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Posted by LlurpsieNoodle on October 18, 2007, at 20:02:13
h and i ironed things out. but we had to talk about hard stuff with T. also I had no solo sessions.
feeling distinctly undersupported and I worked a 70 hour week.
so tired. and my physiology feels like it's disintegrating. dis-integrating. dis-associating. who AM I? shaking and wondering whether my medication can pull me back from the brink? how long I have to play this game
scared to go to T tomorrow too. he said some stuff when h was there that caught me off guard. lo and behold-- T is a MAN. I got 2 points of view in the room and they both belong to MAN.
:o|
Posted by muffled on October 18, 2007, at 20:12:32
In reply to not feeling so good, posted by LlurpsieNoodle on October 18, 2007, at 20:02:13
Ya that sucks...you being the odd 'man' out.....
OK I just HAD to say it....sorry.
But really...
Well glad your ironing...
You still afraid of DH?
Is man T gonna be OK for you?
I bet you guys will reconnect OK.
WOW, you working hard.
Take care of yourself....
Why you working so many hrs?
Can you work less?
Excercise and down times important.
Take care,
M
Posted by LlurpsieNoodle on October 18, 2007, at 21:09:17
In reply to not feeling so good, posted by LlurpsieNoodle on October 18, 2007, at 20:02:13
embarrassed
pressured
outnumbered
ashamed
broken
defective
Posted by Phillipa on October 18, 2007, at 21:24:12
In reply to adjectives » LlurpsieNoodle, posted by LlurpsieNoodle on October 18, 2007, at 21:09:17
Lurpsie I feel you jumped back on the bandwagon too soon. You seemed so much more relaxed and good about yourself when rocking on your porch. I thought this was a morning part-time job? What happened to put you in high gear? Phillipa
Posted by rskontos on October 18, 2007, at 22:11:09
In reply to Re: adjectives » LlurpsieNoodle, posted by Phillipa on October 18, 2007, at 21:24:12
Llurpsie, try to forget the man issue and go back to T. Tell him it made you feel unsupportive and man vs woman. See if he can help you re-connect. If not, then you might have a problem with him but that is no reflection on you. You did nothing wrong. When we are down it is so easy to feel like everything is against us so don't try to read too much into this session to the point of making yourself feel so broken. I hate that you seem so down. Workingso much doesn't help either. When you tired too everything seems so much worse. So try to rest and don't think about like Scarlett O'Hara just think about it another day. Give yourself time to rest and go to T and tell how that whole session made you feel and your the patient not your H. YOur T should be on your side and I hope you have a better session the next go round. Try to take care of yourself and rest. rk
Posted by muffled on October 18, 2007, at 22:32:08
In reply to Re: adjectives, posted by rskontos on October 18, 2007, at 22:11:09
which we ALL are.
T's included.
Men included.
Alla us.
Imperfect.
S'OK.
We just goto keep going and growing.
Ya, i gonna be a rapper!
LOL.
Wish you wouldn't kick your own *ss LL.
You done ALOT of good stuff.
Cut yourself some slack.
AND you can't control the health stuff.
You do the best you can around it.
If my DH had erectile probs due to high blood pressure...is it his fault? Is he defective? Broken?
No, he just has a health issue that needs to be dealt with.
And TOGETHER we would deal with it.
(this is facticious, but listen to me! i won't even freakin DO IT....I SO fulla sh*t...)
But I mean well.
Hope you can feel OK LL>
M
Posted by LlurpsieNoodle on October 19, 2007, at 11:51:02
In reply to imperfect human being, posted by muffled on October 18, 2007, at 22:32:08
thanks for replies everyone,
I guess I see your point muff. thank goodness no ed here...I'm just going to go back to rocking on my porch...
t today was okay he says I'm doing much much better. He was really surprised to hear how well I was doing in all areas of my life and told me that I was making lots of progress. at that point I didn't feel it necessary to bring up the issue that prompted this post. whatever. wait a few days and then see what happens anyways.
rsk- how did you KNOW that gone with the wind is one of my all-time favorite movies?
-Ll
Posted by rskontos on October 19, 2007, at 13:49:34
In reply to Re: imperfect human being, posted by LlurpsieNoodle on October 19, 2007, at 11:51:02
I could claim I am clairvoyant but I am not. I just love that phrase and do that often. think well I'll just think about it tomorrow like Scarlett. But you know it is also a my all-time favorite movie too along with my daughter. I would have loved to have a Tara, wouldn't you, LL. On the back porch of Tara, you would have a nice rocking chair, can't you just imagine it?! Glad T was better . You are not am imperfect human being, just had imperfect experiences.
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