Psycho-Babble Social Thread 517987

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Definition of Sexy

Posted by AdaGrace on June 24, 2005, at 9:29:55

What is yours?

I was told that if I thought someone was sexy that meant I wanted to have sex with them. Is this how everyone feels? I just thought it meant that they had a sexual or alluring quality about them. I never really considered actually having sex with them.

 

Re: Ed Harris

Posted by AdaGrace on June 24, 2005, at 10:01:56

In reply to Definition of Sexy, posted by AdaGrace on June 24, 2005, at 9:29:55

I think Ed Harris is sexy. He has beautiful soulful eyes that twinkle when he smiles, a wonderful beautiful smile filled with dimples that light up his face.

I don't care that he is going bald.
I don't care that he is short.
I don't care that he might be gay.


What I don't understand is how me saying that would be insulting to a man I was close to. I don't want to do him. I don't even have wet dreams about him. I just love watching him in movies. Is that so wrong?

 

Re: Sam Elliot

Posted by AdaGrace on June 24, 2005, at 10:07:09

In reply to Definition of Sexy, posted by AdaGrace on June 24, 2005, at 9:29:55

I find Sam Elliot sexy as well. I love his deep voice. "Beef, it's what's for dinner"

And under all that moustach there is also a beautiful smile full of dimples that light up his face. Beautiful eyes also.

Is it so wrong to say that he is sexy?

Would that insult you men? Would you think that it meant I wanted to have sex with him?

 

Re: Sam Elliot » AdaGrace

Posted by partlycloudy on June 24, 2005, at 11:19:49

In reply to Re: Sam Elliot, posted by AdaGrace on June 24, 2005, at 10:07:09

See, I think Sam Elliott is kinda creepy! Maybe because he has played creepy people.

I'm a Harrison Ford gal. Indiana Jones forever!
Going further back... James Stewart (swoon!)

 

Re: Sam Elliot » partlycloudy

Posted by AdaGrace on June 24, 2005, at 11:48:52

In reply to Re: Sam Elliot » AdaGrace, posted by partlycloudy on June 24, 2005, at 11:19:49

Okay, but.....

Would your husband be offended if you said Harrison Ford was sexy if he thought he was ugly? or Gay, or losing his hair?

 

Re: Definition of Sexy

Posted by caraher on June 24, 2005, at 12:18:38

In reply to Definition of Sexy, posted by AdaGrace on June 24, 2005, at 9:29:55

> I was told that if I thought someone was sexy that meant I wanted to have sex with them. Is this how everyone feels? I just thought it meant that they had a sexual or alluring quality about them. I never really considered actually having sex with them.

I agree with your usage. Whoever told you that probably just likes to put people on the spot about things they say

 

What is sexy » AdaGrace

Posted by partlycloudy on June 24, 2005, at 12:26:47

In reply to Re: Sam Elliot » partlycloudy, posted by AdaGrace on June 24, 2005, at 11:48:52

> Okay, but.....
>
> Would your husband be offended if you said Harrison Ford was sexy if he thought he was ugly? or Gay, or losing his hair?

Oh, no! We disagree on sexiness (with regards to Hollywood stars) quite often. I don't what he sees in some of those b*mbos! And I'm quite sure he feels the same about the stars I slobber over.
BTW my sexy hubby is almost 100% solar powered by now!!
pc

 

Re: Ed Harris

Posted by happyflower on June 24, 2005, at 12:58:36

In reply to Re: Ed Harris, posted by AdaGrace on June 24, 2005, at 10:01:56

> I think Ed Harris is sexy. He has beautiful soulful eyes that twinkle when he smiles, a wonderful beautiful smile filled with dimples that light up his face.
>
Yes, Yes, he is sexy! I agree!

> I don't care that he is going bald.
> I don't care that he is short.
> I don't care that he might be gay.
>
What he is gay? I didn't know! What a bummer, I wanted him! lol
>
>

 

Richard Gere!

