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Re:

Posted by sdb on February 6, 2009, at 9:47:37

In reply to unethical use of civ. guidelines by deputies} bob, posted by sdb on January 26, 2009, at 6:12:27

hello, I love you all, especially Dinah!

Dr. Bob claims high standards in ethical issues but he seems not to care about it. That is somewhat, I must say, disappointing.

I have concerns about the deputy punishing system that is based on not clear rules that allows a lot of arbitrariness.
Punishing people can damage people.

 

Re: » sdb

Posted by fayeroe on February 6, 2009, at 10:00:13

In reply to Re:, posted by sdb on February 6, 2009, at 9:47:37

~~~I have concerns about the deputy punishing system that is based on not clear rules that allows a lot of arbitrariness.
Punishing people can damage people.~~~

I cannot imagine how a poster feels when Babble is their only 'safe' place and they get kicked in the head. If a poster is in a "free world" situation where family and friends aren't supportive, it has to hurt like hell to be kicked out here. I prefer "kicked" over blocked.

I've been there and because my investment here is so small, I go my merry way. However I think that so many posters view Babble as family. And most of us already know what rejection/ punishment feels. It sucks.

I say "what goes 'round, comes 'round" However when there is so much denial going on that I question whether or not the lesson will be learned. I am not talking about posters, I am talking about administration.

 

Lou's request for a perception-heighhoeps » sdb

Posted by Lou Pilder on February 6, 2009, at 10:11:26

In reply to Re:, posted by sdb on February 6, 2009, at 9:47:37

> hello, I love you all, especially Dinah!
>
> Dr. Bob claims high standards in ethical issues but he seems not to care about it. That is somewhat, I must say, disappointing.
>
> I have concerns about the deputy punishing system that is based on not clear rules that allows a lot of arbitrariness.
> Punishing people can damage people.

sdb,
You wrote,[...love..all...especially Dinah...(Mr. Hsiung) claims high standards...I have concerns...].
I am interested in more of what your perception could be concerning what you wrote and have the following questions;
A. redacted by me
B. What are the high standards that you are referring to in relation to, let's say, if they concern statements that could lead another to feel put down/accused, or something else, and could you post here some examples of those that you are concerned about as being disappointing?
C. Is there disappointment to you in the aspect of doing what could be good for the community as a whole that Mr. Hsiung writes in his TOS to trust him about? If so, could you post here some examples?
Lou

 

Lou's request for examples-rvrnejpt » fayeroe

Posted by Lou Pilder on February 6, 2009, at 13:29:32

In reply to Re: » sdb, posted by fayeroe on February 6, 2009, at 10:00:13

> ~~~I have concerns about the deputy punishing system that is based on not clear rules that allows a lot of arbitrariness.
> Punishing people can damage people.~~~
>
> I cannot imagine how a poster feels when Babble is their only 'safe' place and they get kicked in the head. If a poster is in a "free world" situation where family and friends aren't supportive, it has to hurt like hell to be kicked out here. I prefer "kicked" over blocked.
>
> I've been there and because my investment here is so small, I go my merry way. However I think that so many posters view Babble as family. And most of us already know what rejection/ punishment feels. It sucks.
>
> I say "what goes 'round, comes 'round" However when there is so much denial going on that I question whether or not the lesson will be learned. I am not talking about posters, I am talking about administration.

fayeroe,
You wrote,[...denial...]
Could you list some examples of the denial that you are referring to? If you could, then I could have the opportunity to examine any examples that you post here and see what could arise out of those situations, concerning how the denial could or could not have the potential, if any, to cause harm to the mental health of any members here.

 

Re: also my mistake

Posted by sdb on February 12, 2009, at 13:22:22

In reply to Re: » sdb, posted by fayeroe on February 6, 2009, at 10:00:13

> ~~~I have concerns about the deputy punishing system that is based on not clear rules that allows a lot of arbitrariness.
