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Posted by crushedout on February 13, 2005, at 17:32:07
I think I've ended it with that woman I told you guys about. I feel sad, but I think it's the right thing to do. And I have to remember how important it was for me to be attracted to someone new (not my ex-T).I think I've found someone else who makes more sense for me. It's less intense but more right, more fun, more sane, I don't know.
Still, it's hard. I hate ending relationships. Wasn't that fast? Oh, well.
Posted by Susan47 on February 13, 2005, at 18:56:46
In reply to Dating is complicated, posted by crushedout on February 13, 2005, at 17:32:07
Yup, oh well and it does sound like a good decision. I really hope it didn't hurt anybody.
Posted by Dinah on February 13, 2005, at 18:59:30
In reply to Dating is complicated, posted by crushedout on February 13, 2005, at 17:32:07
Yeah, it is hard.
I'm sorry it didn't work out, but you discovered something important about yourself and had a good time while it lasted.
I'm glad to hear things are going well with your other relationship. Fun, right and sane is important too.
Posted by crushedout on February 13, 2005, at 19:19:27
In reply to Re: Dating is complicated, posted by Susan47 on February 13, 2005, at 18:56:46
We definitely both got hurt and I think especially her. She fell pretty hard kinda quick which was making me very anxious. I feel guilty because I really like her and she's vulnerable. But that's part of why I ended it so soon -- I thought it would be harder later on.The new one I've only had two dates with, and it's nice but who knows where it's going. I'm trying not to get to far ahead of myself. But I also didn't want to doom the relationship by trying to date another person at the same time. Which was the main reason, actually, I decided to end it today.
Posted by sunny10 on February 14, 2005, at 8:18:29
In reply to Re: Dating is complicated Dinah and » Susan47, posted by crushedout on February 13, 2005, at 19:19:27
good for you for not being willing to hurt this other person for any longer than you had to.
Gosh, I really wish MY last relationship hadn't been long, drawn out, and ended with me ultimately thrown away by my ex like so much garbage!
It would have been so easy for you to ignore the realities and only stuck with the fun parts- I am just so awed by your strength of character.
As great as you are; just continue to be yourself and you will find the PERFECT one for you- I'm convinced of it.
-sunny10
Posted by crushedout on February 14, 2005, at 19:21:46
In reply to Re: you are a very kind person, crushedout, posted by sunny10 on February 14, 2005, at 8:18:29
wow, sunny, this is so very nice to hear. thank you for words of encouragement. they fill me with hope, truly.:)
> It would have been so easy for you to ignore the realities and only stuck with the fun parts- I am just so awed by your strength of character.
>
> As great as you are; just continue to be yourself and you will find the PERFECT one for you- I'm convinced of it.
>
> -sunny10
Posted by sunny10 on February 15, 2005, at 11:26:08
In reply to Re: you are a very kind person, crushedout » sunny10, posted by crushedout on February 14, 2005, at 19:21:46
well, you can't read my facial expressions, so I have to WRITE my reaction, that's all!!
I was very touched by the honest goodness of your post and just had to let you know!
Posted by crushedout on February 15, 2005, at 11:31:03
In reply to Re: crushedout, posted by sunny10 on February 15, 2005, at 11:26:08
well, i appreciate it very much.
Posted by sunny10 on February 15, 2005, at 12:39:40
In reply to Re: crushedout » sunny10, posted by crushedout on February 15, 2005, at 11:31:03
Posted by Susan47 on February 15, 2005, at 22:55:53
In reply to Re: (mwah) (nm), posted by sunny10 on February 15, 2005, at 12:39:40
Now, I believe those Mwah's were all started by me. Those are my Mwah's you're throwing out here, there, and everywhere.
Just so you know.
Posted by sunny10 on February 16, 2005, at 7:53:28
In reply to Re: (mwah) » sunny10, posted by Susan47 on February 15, 2005, at 22:55:53
and love ya for 'em !!!!
Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, you know...
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