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Posted by sleepygirl on January 17, 2007, at 23:02:41
to destroy you?
paranoia you say?
ah...if only it were sobut seriously,
I am a little paranoid. I admit it.
and no I haven't been smoking the wacky tabacky
:-O
Posted by justyourlaugh on January 18, 2007, at 8:35:26
In reply to so what do you do when everyone is out............, posted by sleepygirl on January 17, 2007, at 23:02:41
sleepy..i was in chat last night and completely ignored (apart from friendly hellos when i entered)..
i was being suppotive and kind to another chatter that was receiving alot of good advice..
i was in a horrible state and needed to talk..i expressed that i was being ignored..i said i didnt feel that the room was open to all the members..
i said some absenities.. got a 3 word response.
i was the annoying idiot at the party sitting on the bed with all the coats..
will you sit with me?
i will not hurt you.
Posted by Dinah on January 18, 2007, at 9:58:06
In reply to Re: so what do you do when everyone is out............, posted by justyourlaugh on January 18, 2007, at 8:35:26
Was that before or after I crashed headlong into bed?
If it was before, my apologies. I was not perfectly all there. I still feel a bit groggy this morning. I must not have gone up slowly on the Risperdal.
I think everyone feels from time to time in many situations that they are being ignored. I know I do.
Did you say something like "Hey, guys, I'm in a terrible state and really need to talk about something?"
In my experience, when I say things like I feel ignored, or that the room isn't open to everyone, or leave in a huff, people do realize I'm upset and are upset themselves, but they don't necessarily realize why, and their guesses are often not correct.
I'm not saying you did or didn't say or not say anything, except based on what you reported you said. I'm just saying what does and doesn't usually work for me.
Posted by Dinah on January 18, 2007, at 10:00:42
In reply to so what do you do when everyone is out............, posted by sleepygirl on January 17, 2007, at 23:02:41
I can't imagine anyone out to destroy such a sweet and supportive person that you are. Except possibly a jealous coworker or something impersonal like that.
I really can't imagine everyone feeling that way about you.
And I don't want anything but the best for you, so at least it's everyone minus one.
((((sleepygirl))))
Posted by Phillipa on January 18, 2007, at 12:18:42
In reply to Re: so what do you do when everyone is out........ » sleepygirl, posted by Dinah on January 18, 2007, at 10:00:42
Hey sleepy I for one have missed you. Love Phillipa
Posted by Declan on January 18, 2007, at 12:56:03
In reply to Re: so what do you do when everyone is out........, posted by Phillipa on January 18, 2007, at 12:18:42
Yeah, I've missed you too.
Who are these people anyway?
Mostly people just have their own (admittedly tedious) agendas.
Posted by karen_kay on January 18, 2007, at 17:12:54
In reply to Re: so what do you do when everyone is out............, posted by justyourlaugh on January 18, 2007, at 8:35:26
i was in chat for a minute last night. wish i would have stuck around to see you. i'm sorry you felt ignored.
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