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Posted by Lou Pilder on September 30, 2004, at 8:06:24
In reply to i have a great idea! -- dr. bob, posted by alesta on September 30, 2004, at 0:36:54
alesta,
You wrote,[...redirect surpassed the posting limit...].
I think that is a great idea, alesta. I think that you are indicating that there is no harm donr by posting more then 3 posts, and that any blocking for such would,IYO, not be warrented. Instead, you offer your alternitve.
I like your suggeation to the administration here, and wholeheartedly support your ideas.
I do not think that another board would be appropriate, but it is your thought that 4 posts vs 3 posts or 7 posts, I guess, is not something that should carry some sort of penalty here to.
Best regards,
Lou
Posted by Lou Pilder on September 30, 2004, at 8:25:08
In reply to i have a great idea! -- dr. bob, posted by alesta on September 30, 2004, at 0:36:54
alesta,
I like your idea to not block posters for 4 or more posts, but to redirect to some unknown board might not be the best solution, although it is your thought that counts to me here.
How about the following instead.
Suppose when a poster goes over 3 posts, the moderator write, "3-hour halt".
This would mean that for the next 3 hours, the poster in question could not post at all on any board. Any thoughts?
Lou
Posted by Lou Pilder on September 30, 2004, at 8:36:36
In reply to capitalization of ignore » Lou Pilder, posted by just plain jane on September 30, 2004, at 1:28:23
jpj,
Thank you for your explanation. What I want to rule out here is that there is the potential for some people to think that the putting of a word in capitals could have the potential to mean that there is a call to others to do what the word in capitals imports. In this case, the word is, "ignore".
Thank you for clearing that up that that is not what your intention was, but perhaps you were trying to {tell me} that there is the potential for people to ignore me on their own, {not that you are advocating that peope do that.}
Lou
Posted by RosieOGrady on September 30, 2004, at 9:24:38
In reply to capitalization of ignore » just plain jane, posted by Lou Pilder on September 30, 2004, at 8:36:36
There are no rules here that are consistently and equally enforced so why bother trying? If you break one of Hsuing's suggestions say you're sorry and the rule won't be enforced except when it is enforced which is a random event not influenced by your behaviour just Hsuing's whims. No problem!
Posted by Toph on September 30, 2004, at 9:26:34
In reply to Support, posted by Toph on September 23, 2004, at 17:29:51
Perhaps one positive spin on this whole thing is that while we all may not agree that the new rule is the best solution, Dr. Bob heard his constituents complain about a disruptive (or is it just annoying, I'm not sure which) posting style and he responded. This makes the dictatorship seem more democratic. Good groups evolve, static groups become cliques.
Posted by RosieOGrady on September 30, 2004, at 9:29:04
In reply to Re: BOB the post in question » RosieOGrady, posted by gardenergirl on September 28, 2004, at 22:07:31
I feel like I am the object of her verbal *******. I do not think anything I did could cause her neck to snap. Why did she direct this post to me? I feel accused. Please determine if that is true and act appropriately. Thanks
> Wow, that was fast. I think my neck snapped.
> gg
Posted by AuntieMel on September 30, 2004, at 9:30:03
In reply to Re: holey moley.. Yes Indeed!!!! » just plain jane, posted by TofuEmmy on September 30, 2004, at 0:10:22
for your message! I wouldn't have put it nearly as well and .......
better quit while I'm ahead
Posted by Lou Pilder on September 30, 2004, at 9:43:02
In reply to Re: Support, posted by Toph on September 30, 2004, at 9:26:34
Toph,
You wrote,[constitionency...a disruptive (or is it annoying, I'm not sure which posting style...].
If I am the poster with the posting style in question, then I do not think that my posting style is either disruptive or annoying.
There are posters here that have also agreed with me in respect to that.
I feel put down when I read that my posting is disruptive. To me, disruption in respect to this situation, could mean that I am doing some bad thing by posting here. I do not belive that my posting here is any sort of bad thing.
Lou
Posted by TofuEmmy on September 30, 2004, at 9:47:50
In reply to There are no rules here! Calm down folks! pt1.0573, posted by RosieOGrady on September 30, 2004, at 9:24:38
If I were any calmer, I'd be asleep. But thank you for your concern! :-)
Posted by just plain jane on September 30, 2004, at 9:54:11
In reply to capitalization of ignore » just plain jane, posted by Lou Pilder on September 30, 2004, at 8:36:36
Lou,
Emphasizing the word was my intent, not suggesting it to others.
