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Posted by B2chica on December 13, 2005, at 13:21:08
i'm sorry about my weird freak out yesterday. i didn't know what else to do but to post on babble. i'm so sorry if my words offended anyone.
i did go to my T appt yesterday, and i did bring my post(s). i was so disgusted with myself i couldn't read them so i gave them to him to read. i think some of the things surprised him cuz he mentioned there were things i hadn't told him yet... i went through so many emotions yesterday i was already tired when i got there. but we started to talk about my 'mother' just barely and he was concerned with what i was saying and what i said in my posts and how i was acting so he wanted to know if i wanted to see him three times this week, and i agreed. between last weekend, the holidays and issues with my 'mother' starting to peek out...i feel i need him. it's ok to need him he said.
i DO know i need you all. and i'm happy to admit that.
thank you for all your support.
drained but bit better.
b2c.
Posted by happyflower on December 13, 2005, at 13:31:30
In reply to a bit better....thank you, posted by B2chica on December 13, 2005, at 13:21:08
I am so glad you brought those letters in to your T. That is so great, and to have him respond like he did is so wonderful. :) It must be a tough time of year, I bet T's get a huge share of clients needing them. I know you are not alone, because I feel the same way. I am proud of you for knowing what you needed and accecpting it from your T . :) You go girl! :)
Posted by B2chica on December 13, 2005, at 13:35:37
In reply to WONDERFUL!!!!!!!, posted by happyflower on December 13, 2005, at 13:31:30
thnx HF that's nice to hear. i was really doubting what i did, it makes me feel so needy. but the sad fact is...i do need him. i still hate needing him but today i'm able to push all that away. mostly cuz i'm afraid when the little one comes near (she makes me feel so uncomfortable) or the teen pops up from nowhere. she's a crazy little thing.
b2c.
Posted by Anneke on December 13, 2005, at 13:40:22
In reply to a bit better....thank you, posted by B2chica on December 13, 2005, at 13:21:08
Good for you both for posting and for showing the posts to your T. You are taking good care of yourself and of the little girl and teenager inside of you. And, you're being a great role model for the rest of us!!! Anneke
Posted by muffled on December 13, 2005, at 15:44:33
In reply to Re: WONDERFUL!!!!!!! » happyflower, posted by B2chica on December 13, 2005, at 13:35:37
> thnx HF that's nice to hear. i was really doubting what i did, it makes me feel so needy. but the sad fact is...i do need him. i still hate needing him but today i'm able to push all that away. mostly cuz i'm afraid when the little one comes near (she makes me feel so uncomfortable) or the teen pops up from nowhere. she's a crazy little thing.
***I know this was happyflowers reply but I just wanted to be able to read it, cuz really its such an amazing post to me.
1. that apparently you were able to accept HF niceness and take it in?
2. That you can say you need your T. (Just this weekend I sent my T a fax that said "I don't need her, I don't need anybody", so you moving ahead girl. apparently I'm not :(, but I can learn stuff from you. If you can do it then fuckit so can I, right?
3. That you are able to identify that the little one makes you uncomfortable.
4. And then it made me smile when you said your teen was a 'crazy little thing'. Cuz that sounded very accepting of you towards her. And sometimes I think its just what those inside ones need.So, while I was worried that you were freaking out and might get carried away re: si, I was also smiling like crazy cuz I think its so wonderful for your young ones to be able to come out. My kid was just freaking out with happiness for your guys.
I guess for me, the thing of it is, is that sometimes my inside ones can be a little wild and the emotion sh*t scares the living crap outta me, ultimately, I(who I consider Adult me) am in control. I CAN stop the others once I recognize whats going on.
And the thing for me too, it was hard for me to realize that my inside kid, IS a kid. Like really. I goto treat her as such. Teach her whats not appropriate behavior etc. I kept thinking I'm an adult so really she is too. But she is NOT. Shes most definately a kid. and I'm doing much better withrelating to her now.
Well, long winded, sorry.
Hope you do many long winded posts so I can learn from you too.
Thanks,
Happy for you,
Muffly
Posted by Tamar on December 13, 2005, at 16:31:20
In reply to Re: WONDERFUL!!!!!!!B2chica, posted by muffled on December 13, 2005, at 15:44:33
Great post, Muffled.
> If you can do it then f(*)ckit so can I, right?
Just a typo, right? Thumb missed the space bar?
Posted by Tamar on December 13, 2005, at 17:28:30
In reply to a bit better....thank you, posted by B2chica on December 13, 2005, at 13:21:08
I’m so glad you’re feeling a bit better and getting lots of support from your T.
Tamar
Posted by muffled on December 13, 2005, at 18:31:55
In reply to TYPO! » muffled, posted by Tamar on December 13, 2005, at 16:31:20
> Great post, Muffled.
>
> > If you can do it then f(*)ckit so can I, right?
>
> Just a typo, right? Thumb missed the space bar?
>
>***ooooops! Thanks Tamar. I just use it as one word but forgot the asterisk. I wasn't hurting anyone and it wasn't on purpose so I'm sure it'll be ok. But Just in case SORRY! I was just very intent on writing the post and sending it out b4 I had to go.
Perhaps if its an issue it can be programmed into the program that atkes em out?
See how calm I am, good muffled!
Posted by Dr. Bob on December 14, 2005, at 11:44:51
In reply to Re: TYPO! » Tamar, posted by muffled on December 13, 2005, at 18:31:55
Posted by fairywings on December 14, 2005, at 19:07:04
In reply to a bit better....thank you, posted by B2chica on December 13, 2005, at 13:21:08
Hi B2,
you are so brave, i hope you have a good holiday even though you're having strong feelings.
fw
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