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Posted by 64Bowtie on August 25, 2010, at 7:44:47
My Top Ten Personal Contracts with My Future "Self"
**Harness "Avoidance" and enhance curiosity for discovery of the unknown
**Separate who I am from what I do and/or did
**Replace my fear of danger with my respect for the same danger
**Act from my knowledge and intentions rather than my impulses
**Eliminate coercion & violence from my rhetoric and problem solving regime
**Update my knowledge base while shining light on my doubts and indecision
**Study my options instead of listening to my "shoulds" & "don'ts"
**Institute personal contracts in place of obligations and expectations
**Declare my emancipation from the impact of my origins by "right of passage" ritual
**Discover my love as it replaces my approval and be "enough" every day of my life
Posted by 64Bowtie on August 25, 2010, at 7:50:09
In reply to Quality of Life goals, posted by 64Bowtie on August 25, 2010, at 7:44:47
Quality of Life Coaching
Treatise: There are three powerful interpersonal Coaching regimes worth consideration these days...
**There are Life Coaches who provide talking strategies (but never "cause" therapy) for folks going over "rough patches" in otherwise normal lives...
**There are Executive Coaches who provide similar results in companies and corporations as a sort-of effectiveness improvement for staff and middle management; done through and for the Human Resources department; personnel folks are toooo "slanted" to provide this service without becoming an Executive Coach first...
**Also, there are currently Recovery Coaches who work with the addicted society of dysfunctionals thus teetering at the edges of therapy; Papa and daughter Anna (Freud) are turning over in their graves, that a lay person is being aloud to participate in the "SACRED" recovery ritual process without being first drug-therapy certified...
Premise: ya' can't fix drug addictions with drugs; the client is already toooo fond of the high!!!!!!! Drugs don't reduce the process craving the drugs... Also, it has been proven that 100 milliseconds after the client makes the decision to fight the cravings forever, taking other drugs just confuses the issue and makes the process endless thus guaranteeing income to the P-Dr.s who get paid to administer these other drugs...
I can take on the recovery/addiction industry head on, but the underlying message in Inception (the movie) is, Indirect works better So
I am embarking on a simpler and quieter message of targeting quality of life as the purpose of any and all recovery properly addressed by coaching strategies Quality-of-Life issues are what I will identify and package for clients to target as goals for their own self-improvement proforma as it unfolds before them
There is a whole bunch of honoring the life works of David Peck and his growing legacy, The Aesthetic View Institute, included herein Add to that, works of M. Scott Peck and A Road Less Traveled, screenwriter Bob Earl, John Bradshaw Bradshaw On: The Family, 12 step programs (countless meetings and The Big Book of A.A.), my ACoA sponsor Bob A., and an ACoA recovery therapist, Bob Subby of Minneapolis, MN
Because of my 29 year association with David Peck (till his death in 2003), I get to add Out-of-Body as a lifetime strategy for eliminating the negative effects of whatever life throws at us. His premise is that, If I have a toothache, you cant feel it Likewise, when I go Out-of-Body while under duress, I can objectively (bypassing blackmailing feelings), see the problem and optional solutions, seeking the best of outcomes
Rod
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