> Punishing people can damage people.~~~
>
> I cannot imagine how a poster feels when Babble is their only 'safe' place and they get kicked in the head. If a poster is in a "free world" situation where family and friends aren't supportive, it has to hurt like hell to be kicked out here. I prefer "kicked" over blocked.
>
> I've been there and because my investment here is so small, I go my merry way. However I think that so many posters view Babble as family. And most of us already know what rejection/ punishment feels. It sucks.
>
> I say "what goes 'round, comes 'round" However when there is so much denial going on that I question whether or not the lesson will be learned. I am not talking about posters, I am talking about administration.

I also make mistakes. I really do not think that mentioning the similarity in history was a mistake. But after a warning (to be against the rules, whatever that means) maybe to post the content again instead to make a link to it was false.

 

Re: also my mistake » sdb

Posted by Deputy Dinah on February 12, 2009, at 13:31:14

In reply to Re: also my mistake, posted by sdb on February 12, 2009, at 13:22:22

Just to clarify, Dr. Bob considers links to materials that would be considered uncivil also to be uncivil.

 

Dr. Bob considers links to materials... }} Dinah

Posted by sdb on February 12, 2009, at 14:44:02

In reply to Re: also my mistake » sdb, posted by Deputy Dinah on February 12, 2009, at 13:31:14

> Just to clarify, Dr. Bob considers links to materials that would be considered uncivil also to be uncivil.

can you please show me where it is written that 'links to materials that would be...' ? I think that it is of importance that people can read first what is allowed or not before they get punished and harmed.

thank you.

 

Re: Dr. Bob considers links to materials... }} Dinah » sdb

Posted by Deputy Dinah on February 12, 2009, at 16:42:43

In reply to Dr. Bob considers links to materials... }} Dinah, posted by sdb on February 12, 2009, at 14:44:02

Not everything is included in the FAQ. Deputies act on the site guidelines as applied and interpreted by Dr. Bob in the past. Or if there is no precedent, we ask him. This has been Dr. Bob's stance on the matter of links for some time.

 

shaking head.. }} Dinah

Posted by fayeroe on February 12, 2009, at 16:48:56

In reply to Re: Dr. Bob considers links to materials... }} Dinah » sdb, posted by Deputy Dinah on February 12, 2009, at 16:42:43

> Not everything is included in the FAQ. Deputies act on the site guidelines as applied and interpreted by Dr. Bob in the past. Or if there is no precedent, we ask him. This has been Dr. Bob's stance on the matter of links for some time.


I had a history professor in college that gave multiple choice tests. The catch was that all four answers were right, we just had to pick the one that he liked most.

Sound familiar?


>

 

No, not really (nm) » fayeroe

Posted by Dinah on February 12, 2009, at 16:53:49

In reply to shaking head.. }} Dinah, posted by fayeroe on February 12, 2009, at 16:48:56

 

Re: Dr. Bob considers links to materials... }} Dinah » Deputy Dinah

Posted by BayLeaf on February 12, 2009, at 19:31:24

In reply to Re: Dr. Bob considers links to materials... }} Dinah » sdb, posted by Deputy Dinah on February 12, 2009, at 16:42:43

How are new people supposed to know about the undocumented mystery rules? Could someone type them for his approval, then he could just update the FAQ? Is he willing to do that?

It doesn't seem kind to new people to be slapped on the wrist for not knowing things its impossible to know. ya know?

Bay

 

Re: Dr. Bob considers links to materials... }} Dinah » BayLeaf

Posted by Dinah on February 12, 2009, at 20:06:08

In reply to Re: Dr. Bob considers links to materials... }} Dinah » Deputy Dinah, posted by BayLeaf on February 12, 2009, at 19:31:24

I don't think that Dr. Bob considers interpretations of the rules to be new rules. The rules state not to post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down. He considers posting "links" to be posting "anything".

I have no objections to adding that to the FAQ. But there will always be interpretations that aren't codified. Which is another reason why PBC's should be seen more as information or a reminder than a slap on the wrist.