The emphasis is/was intended simply as you said "you were trying to {tell me} that there is the potential for people to ignore me on their own", which, I am guessing, is not what you desire. Actually, just to remind you, a little friendly nudge, if you will.
I know I sometimes get carried away in my own ways, I'm certain we all do, and it can be helpful (among other things :)) to have a nudge for a "self-check".
simply,
just plain jane
Posted by just plain jane on September 30, 2004, at 9:58:02
In reply to There are no rules here! Calm down folks! pt1.0573, posted by RosieOGrady on September 30, 2004, at 9:24:38
Ditto, Rosie!
Thanks!!!
Hope your day is great!
just plain jane
Posted by Lou Pilder on September 30, 2004, at 10:00:11
In reply to Lou's response to Toph's post » Toph, posted by Lou Pilder on September 30, 2004, at 9:43:02
Toph,
You wrote, [..heard his constituants complain...disruptive(or annoying...not sure which...}.
If you are referring to m posting style, then there were others that are also in this constituancy that wrote something different of being disruptive or annoying. Below is one such post by New Wife on SEptember 23, 2004:
"i appreciate evrything you have to say. i enjoyed reading your posts. If your anything like me, you hit that send button and then only after, think of something else to write. you seen very smart and willing to communicate with others in this huge ans sometimes confusing world. have a great day and keep writing."
Lou
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20040902/msgs/394311.html
Posted by just plain jane on September 30, 2004, at 10:00:23
In reply to Re: Support, posted by Toph on September 30, 2004, at 9:26:34
Thanks, Toph
just plain jane
Posted by just plain jane on September 30, 2004, at 10:10:01
In reply to Lou's response to Toph's post » Toph, posted by Lou Pilder on September 30, 2004, at 9:43:02
Lou,
I can sympathize with your feeling put down, however, someone else's statement that your style is disruptive or annoying is simply their statement, their opinion.
I hope for you that you may be able to just accept people's comments as that, their opinions.
If you desire further discussion with me on this subject, lets move it to Social.
just plain jane
Posted by SLS on September 30, 2004, at 10:12:53
In reply to There are no rules here! Calm down folks! pt1.0573, posted by RosieOGrady on September 30, 2004, at 9:24:38
> There are no rules here that are consistently and equally enforced so why bother trying? If you break one of Hsuing's suggestions say you're sorry and the rule won't be enforced except when it is enforced which is a random event not influenced by your behaviour just Hsuing's whims. No problem!
Hi Rosie.Which rules do you find are enforced with the least consistency?
- Scott
Posted by Dinahmari on September 30, 2004, at 10:19:02
In reply to Lou's response to Toph's post-2, posted by Lou Pilder on September 30, 2004, at 10:00:11
I think your posting style is jut fine. It doesn't bother me one whit.
I also really appreciate your scrupulous sticking to the intent rather than the letter of the new rule.
And wasn't I right about Scott (SLS)? He's such a love. :)
Feel free to respond to my posts with as many posts as you like, and I won't do it to circumvent the rules, but I'll be happy to post just to converse with you.
Would you mind if I gave you a cyberhug? This can't be easy for you. ((((Lou))))
I posted something a long time ago about how this sort of thing made me sad, but I think I see a few things that make me happy this time. Do you?
I'm trying not to post till I get my registration straightened back out, but my email is still the same and it should work fine for you. If you'd like to talk to me about the things (and people) that make me (and hopefully you) happy this time, I'd love to hear from you. I'm a bit busy today and will be gone quite a bit, but I'll get back to you as soon as I can if you'd like to converse that way.
And hopefully Dr. Bob will be by soon.
Posted by Lou Pilder on September 30, 2004, at 10:21:27
In reply to Re: capitalization of ignore » Lou Pilder, posted by just plain jane on September 30, 2004, at 9:54:11
jpj,
You wrote,[...emphasizing the word was my intent, not suggesting it to others...].
Yes, that is what I wanted to know when I asked you why the word, "ignore' was in all caps. I wanted to rule out the potential for any misunderstanding and I am glad that you were just emphisizing the word for reasons that you have explained.
You see, in some cases, the putting of a word in all capitals could have the potential to be considered by some to be a suggestion and that is why I asked for you to rule that out, and you did.
You wrote,[...I know I sometimes get carried away in my own ways...].
I appreciate you making that point, for all we like humans can be carried away...].
You wrote,[...to have a nudge for a self-check...].
If this means that you were indicating that others could ignore me if I was to continue posting in more than 3 consecutive posts, could you give me some more infomation on that that could cause that to happen? If you meant something else, could you say what you meant by the statement in question if it is not that? If you could, then I could have a better understanding a towhat you mean and be able to respond accordingly.
