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Posted by terrics on November 15, 2005, at 14:36:30
My mother is dying and it is wearing on me. I feel anger, hurt, and sadness about it.
I have become very depressed. After she dies I think that I have had enough. Yet I feel that I can't do this to my sisters. I really have had it though. I miss you all and all the wonderful support I get here. terrics
Posted by muffled on November 15, 2005, at 15:32:34
In reply to Miss you all and poss. trigger*, posted by terrics on November 15, 2005, at 14:36:30
> My mother is dying and it is wearing on me. I feel anger, hurt, and sadness about it.
> I have become very depressed. After she dies I think that I have had enough. Yet I feel that I can't do this to my sisters. I really have had it though. I miss you all and all the wonderful support I get here. terricsTerrics, sounds like your in such a hard place right now. But try to remember its not forever.
If your talking about suicide, then do remember that it does hurt others, badly. There is NO way around that one.
Get help, don't be afraid to ask. Let people know whats going on, make them understand you mean it.
Maybe a stay in hospital after your Mom passes, to try and get some meds. working for you. Or before if you need it.
Terrics, its so wonderful of you to post as we have been thinking of you. It must have been very hard to post and I thank you for it.
Could you post more? Its ok. I think lots of us have been where you are, whether you will beleive it truly or not.
And we have come out of the pit.
We have life and hope.
((((Terrics)))) I'm so sorry you hurt.
Muffled.
Posted by fallsfall on November 15, 2005, at 20:12:40
In reply to Miss you all and poss. trigger*, posted by terrics on November 15, 2005, at 14:36:30
Please get some IRL help, Terrics.
Watching your mom die must be so hard. You deserve some support. Do you have a therapist these days?
Please keep in touch with the board, here, too.
And eat ice cream.
Posted by Dinah on November 15, 2005, at 20:44:21
In reply to Miss you all and poss. trigger*, posted by terrics on November 15, 2005, at 14:36:30
Terrics, Falls and Muffled are right. I've been there and I know how hard it is to watch a parent die. My therapist half carried me through it. Do you have someone who can help carry the burden you're bearing?
Posted by B2chica on November 16, 2005, at 9:10:12
In reply to Miss you all and poss. trigger*, posted by terrics on November 15, 2005, at 14:36:30
PLEASE reach out for help IRL. i care about you terrics!
i'm soooo sorry you are dealing with so much right now. but we're here for you. ALways!
see if you can find a T for a while like someone else mentioned to help 'carry' you through this rough time.
please keep posting.
cares
b2c.
Posted by antigua on November 16, 2005, at 12:33:39
In reply to Re: Miss you all and poss. trigger*, posted by B2chica on November 16, 2005, at 9:10:12
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