 

Re: Dr. Bob considers links to materials... }} Dinah

Posted by fayeroe on February 13, 2009, at 8:56:16

In reply to Re: Dr. Bob considers links to materials... }} Dinah » BayLeaf, posted by Dinah on February 12, 2009, at 20:06:08

> I don't think that Dr. Bob considers interpretations of the rules to be new rules. The rules state not to post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down. He considers posting "links" to be posting "anything".
>
> I have no objections to adding that to the FAQ. But there will always be interpretations that aren't codified. Which is another reason why PBC's should be seen more as information or a reminder than a slap on the wrist.

Are these "teaching reminders" taken into consideration when a block is issued?

 

Re: Dr. Bob considers links to materials... }} Dinah » fayeroe

Posted by Dinah on February 13, 2009, at 9:19:01

In reply to Re: Dr. Bob considers links to materials... }} Dinah, posted by fayeroe on February 13, 2009, at 8:56:16

Blocks are given when behavior continues after a PBC. This doesn't mean the same day or the same thread. But we don't like to block, and don't do it unless we think a poster has been warned about the rules, or is familiar with the rules.

I suppose that, like interpretations, does depend on judgment. But Dr. Bob is aware of what we do, and he can always overrule deputy decisions, and offers us a lot of feedback as well.

 

Re:

Posted by sdb on February 14, 2009, at 15:06:03

In reply to Re: Dr. Bob considers links to materials... }} Dinah » fayeroe, posted by Dinah on February 13, 2009, at 9:19:01

I remember chapter 4 of 'human zoo' by desmond morris. Myself I have not the view of a politician but the view of somebody who tries to understand nature.

'question: what is the difference between black natives slicing up a white missionary, and a white mob lynching a helpless Negro? Answer: very little - and, for the victims, none at all. Whatever the reasons, whatever the excuses, whatever the motives, the basic behavior mechanism is the same. They are both cases of members of the in-group attacking members of the out-group.....The reason is obvious enough: we are, each one of us, a member of some particular in-group and it is difficult for us to view the problems of inter-group conflict without, however unconsciously, taking sides. Somehow, until I have finished writing and you have finished reading this chapter, we must try to step outside our groups and gaze down on the battlefields of the human animal with the unbiased eyes of a hovering Martian. It is not going to be easy, and I must make it clear at the outset that nothing I say should be construed as implying that I am favoring one group as against another, or suggesting that one group is inevitably superior to another....

...I have already discussed these conditions, but it will help to summarize them briefly. They are:
1. The development of fixed human territories.
2. The swelling of tribes into over-crowded super-tribes
3. The invention of weapons that kill at a distance
4. The removal of leaders from the front line of battle
5. The creation of a specialized class of professional killers
6. The growth of technological inequalities between the groups
7. The increase of frustrated status aggression within the groups
8. The demands of the inter-group status rivalries of the leaders
9. The loss of social identity within the super-tribes
10. The exploitation of the co-operative urge to aid friends under attack.
The one condition I have deliberately omitted from this list is the development of differing ideologies. As a zoologist, viewing man as an animal, I find it hard to take such differences seriously in the present context. If one assesses the inter-group situation in terms of actual behavior, rather than verbalized theorizing, differences in ideology fade into insignificance alongside the more basic conditions. They are merely the excuses, desperately sought for to provide reasons highsounding enough to justify the destruction of thousand of human lives.'

I am sorry if you think that this does not apply to Hitler, Bush and historically irrelevant persons like me and you.
When theres no mutation or a gen therapy man will be at war with man.
I post this here for educational purpose. I am no longer participant in the politics forum because it is unethical.

 

Lou's request for identification-dhngllngmdifyer? » sdb

Posted by Lou Pilder on February 14, 2009, at 15:20:03

In reply to Re:, posted by sdb on February 14, 2009, at 15:06:03

> I remember chapter 4 of 'human zoo' by desmond morris. Myself I have not the view of a politician but the view of somebody who tries to understand nature.
