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Posted by alesta on December 5, 2005, at 11:21:29
and found that i had been on this site...oh god...i do *not* want him reading my posts..oh please help..he will probably do it too..and figure out which poster is me...i'm worried...also, this would be the *worst* violation of my privacy..oh god. this would be horrible..and i think he will do it..he was joking that i could end up talking to him without knowing it. he has no idea what he's going to read though. please someone tell me he won't do it..oh man..ppl you have to be discrete or this could happen to you. first adagrace and now me. i'm sh*tting bricks right now...
amy
p.s. i just got back together with him yesterday
Posted by rainbowbrite on December 5, 2005, at 13:56:06
In reply to holy sht my bf checked my site history..., posted by alesta on December 5, 2005, at 11:21:29
try to calm down, I totally understand what you are feeling. :-(
He doesnt know you are posting? Only reading, right? Let him believe you are just reading, he would have no way of really tracking you down in a timely manner without your screenname. I imagine he would give up over time. From now on Id delete you history frequently. I know how you feel as long as he doesnt have your screenname :-( You are ok, I think. Unless he would spend hours reading posts to figure it out??
Posted by AuntieMel on December 5, 2005, at 16:25:34
In reply to deep breaths » alesta, posted by rainbowbrite on December 5, 2005, at 13:56:06
Or if you click on 'reply to this post' your alias will show up automatically.
Posted by alesta on December 6, 2005, at 8:57:57
In reply to deep breaths » alesta, posted by rainbowbrite on December 5, 2005, at 13:56:06
> try to calm down, I totally understand what you are feeling. :-(
>
> He doesnt know you are posting? Only reading, right? Let him believe you are just reading, he would have no way of really tracking you down in a timely manner without your screenname. I imagine he would give up over time. From now on Id delete you history frequently. I know how you feel as long as he doesnt have your screenname :-( You are ok, I think. Unless he would spend hours reading posts to figure it out??hi there rainy, :)
always enjoy hearing from you and thanks so much! yeah, what you said makes sense....i didn't tell him i posted here, so that is a plus...although amy is my real first name..i'm going to start signing my posts with alesta instead of my real name...i think i mentioned the name alesta for some reason, although he may not have noticed. he is getting a busier schedule lately, too, so that will help...thanks rainbow!..:)
take care,:-)
aim
Posted by alesta on December 6, 2005, at 9:01:37
In reply to Re:don't forget the cookies, posted by AuntieMel on December 5, 2005, at 16:25:34
> Or if you click on 'reply to this post' your alias will show up automatically.
thanks autie, that is a very good point to remember! i appreciate that.:-)
take care,:)
alesta
Posted by Shame on December 6, 2005, at 12:50:59
In reply to holy sht my bf checked my site history..., posted by alesta on December 5, 2005, at 11:21:29
Here is a tool.http://www.buttuglysoftware.com/CleanCache3.html
It's fast, it's free, and it works. I'm a software engineer, and I would be hard pressed to pull up anything after running this. Unless he goes to extraordinary measures (and I mean serious deep-magic computer geek stuff), he won't find a thing. Just make sure you clean your bookmarks out too.
You can set CleanCache to run automatically when you startup and shutdown if you want to keep someone out of your business permanently.
If you have any trouble, post here or Babblemail me.
Posted by gardenergirl on December 6, 2005, at 15:19:12
In reply to Re:don't forget the cookies » AuntieMel, posted by alesta on December 6, 2005, at 9:01:37
LOL, and here I was thinking Auntie Mel was remiding alesta that cookies are a good anti-stress food...
:-D
gg
Posted by AuntieMel on December 6, 2005, at 15:39:01
In reply to Re:don't forget the cookies, posted by gardenergirl on December 6, 2005, at 15:19:12
Posted by Dinah on December 6, 2005, at 16:49:43
In reply to holy sht my bf checked my site history..., posted by alesta on December 5, 2005, at 11:21:29
He wouldn't respect your privacy if you asked him to? The request doesn't need to be Babble specific. I would consider my husband searching my internet history and looking me up on web sites to be an invasion of privacy equivilant to reading my diary or opening my private correspondence. I'm not sure it would be a trust violation the marriage could endure. Fortunately, I know he wouldn't do any of those things.
It's ex's I'd be most worried about, I think.
Posted by alesta on December 7, 2005, at 11:36:38
In reply to Re: holy sht my bf checked my site history..., posted by Shame on December 6, 2005, at 12:50:59
>
> Here is a tool.
>
> http://www.buttuglysoftware.com/CleanCache3.html
>
> It's fast, it's free, and it works. I'm a software engineer, and I would be hard pressed to pull up anything after running this. Unless he goes to extraordinary measures (and I mean serious deep-magic computer geek stuff), he won't find a thing. Just make sure you clean your bookmarks out too.
>
> You can set CleanCache to run automatically when you startup and shutdown if you want to keep someone out of your business permanently.
>
> If you have any trouble, post here or Babblemail me.
hello, S,:)
i *really* appreciate that info! thanks for taking the time to reply!!! i'll let ya know if i need help itf. i am actually on a public computer right now...it was the drop-down list box that gave it away apparently...again, muchas gracias,
alesta
Posted by alesta on December 7, 2005, at 11:40:03
In reply to Re: holy sht my bf checked my site history... » Shame, posted by alesta on December 7, 2005, at 11:36:38
<it was the drop-down list box that gave it away apparently...
just to clarify the above, it is the drop-down list box from the web address bar (with the web site addresses you've visited)...not sure of the technical jargon for that.:-)
Posted by alesta on December 7, 2005, at 11:49:24
In reply to Re:don't forget the cookies, posted by gardenergirl on December 6, 2005, at 15:19:12
> LOL, and here I was thinking Auntie Mel was remiding alesta that cookies are a good anti-stress food...
>
> :-D
>
> ggthat's cute, gg!:-) you silly!:) <a hearty snort from my camp, too!>
alesta;)
Posted by alesta on December 7, 2005, at 11:58:40
In reply to Re: holy sht my bf checked my site history... » alesta, posted by Dinah on December 6, 2005, at 16:49:43
hi dinah :)
thanks for your thoughts and support.:) wayell, i think he is going to respect my privacy....it looks that way right now...i actually wonder if the tables are turned if i would be so respectful...now y'all are gonna think i'm horrible..oh hell...lol :0)alesta:)
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