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Posted by llurpsienoodle on May 13, 2008, at 22:55:05
I feel like such an ineffectual poster.
So many of you have given me precious advice that I hold dear to my heart. I don't feel confident that I do any such thing. Then I avoid supporting you to the extent that I feel you deserve as human beings and babble buddies. I feel really bad about this whole thing.
I don't have the wisdom I would expect from myself. It's really hard right now. I am hating myself, for not being there, and being absent, in many senses of the word. A large part of my self-esteem is tied up with my ability to help others. suffering other in pain.
//This post sounds selfish. yet another reason why I feel bad. There are so many ways I have of dealing with negative self-esteem, most of w\hich are unhealthy.
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At this point it is the abilify and klonopin which are forcing my brain to slow down. and typing is gone. gone I tell you.
well, that's all for now.
I'm so sorry if I've hurt you. dissappointed. sent out misinterpretations of your posts. etc. I don't want to be irrelevant. I feel like I'm looking for validation, because if I'm not doing anything, I'd rather quit this forum and just go to medication, where things seem so much more cut and dry.
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sorry for my midnight musings
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sorry for being apologetic
ll
Posted by MidnightBlue on May 14, 2008, at 0:44:39
In reply to it goes beyond support fatigue, posted by llurpsienoodle on May 13, 2008, at 22:55:05
There are times to give and times to receive. And we don't get to choose which time it is. I find it easier to give. I have a feeling you do too. :-)
MidnightBlue
Posted by B2chica on May 14, 2008, at 8:05:14
In reply to Re: it goes beyond support fatigue » llurpsienoodle, posted by MidnightBlue on May 14, 2008, at 0:44:39
i think we all go in spurts. i can go for long whiles only needing support, then i have bursts of helping times.
usually short times. i feel bad for that. but we all understand here. that's what this site is all about. we give when we can. we listen when we can and we reach out for help WHENEVER...hear that...WHENEVER we need it. no matter how often.
that's what we do. that's why there are so many of us. it works out just fine.
don't worry at all. you give when you can and don't worry when you can't. at all. you belong here no matter what state you are in.b2c.
Posted by Phillipa on May 14, 2008, at 12:38:17
In reply to Re: it goes beyond support fatigue, posted by B2chica on May 14, 2008, at 8:05:14
Just a different type of person on psychology is what I've found seems they care more about the person and don't get angry or upset if you don't take their advise. Meds are more cut and dried. But I like this board a lot even though I don't have a lot to conribute. I like to help others also. Phillipa
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