>
> 'question: what is the difference between black natives slicing up a white missionary, and a white mob lynching a helpless Negro? Answer: very little - and, for the victims, none at all. Whatever the reasons, whatever the excuses, whatever the motives, the basic behavior mechanism is the same. They are both cases of members of the in-group attacking members of the out-group.....The reason is obvious enough: we are, each one of us, a member of some particular in-group and it is difficult for us to view the problems of inter-group conflict without, however unconsciously, taking sides. Somehow, until I have finished writing and you have finished reading this chapter, we must try to step outside our groups and gaze down on the battlefields of the human animal with the unbiased eyes of a hovering Martian. It is not going to be easy, and I must make it clear at the outset that nothing I say should be construed as implying that I am favoring one group as against another, or suggesting that one group is inevitably superior to another....
>
> ...I have already discussed these conditions, but it will help to summarize them briefly. They are:
> 1. The development of fixed human territories.
> 2. The swelling of tribes into over-crowded super-tribes
> 3. The invention of weapons that kill at a distance
> 4. The removal of leaders from the front line of battle
> 5. The creation of a specialized class of professional killers
> 6. The growth of technological inequalities between the groups
> 7. The increase of frustrated status aggression within the groups
> 8. The demands of the inter-group status rivalries of the leaders
> 9. The loss of social identity within the super-tribes
> 10. The exploitation of the co-operative urge to aid friends under attack.
> The one condition I have deliberately omitted from this list is the development of differing ideologies. As a zoologist, viewing man as an animal, I find it hard to take such differences seriously in the present context. If one assesses the inter-group situation in terms of actual behavior, rather than verbalized theorizing, differences in ideology fade into insignificance alongside the more basic conditions. They are merely the excuses, desperately sought for to provide reasons highsounding enough to justify the destruction of thousand of human lives.'
>
> I am sorry if you think that this does not apply to Hitler, Bush and historically irrelevant persons like me and you.
> When theres no mutation or a gen therapy man will be at war with man.
> I post this here for educational purpose. I am no longer participant in the politics forum because it is unethical.

sdb,
You wrote,[...I am no longer (a) participant in the politics forum becaue it is unethical...]
I am unsure as to what your are wanting the {it} to refer to. Could you identify as to which of the following you are wanting to mean by the {it}?
The {it} refers to in {it is unethical}:
A.that the forum for politics is unethical
B.that participation is unethical
C.something else
If you could identify which of the above is that you are wanting to mean, thhen I could have the opportunity to respond accordingly
Lou

 

Re: Lou's request for identification }} lou

Posted by sdb on February 14, 2009, at 15:28:08

In reply to Lou's request for identification-dhngllngmdifyer? » sdb, posted by Lou Pilder on February 14, 2009, at 15:20:03

> > I remember chapter 4 of 'human zoo' by desmond morris. Myself I have not the view of a politician but the view of somebody who tries to understand nature.
> >
> > 'question: what is the difference between black natives slicing up a white missionary, and a white mob lynching a helpless Negro? Answer: very little - and, for the victims, none at all. Whatever the reasons, whatever the excuses, whatever the motives, the basic behavior mechanism is the same. They are both cases of members of the in-group attacking members of the out-group.....The reason is obvious enough: we are, each one of us, a member of some particular in-group and it is difficult for us to view the problems of inter-group conflict without, however unconsciously, taking sides. Somehow, until I have finished writing and you have finished reading this chapter, we must try to step outside our groups and gaze down on the battlefields of the human animal with the unbiased eyes of a hovering Martian. It is not going to be easy, and I must make it clear at the outset that nothing I say should be construed as implying that I am favoring one group as against another, or suggesting that one group is inevitably superior to another....
> >
> > ...I have already discussed these conditions, but it will help to summarize them briefly. They are:
> > 1. The development of fixed human territories.
