30 years, but thought it might be fun!

Thanks for the reply!
Sassy

 

Re: My first post after over 10 years » Tabitha

Posted by sassyfrancesca on July 7, 2014, at 7:31:12

In reply to Re: My first post after over 10 years » sassyfrancesca, posted by Tabitha on July 5, 2014, at 19:25:24

Thank you, Tabitha! Love your name!

Sassy

 

Re: My first post after over 10 years

Posted by healing928 on December 4, 2014, at 3:48:26

In reply to Re: My first post after over 10 years, posted by sassyfrancesca on July 3, 2014, at 9:13:05

I remember you.

 

Re: My first post after over 10 years

Posted by sassyfrancesca on December 4, 2014, at 15:37:40

In reply to Re: My first post after over 10 years, posted by healing928 on December 4, 2014, at 3:48:26

Thank you!


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