Posted by happyflower on June 24, 2005, at 13:00:26

In reply to What is sexy » AdaGrace, posted by partlycloudy on June 24, 2005, at 12:26:47

Now he is hot and sexy and yes I want to have sex with him, but I don't want to have sex with everyone I find sexy, but Richard Gere can knock on my door anyday!lol :)

 

Re: Ed Harris

Posted by gardenergirl on June 24, 2005, at 15:21:18

In reply to Re: Ed Harris, posted by happyflower on June 24, 2005, at 12:58:36

Not that this means he might not be gay, but Ed Harris is married to Amy Madigan. Has been for a long time.

gg

 

Re: Ed Harris---oh and yes he's sexy! (nm)

Posted by gardenergirl on June 24, 2005, at 15:22:19

In reply to Re: Ed Harris, posted by gardenergirl on June 24, 2005, at 15:21:18

 

Re: Ed Harris---oh and yes he's sexy! - VERY » gardenergirl

Posted by TamaraJ on June 24, 2005, at 16:12:48

In reply to Re: Ed Harris---oh and yes he's sexy! (nm), posted by gardenergirl on June 24, 2005, at 15:22:19

Yes, Ed Harris is quite sexy!!! And, I find Sam Sheppard and Jeff Bridges sexy as well. And, don't ask me why, must be pure animal magnetism or something, but I have had a thing for Gene Hackman for some time now. I know, I know, an unlikely candidate for sexy, but there you have it. I am weird I guess.

 

Re: Sam Sheppart - yes » TamaraJ

Posted by AdaGrace on June 24, 2005, at 16:14:51

In reply to Re: Ed Harris---oh and yes he's sexy! - VERY » gardenergirl, posted by TamaraJ on June 24, 2005, at 16:12:48

I like him too

 

Re: Richard Gere! » happyflower

Posted by AdaGrace on June 24, 2005, at 16:15:30

In reply to Richard Gere!, posted by happyflower on June 24, 2005, at 13:00:26

Yes but I can't quite get over that gerbil story.

 

Ashton Kutcher... :-) (nm)

Posted by rainbowbrite on June 24, 2005, at 16:25:08

In reply to Re: Richard Gere! » happyflower, posted by AdaGrace on June 24, 2005, at 16:15:30

 

Re: Harrison Ford » AdaGrace

Posted by Tamar on June 24, 2005, at 16:43:03

In reply to Definition of Sexy, posted by AdaGrace on June 24, 2005, at 9:29:55

I'm with pc. Harrison Ford.

But I don't necessarily want to have sex with someone I think is sexy. Certainly not movie stars.

 

Ed Harris is YUMMY (nm)

Posted by anastasia56 on June 24, 2005, at 17:19:24

In reply to Re: Ed Harris, posted by gardenergirl on June 24, 2005, at 15:21:18

 

Sexy??? What do you think???

Posted by ed_uk on June 24, 2005, at 18:21:46

In reply to Ed Harris is YUMMY (nm), posted by anastasia56 on June 24, 2005, at 17:19:24

Does anyone find Kovac from ER sexy? I don't........but apparantly everyone else does!

http://www.geocities.com/erthewebsite/castpage/er_cast_lukakovac.htm

~Ed

 

Re: Definition of Sexy » AdaGrace

Posted by Jazzed on June 24, 2005, at 18:48:28

In reply to Definition of Sexy, posted by AdaGrace on June 24, 2005, at 9:29:55

> What is yours?

Antonio Banderas!
Sometimes Johnny Depp, Samuel L Jackson, USHER!!!
They are all so hot! There are plenty more that I think are sexy.

> I was told that if I thought someone was sexy that meant I wanted to have sex with them. Is this how everyone feels? I just thought it meant that they had a sexual or alluring quality about them. I never really considered actually having sex with them.

I SO agree with you! Just because I think a man is sexy doesn't mean I desire to go to bed with them, although........LOL

What I find sexy about men in RL though is someone's manner much more than their looks. Confidence, thoughtfulness, consideration, being interesting, having a life apart from me, a great sense of humor, taking care of themselves. ALL so much more important than looks.