> > 2. The swelling of tribes into over-crowded super-tribes
> > 3. The invention of weapons that kill at a distance
> > 4. The removal of leaders from the front line of battle
> > 5. The creation of a specialized class of professional killers
> > 6. The growth of technological inequalities between the groups
> > 7. The increase of frustrated status aggression within the groups
> > 8. The demands of the inter-group status rivalries of the leaders
> > 9. The loss of social identity within the super-tribes
> > 10. The exploitation of the co-operative urge to aid friends under attack.
> > The one condition I have deliberately omitted from this list is the development of differing ideologies. As a zoologist, viewing man as an animal, I find it hard to take such differences seriously in the present context. If one assesses the inter-group situation in terms of actual behavior, rather than verbalized theorizing, differences in ideology fade into insignificance alongside the more basic conditions. They are merely the excuses, desperately sought for to provide reasons highsounding enough to justify the destruction of thousand of human lives.'
> >
> > I am sorry if you think that this does not apply to Hitler, Bush and historically irrelevant persons like me and you.
> > When theres no mutation or a gen therapy man will be at war with man.
> > I post this here for educational purpose. I am no longer participant in the politics forum because it is unethical.
>
> sdb,
> You wrote,[...I am no longer (a) participant in the politics forum becaue it is unethical...]
> I am unsure as to what your are wanting the {it} to refer to. Could you identify as to which of the following you are wanting to mean by the {it}?
> The {it} refers to in {it is unethical}:
> A.that the forum for politics is unethical
> B.that participation is unethical
> C.something else
> If you could identify which of the above is that you are wanting to mean, thhen I could have the opportunity to respond accordingly
> Lou

most likely A.

 

Lou's request for criteria-uhneth » sdb

Posted by Lou Pilder on February 14, 2009, at 16:04:28

In reply to Re: Lou's request for identification }} lou, posted by sdb on February 14, 2009, at 15:28:08

> > > I remember chapter 4 of 'human zoo' by desmond morris. Myself I have not the view of a politician but the view of somebody who tries to understand nature.
> > >
> > > 'question: what is the difference between black natives slicing up a white missionary, and a white mob lynching a helpless Negro? Answer: very little - and, for the victims, none at all. Whatever the reasons, whatever the excuses, whatever the motives, the basic behavior mechanism is the same. They are both cases of members of the in-group attacking members of the out-group.....The reason is obvious enough: we are, each one of us, a member of some particular in-group and it is difficult for us to view the problems of inter-group conflict without, however unconsciously, taking sides. Somehow, until I have finished writing and you have finished reading this chapter, we must try to step outside our groups and gaze down on the battlefields of the human animal with the unbiased eyes of a hovering Martian. It is not going to be easy, and I must make it clear at the outset that nothing I say should be construed as implying that I am favoring one group as against another, or suggesting that one group is inevitably superior to another....
> > >
> > > ...I have already discussed these conditions, but it will help to summarize them briefly. They are:
> > > 1. The development of fixed human territories.
> > > 2. The swelling of tribes into over-crowded super-tribes
> > > 3. The invention of weapons that kill at a distance
> > > 4. The removal of leaders from the front line of battle
> > > 5. The creation of a specialized class of professional killers
> > > 6. The growth of technological inequalities between the groups
> > > 7. The increase of frustrated status aggression within the groups
> > > 8. The demands of the inter-group status rivalries of the leaders
> > > 9. The loss of social identity within the super-tribes
> > > 10. The exploitation of the co-operative urge to aid friends under attack.
> > > The one condition I have deliberately omitted from this list is the development of differing ideologies. As a zoologist, viewing man as an animal, I find it hard to take such differences seriously in the present context. If one assesses the inter-group situation in terms of actual behavior, rather than verbalized theorizing, differences in ideology fade into insignificance alongside the more basic conditions. They are merely the excuses, desperately sought for to provide reasons highsounding enough to justify the destruction of thousand of human lives.'
> > >
> > > I am sorry if you think that this does not apply to Hitler, Bush and historically irrelevant persons like me and you.
> > > When theres no mutation or a gen therapy man will be at war with man.
> > > I post this here for educational purpose. I am no longer participant in the politics forum because it is unethical.
