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Posted by Scentedgarden on October 11, 2007, at 12:40:53
its a sad place 99% full of crap posts. same old sh*t every day.. bla bla bla..me me me ... wish id never clapped eyes on it. life is so much better than this sh*t hole. whot a joke..lol
Posted by B2chica on October 11, 2007, at 12:52:22
In reply to i've now despise this website and the crap posted!, posted by Scentedgarden on October 11, 2007, at 12:40:53
i am going to hijack this thread a bit and turn a negative insight into a positive one.
it's interesting that sometimes the posts seem about similar topics...but the funny part is, is that is Exactly what's needed.
i mean 5 months ago people were probably talking about anger outbursts or integrations and i may have bi-passed them because then didn't pertain to what was happening in the moment to me.
now, that's all i can seem to focus on because it is affecting me in my life right now.and of course you see common threads about dealing with T transference and things...because it happens to different posters at different times, and we all need support from others with experience. or to feel that we are not odd, or unlovable.
and about the "mememe" thing. its SO true that we post about ourselves and our worries and fears and pain. but that is SO what we need here. most of us (though i don't want to speak for everyone) never really had that growing up..or even in our current lives. and here, here we find comradere, and compassion and understanding.
people that can say, yes, you infact ARE hurting quite badly and i understand and its ok to feel that.
and that's pretty much what therapy is. it is initially a selfish thing...but how can we possibly the best mother, sister, daughter, friend if we can't be the best ME.so lets work on our ME's.
lets talk about things Over and over until its out of our systems.
and lets do it with others who understand and care!b2c.
Posted by 10derHeart on October 11, 2007, at 13:06:35
In reply to Re: i've now despise this website and the crap pos, posted by B2chica on October 11, 2007, at 12:52:22
Posted by Phillipa on October 11, 2007, at 13:17:41
In reply to Re: i've now despise this website and the crap pos, posted by B2chica on October 11, 2007, at 12:52:22
Excellent post B2. I agree topics change. I just need guidance now sometimes not and topics change. Phillipa
Posted by Phillipa on October 11, 2007, at 13:19:34
In reply to Re: i've now despise this website and the crap pos » B2chica, posted by Phillipa on October 11, 2007, at 13:17:41
Sorry did it again always forget to change the subject line my apologies to all as this board is great. Phillipa
Posted by LadyBug on October 11, 2007, at 14:18:59
In reply to i've now despise this website and the crap posted!, posted by Scentedgarden on October 11, 2007, at 12:40:53
WOW
When I don't like something I have the freedom not to partake in it. If people don't like what they read on babble then they don't have to read it.
Take what you like and leave the rest. No one told you you have to be here.
Sorry- you have such an attitude?!?!?!
Posted by Poet on October 11, 2007, at 14:49:03
In reply to i've now despise this website and the crap posted!, posted by Scentedgarden on October 11, 2007, at 12:40:53
I don't see it as posting the same old "sh*t" I see it as people with similar experiences, feelings and thoughts looking to talk to others who can identify.
Yes, I've posted about CSA, depression, etc. before, but they are not going to go away on their own.
Poet
Posted by Dr. Bob on October 11, 2007, at 21:42:50
In reply to Re: i've now despise this website and the crap posted! » Scentedgarden, posted by LadyBug on October 11, 2007, at 14:18:59
> you have such an attitude?!?!?!
Please be sensitive to the feelings of others even if yours are hurt.
But please don't take this personally, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're a bad person.
If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please first see the FAQ:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforceFollow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
Thanks,
Bob
Posted by muffled on October 11, 2007, at 22:06:06
In reply to Re: i've now despise this website and the crap pos, posted by B2chica on October 11, 2007, at 12:52:22
Posted by Wittgenstein on October 12, 2007, at 8:01:55
In reply to Re: please be sensitive » LadyBug, posted by Dr. Bob on October 11, 2007, at 21:42:50
Dr. Bob,
I see why the comment LadyBug made was picked up (although I understand her motivation for writing this).
However, surely it follows to caution Scentedgarden on similar grounds?
" its a sad place 99% full of crap posts. "
If I would write that a given post was crap (a direct criticism of a given poster) - I would expect to be cautioned - likewise, surely it is equally insensitive to criticise the majority of the posts as being 'crap' (and hence criticising the majority of posters to this board - there are of course posters who have written more than 1% of the posts on this board)?
This thread has upset me somewhat but what has upset me more is that LadyBug has been cautioned yet Scentedgarden's post has gone without comment. It seems unfair in my opinion.
Witti
Posted by ClearSkies on October 12, 2007, at 8:13:23
In reply to Re: please be sensitive » Dr. Bob, posted by Wittgenstein on October 12, 2007, at 8:01:55
> Dr. Bob,
>
> I see why the comment LadyBug made was picked up (although I understand her motivation for writing this).
>
> However, surely it follows to caution Scentedgarden on similar grounds?
>
> " its a sad place 99% full of crap posts. "
>
> If I would write that a given post was crap (a direct criticism of a given poster) - I would expect to be cautioned - likewise, surely it is equally insensitive to criticise the majority of the posts as being 'crap' (and hence criticising the majority of posters to this board - there are of course posters who have written more than 1% of the posts on this board)?
>
> This thread has upset me somewhat but what has upset me more is that LadyBug has been cautioned yet Scentedgarden's post has gone without comment. It seems unfair in my opinion.
>
> Witti
>
>
Hi there, I wanted to let you know that I sent a notification regarding that particular post, but was told by a deputy that SG had already been blocked on another thread. It does raise the question (for me) though, whether if someone has been blocked for one action, other posts made at or around the same time should be considered as well, since they are also uncivil, IMO. That is - should multiple incivilities compound a person's block? And, if this is the case, should it be noted on the thread so that the incivility is flagged as being caught?ClearSkies
Posted by LadyBug on October 12, 2007, at 15:12:30
In reply to Re: please be sensitive » Dr. Bob, posted by Wittgenstein on October 12, 2007, at 8:01:55
Thanks for standing up for me and I have to agree with what you said. I meant no harm, I was angry. Something I try to stay away from here but it's not the first time I felt a certain person has been out too critical. I will let it go but now I am hurt by the warning from Dr. Bob.
I have all the hurt in my life I can handle right now. :o(
Posted by LadyBug on October 12, 2007, at 15:16:18
In reply to Re: please be sensitive - Dr Bob and » Wittgenstein, posted by ClearSkies on October 12, 2007, at 8:13:23
Are you referring to me clearsky's? I'm so sorry for any hurt I may have caused, that's the last thing I'd do to anyone.
I have more than enough of my own pain going on right now. :o(
LadyBug
Posted by ClearSkies on October 12, 2007, at 15:38:04
In reply to Re: please be sensitive - Dr Bob and » ClearSkies, posted by LadyBug on October 12, 2007, at 15:16:18
> Are you referring to me clearsky's? I'm so sorry for any hurt I may have caused, that's the last thing I'd do to anyone.
> I have more than enough of my own pain going on right now. :o(
> LadyBug
No, I'm not referring to you, but to the poster who has already been blocked. Jeez, this is confusing!! Hope I didn't offend you.CS
Posted by LadyBug on October 12, 2007, at 16:58:51
In reply to Re: please be sensitive - Dr Bob and » LadyBug, posted by ClearSkies on October 12, 2007, at 15:38:04
CS
Whoosh, thank goodness, I was worried so I'm glad you let me know. Thanks. I'd never hurt anyone.
LadyBug
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