And, just between me and happyflower, wearing the same shirt day after day, esp. if it's rumpled, is SO, SO HOT!!!! LOL
Jazzy

 

Re: Definition of Sexy » Jazzed

Posted by TamaraJ on June 24, 2005, at 19:14:15

In reply to Re: Definition of Sexy » AdaGrace, posted by Jazzed on June 24, 2005, at 18:48:28

> What I find sexy about men in RL though is someone's manner much more than their looks. Confidence, thoughtfulness, consideration, being interesting, having a life apart from me, a great sense of humor, taking care of themselves. ALL so much more important than looks.

-- Most definitely!!! Those qualities make a guy attractive, even if he isn't good looking in the classic sense. A good looking guy is just someone who's nice to look at if he doesn't have those qualities.

> And, just between me and happyflower, wearing the same shirt day after day, esp. if it's rumpled, is SO, SO HOT!!!! LOL
>
-- Or, a guy in a nice pair of faded jeans, a t-shirt, barefoot, looking a little rumpled with five o'clock shadow is HOT!!! I guess I like the earthy types LOL. Not into slick and polished much.

 

Re: Richard Gere! » happyflower

Posted by Jakeman on June 24, 2005, at 19:56:06

In reply to Richard Gere!, posted by happyflower on June 24, 2005, at 13:00:26

> Now he is hot and sexy and yes I want to have sex with him, but I don't want to have sex with everyone I find sexy, but Richard Gere can knock on my door anyday!lol :)

I'm sure Gere, like other hollywood stars, has an ego the size of a house. I got a form letter from him the other day asking for money for Tibetan refugees. On talk shows he's up-front about his Buddhist leanings, hanging out with the Daila Lama etc... but only speaks when he's asked about it, he doesn't push it. I've gotta respect him for that.

best regards ~Jake

 

Re: Sexy??? What do you think??? » ed_uk

Posted by TamaraJ on June 24, 2005, at 21:12:41

In reply to Sexy??? What do you think???, posted by ed_uk on June 24, 2005, at 18:21:46

Yes, I think he is sexy. I have liked him since he joined the cast of ER. I don't see the show much anymore, but when I do, I lust over him LOL. He is fine!!!!


> Does anyone find Kovac from ER sexy? I don't........but apparantly everyone else does!
>
> http://www.geocities.com/erthewebsite/castpage/er_cast_lukakovac.htm
>
> ~Ed

 

Re: Sexy??? What do you think??? » TamaraJ

Posted by ed_uk on June 24, 2005, at 21:25:13

In reply to Re: Sexy??? What do you think??? » ed_uk, posted by TamaraJ on June 24, 2005, at 21:12:41

>I lust over him.........

Oooooooh TJ, is the Wellbutrin boosting your libido! :-)

Ed xx

 

Re: Richard Gere! » AdaGrace

Posted by happyflower on June 24, 2005, at 22:04:23

In reply to Re: Richard Gere! » happyflower, posted by AdaGrace on June 24, 2005, at 16:15:30

> Yes but I can't quite get over that gerbil story.

What gerbil story? DO TELL! lol

 

Re: Definition of Sexy

Posted by happyflower on June 24, 2005, at 22:07:48

In reply to Re: Definition of Sexy » AdaGrace, posted by Jazzed on June 24, 2005, at 18:48:28

> >>
> I SO agree with you! Just because I think a man is sexy doesn't mean I desire to go to bed with them, although........LOL
>

Yeah, yeah, Jazzy, don't try to but the blinders on us! lol

> What I find sexy about men in RL though is someone's manner much more than their looks. Confidence, thoughtfulness, consideration, being interesting, having a life apart from me, a great sense of humor, taking care of themselves. ALL so much more important than looks.
>
Oh sounds like my T! :)

> And, just between me and happyflower, wearing the same shirt day after day, esp. if it's rumpled, is SO, SO HOT!!!! LOL

So how did his shirt get rumpled? Was this before your appointment or after? lol
HeeHEe!
A very horny flower tonight!
>
>


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