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Posted by happyflower on January 5, 2006, at 13:44:09
Left him a long message. I told him how he made me feel and everything I have said here. I even said he was being a big jerk, lol (to me he is). I told him I don't expect him to call me back, he can if he wants to, but I haven't deceided if I am keeping that appointment or not because he has turned my brain into mush. So I feel like I got it out of my system, I need to sleep. Now I bet he really likes me! LOL He can put that in his pipe and smoke it!
Posted by Voce on January 5, 2006, at 14:21:15
In reply to I broke down and called him, posted by happyflower on January 5, 2006, at 13:44:09
HF, I laughed out loud when I read your post, which is bad 'cause I'm at work. I'm glad you did that. Do you feel a bit better now? ;-)
Posted by LadyBug on January 5, 2006, at 14:27:21
In reply to Re: I broke down and called him » happyflower, posted by Voce on January 5, 2006, at 14:21:15
Good job Happy,
I'm sure what you said is just how you feel.
He needed to hear this from you!!!!!!! And what you said now puts it in his court! Now's it's the wait and wonder game again. Something tells me he's going to make up some kind of excuse for him being such a jerk!! Try to blame it on you, or a lack of communication or something that couldn't possibly be HIS fault!!! Let me know what happens. Good Luck!!
Hope he has a good pipe to smoke, he's going to need it! I hope it smokes him out of his office!!!! LOL
LadyBug
Posted by fairywings on January 5, 2006, at 15:17:19
In reply to I broke down and called him, posted by happyflower on January 5, 2006, at 13:44:09
I'm glad you called. Just getting it off your chest might help. If you go to your appt., please don't let him make his shortness with you be your fault. He should own his mistake, and please don't let him take your sense of worth away from you. You are worth more than this one relationship. The fact that you are angry is good, keeps you in there fighting. As much as I hate that, I think we either fight, turn inward, or quit.
My ex T made a mistake, and wouldn't own up to it, he even said.."I could defend myself, but..." Then he basically blew off the fact that he broke the boundaries of good therapy. So, if you go, maybe think about what you want to say to him, and say what's eating you. Maybe if you go hearing him out, after you tell him how you feel, will soften you, maybe not. I hope you go, I hope it works out for the best.
fw
Posted by happyflower on January 5, 2006, at 17:33:59
In reply to Re: I broke down and called him » happyflower, posted by Voce on January 5, 2006, at 14:21:15
> HF, I laughed out loud when I read your post, which is bad 'cause I'm at work. I'm glad you did that. Do you feel a bit better now? ;-)
>I hope don't get in trouble for laughing at work! LOL I do feel a bit better, at least I am not crying. So what do you think my chances are of getting laid? LOL Just kidding! :)
Posted by happyflower on January 5, 2006, at 17:35:55
In reply to Re: I broke down and called him, posted by LadyBug on January 5, 2006, at 14:27:21
Posted by happyflower on January 5, 2006, at 17:41:02
In reply to Re: I broke down and called him, posted by LadyBug on January 5, 2006, at 14:27:21
> Good job Happy,
Thanks Ladybug! :)
> I'm sure what you said is just how you feel.
> He needed to hear this from you!!!!!!! And what you said now puts it in his court! Now's it's the wait and wonder game again.Yup, he didn't call me back! LOL But I didn't call him until late this afternoon. A great ending don't you think? LOL So should I smile at him big when I see his butt at the gym? Okay, I am letting off steam. I am nuts I know. LOL
Something tells me he's going to make up some kind of excuse for him being such a jerk!! Try to blame it on you, or a lack of communication or something that couldn't possibly be HIS fault!!!Or better yet TRANSFERENCE of my DH! LOL I sure hope he doesn't try to go there.
Let me know what happens. Good Luck!!
> Hope he has a good pipe to smoke, he's going to need it! I hope it smokes him out of his
office!!!! LOLThanks! LOL Yeah, from his past, he should be good at smoking it! LOL This is the best stuff he has had in awhile! :) So do you think I made him mad?
Posted by happyflower on January 5, 2006, at 17:47:25
In reply to Re: I broke down and called him » happyflower, posted by fairywings on January 5, 2006, at 15:17:19
Hi Fairywings,
Thanks for the advice, I do feel better since I got it off my chest. I am not crying anymore which is good, but boy my skin around my eyes feels raw. I still feel like squirting him with water at the gym, but I won't, I will take your advice. If I do go to my appointment next Tues, it will right after my yoga class, maybe I could bring my bottle with me and get him in his office. So do you think he loves me? LOL I wonder if he is having a nice stiff drink tonight in my honor? Whew, I feel better now. I feel only slightly bad I called him a big jerk, but he should be able to take it right? Its his fault for getting to "express myself" instead of staying quiet about it. I wonder how he likes me now? LOL Okay, I will stop, I think I need something to eat, I am getting light headed.
Posted by happyflower on January 5, 2006, at 18:48:39
In reply to I broke down and called him, posted by happyflower on January 5, 2006, at 13:44:09
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