Lou
Posted by Lou Pilder on September 30, 2004, at 10:34:08
In reply to Re: Lou's response to Toph's post » Lou Pilder, posted by just plain jane on September 30, 2004, at 10:10:01
jpj,
You wrote, [...I can sympathize with you feeling put down...]
Thank you for you understanding of my feelings in regards to the word, "disruptive" or "annoying" being associated with my style of posting.
You wrote, [...I hope ...you may be able...to accoept peoples comments on that, their opinions...].
If you are saying that people can write that my posting style is disruptive or annoying and have that protected as being stated as "an opinion", then I disagree. Could someone write, " It is my opinion that so and so is a idiot?
Lou
Posted by SLS on September 30, 2004, at 10:45:24
In reply to Lou's response to jpj-symp » just plain jane, posted by Lou Pilder on September 30, 2004, at 10:34:08
> jpj,
> You wrote, [...I can sympathize with you feeling put down...]
> Thank you for you understanding of my feelings in regards to the word, "disruptive" or "annoying" being associated with my style of posting.
> You wrote, [...I hope ...you may be able...to accoept peoples comments on that, their opinions...].
> If you are saying that people can write that my posting style is disruptive or annoying and have that protected as being stated as "an opinion", then I disagree. Could someone write, " It is my opinion that so and so is a idiot?
> Lou
Hi guys.I think we can all see that adjudicating the use of words to determine civility can be extremely difficult.
In my opinion, Dr. Bob has a pretty tough job. It is probably more of an art than it is a science. Precision must be a very difficult goal to achieve.
- Scott
Posted by Lou Pilder on September 30, 2004, at 10:58:59
In reply to Re: Hi Lou, Dinah here, posted by Dinahmari on September 30, 2004, at 10:19:02
Hi Dinah,
I am glad to be with you here again.
You wrote,[...wasn't I right about Scott?...He's such a love.):...].
Yes, I am glad to have discussion with Scott, he is stimulating to converse with. Could this be the same Scott that I met 5 years ago? hummmmm
Lou
Posted by Lou Pilder on September 30, 2004, at 11:11:30
In reply to Re: Hi Lou, Dinah here, posted by Dinahmari on September 30, 2004, at 10:19:02
Dinah,
You wrote,[...This can't be easy for you...].
Thank you for that observation about my feelings, for I think that you are saying that if you were in my situation, that it would not be easy for you.
Lou
Posted by Dinahmari on September 30, 2004, at 11:22:29
In reply to Lou's reply to Dinah-~esy » Dinahmari, posted by Lou Pilder on September 30, 2004, at 11:11:30
I have been in similar situations and found it immensely painful. I was lucky to have my therapist to talk to about it. I hope you have someone who you feel free talking to about Babble?
Posted by Dinahmari on September 30, 2004, at 11:25:34
In reply to Hi Dinah, Lou here... » Dinahmari, posted by Lou Pilder on September 30, 2004, at 10:58:59
if I don't leave for work. But I'll be back later today.
Keep your head held high, Lou. And know that there are those on this board who accept you just the way you are.
I'm one of them.
Posted by alesta on September 30, 2004, at 11:26:03
In reply to Lou's rsponse to alesta's idea-2 » alesta, posted by Lou Pilder on September 30, 2004, at 8:25:08
hi, lou,:)you really are a congenial fellow!:) i think your idea of a 3-hour halt is fantastic. or some kind of warning instead of blocking first. maybe a warning would be the easiest to implement..this seems very reasonable and advantageous to all parties involved. and then if the poster posts after the warning, then he/she will be blocked. this way no one is caught off guard..a win-win situation.. why not? a warning (instead of a block) after 3 consecutive posts (or whenever bob sees the posts, so it could be more than 3 of course, just as it could if he were using a block first--same result). and if any further posts are made after the warning, then a block seems fair. what do you think? (thanks for bouncing your ideas off me lou--2 heads are better than one.:)) dr. bob, how about it? a warning instead of a block? i seriously doubt anyone is going to post after a warning, unless they are itching for a vacation..:)
or maybe your 3-hour halt is better, actually..love the idea!..whichever is easier for dr. bob to implement..what do you think dr. bob..sounds like an awesome solution!
lou, it was very nice to meeting you.:)
take care!
amy:)
Posted by Lou Pilder on September 30, 2004, at 11:31:17
In reply to I'm going to be in deep trouble » Lou Pilder, posted by Dinahmari on September 30, 2004, at 11:25:34
Dinah,
You wrote,[...there are those here that accept you as you are...].
Thanks for writing that.
Lou
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