> >
> > sdb,
> > You wrote,[...I am no longer (a) participant in the politics forum becaue it is unethical...]
> > I am unsure as to what your are wanting the {it} to refer to. Could you identify as to which of the following you are wanting to mean by the {it}?
> > The {it} refers to in {it is unethical}:
> > A.that the forum for politics is unethical
> > B.that participation is unethical
> > C.something else
> > If you could identify which of the above is that you are wanting to mean, thhen I could have the opportunity to respond accordingly
> > Lou
>
> most likely A.

sdb,
You weote,
[...likely (A)...](that the forum for politics is unethical). Now the generally accepted meaning of {unethical} is that what is unethical is not a {generally >accepted<} practice.
This could involve a {comparison} to determine if something is unethical or not.
Could you list any criteria that leads you to think that it is likely that the politics forum is unethical by using a comparison? If you could, then I could have the opportunity to respond accordingly.
Lou

 

Re: Lou's request for criteria-uhneth

Posted by Sigismund on February 14, 2009, at 21:15:10

In reply to Lou's request for criteria-uhneth » sdb, posted by Lou Pilder on February 14, 2009, at 16:04:28

It is interesting that a million people can be killed on the off chance that democracy/freedom might turn up and nobody cares very much.

 

Re: Lou's request for criteria-uhneth

Posted by Sigismund on February 14, 2009, at 21:20:24

In reply to Re: Lou's request for criteria-uhneth, posted by Sigismund on February 14, 2009, at 21:15:10

More matters of an administrative nature...

The Iranians do not forget the use of poison gas by Iraq, nor the silence of the world about it, nor the aerial intelligence of Iranian positions supplied by the USA to Saddam in the Iran/Iraq war.

 

Re: Lou's request for criteria-uhneth

Posted by fayeroe on February 15, 2009, at 9:19:54

In reply to Re: Lou's request for criteria-uhneth, posted by Sigismund on February 14, 2009, at 21:20:24

> More matters of an administrative nature...
>
> The Iranians do not forget the use of poison gas by Iraq, nor the silence of the world about it, nor the aerial intelligence of Iranian positions supplied by the USA to Saddam in the Iran/Iraq war.

But we have put our heads in the sand.
>
>

 

Re: Lou's request for criteria-uhneth } sigi } fay

Posted by sdb on February 16, 2009, at 11:16:13

In reply to Re: Lou's request for criteria-uhneth, posted by fayeroe on February 15, 2009, at 9:19:54

I would like to add that I like the American people. Of course I personally know them. As stated in the zoological book every population has the potential to harm each other. I don't like finger pointing but nevertheless it makes sense to know something from history and if it is possible to learn from that. In my opinion it is false if somebody is too sensitive to acknowledge what happened. But you can't say, you're guilty because of that. That would be false too. Furthermore, learning needs some intelligence. Bye the way, an us professor told in front of the public in my ear that the nazis were able to exist only with a spine. You don't need the brain for locomotion... hmmm, would he be blocked for that here ?

 

Re: Lou's request for criteria-uhneth } sigi } fay » sdb

Posted by fayeroe on February 16, 2009, at 11:52:05

In reply to Re: Lou's request for criteria-uhneth } sigi } fay, posted by sdb on February 16, 2009, at 11:16:13

Probably. :-0

 

Re: No, not really » Dinah

Posted by fayeroe on February 16, 2009, at 11:55:46

In reply to No, not really (nm) » fayeroe, posted by Dinah on February 12, 2009, at 16:53:49

If I felt that the rules/grades here were clear, I wouldn't have posted that bit about school.

When a person gets blocked here and they don't understand which one of Bob's rule they have broken...that could be pretty muddling to one's mind, don't you think?

 

Re: Blocked for a week

Posted by Toph on April 28, 2009, at 2:01:54

In reply to Blocked for a week » Toph, posted by Deputy Dinah on February 4, 2009, at 9:49:49

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third_Geneva_Convention

Civil is good.


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