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Posted by slinky on August 7, 2003, at 10:40:46
..so tired don't even 'feel' like I'm accomplishing something..I started so have to finish.
Television yesterday had 3 channels(only 5 terrestial in uk) all about decorating Ha.
Love this heat though..losing weight~
Sit outside at night watching shooting stars
Posted by zenhussy on August 7, 2003, at 10:43:55
In reply to decorating bit by bit, posted by slinky on August 7, 2003, at 10:40:46
Glad to hear you engaged in something Slinkorama babeolicious.
Decorate for me too please. I'm up to my ears in minor remodel stuff. Dust, sheetrock, wires, paint, etc. And I don't even own the dang place!
Have fun toots. Sorry about the heat but I'm happy if you're happy about weight loss.
xoxo
zh
Posted by slinky on August 7, 2003, at 11:34:41
In reply to decorating bit by bit, posted by slinky on August 7, 2003, at 10:40:46
..the man i've been seeing just put phone down on me cause I was crying - charming.
Been trying to act happy/not sad all the time for him.
Why bother eh.
Posted by slinky on August 7, 2003, at 11:38:10
In reply to as long as you're not shooting *at* stars » slinky, posted by zenhussy on August 7, 2003, at 10:43:55
Zen.Decorating is big chore- just finished one room-this aint my place either but to get rid of stripy wallpaper was a must.
take care.
Posted by zenhussy on August 7, 2003, at 11:45:24
In reply to Re: as long as you're not shooting *at* stars » zenhussy, posted by slinky on August 7, 2003, at 11:38:10
>
> Zen.
>
> Decorating is big chore- just finished one room-this aint my place either but to get rid of stripy wallpaper was a must.
>
> take care.Stripy wallpaper sounds nearly as dreadful as the woodpaneling I moved into at this place. Twas a must go now type of thing.
Bit by bit my dear.
Corner by corner it shall get done. And it is YOUR safe haven sweets.
zh
Posted by zenhussy on August 7, 2003, at 11:48:22
In reply to Re: is it me or....., posted by slinky on August 7, 2003, at 11:34:41
> ..the man i've been seeing just put phone down on me cause I was crying - charming.
> Been trying to act happy/not sad all the time for him.
> Why bother eh.
>Honey,
It is all him. Hanging up on you because you are crying? What a twit!! Loser. So lacking in empathy and caring for such a fine creature such as yourself. He's a foolish boob.
Bother only for yourself. You are the one who matters. You are the artist who lives and breathes and gives so much to so many here.
Don't act happy if you're not. Be you. I will always accept you as you are. Always slinkybean.
zh
Posted by slinky on August 7, 2003, at 12:25:55
In reply to It is all him.....all of it » slinky, posted by zenhussy on August 7, 2003, at 11:48:22
..We clash, thing is he's argumentative..I'm not cause of meds.
Can't get out of my head that's it's me being too sensitive but the paranio says he's bad??
I'm confused and tired of people messing with my head..or imagining that they're messing with my head.
This is hard for me but it happens .I have to accept what life throws my way deal with it or escape.
To love myself would be a start...woes again.
Posted by zenhussy on August 7, 2003, at 12:29:28
In reply to Re: no-it's both » zenhussy, posted by slinky on August 7, 2003, at 12:25:55
> ..We clash, thing is he's argumentative..I'm not cause of meds.
> Can't get out of my head that's it's me being too sensitive but the paranio says he's bad??
> I'm confused and tired of people messing with my head..or imagining that they're messing with my head.
> This is hard for me but it happens .I have to accept what life throws my way deal with it or escape.
> To love myself would be a start...woes again.
>Hey Slinky,
How about you allow some of the people here to hold onto that love for you until you're ready to start lovin' yerself? I know plenty of folk here do.
You're clever. You know how to ride this out. ((Slinkster)) Bummer you're in this spot.
zh
Posted by slinky on August 7, 2003, at 12:59:42
In reply to Nah, I'm still going with all him » slinky, posted by zenhussy on August 7, 2003, at 12:29:28
Zen~hussbabe
Just sitting in valium ease...came to one word...
gentleness.
That's what I'd like...not just physically..a gentle emotional approach.I think he needs meds anyway -mood swing city.
Thanks for being here for me and being you.
Posted by slinky on August 7, 2003, at 15:22:27
In reply to Re: Nah, I'm still going with all him » zenhussy, posted by slinky on August 7, 2003, at 12:59:42
Posted by zenhussy on August 7, 2003, at 15:37:03
In reply to Re: chickens are freaking (nm), posted by slinky on August 7, 2003, at 15:22:27
The chickenz are freakin again? Damn. I thought we had these twiddily birds under control.
Bwak cluck cluck cluck.
zh (a freaky chick if ever there were)
Posted by Dinah on August 7, 2003, at 15:41:53
In reply to Re: Nah, I'm still going with all him » zenhussy, posted by slinky on August 7, 2003, at 12:59:42
Hope you don't mind my saying, but if he doesn't appreciate you, he's an idiot.
(And what is it with some guys and crying? My dad used to make us get out of his sight when we cried.)
Posted by gabbix2 on August 7, 2003, at 16:57:51
In reply to Re: Nah, I'm still going with all him » slinky, posted by Dinah on August 7, 2003, at 15:41:53
Once when I was crying I know my boyfriend would get furious, so I got out of bed, left the room, shut the bedroom door, went into the living room,
and shut that door, and cried on the couch.
HE still came out, because he SUSPECTED I was crying, and started to yell at me.And then well he tried to strangle me, but I already told that story a long time ago on P.S.B
He managed to convince the police I was crazy cause I hadn't taken my medication. Even though my sweater was torn and I had red finger marks and broken capilliaries on my neck still..Other than that though he was really quite nice.
Posted by gabbix2 on August 7, 2003, at 17:00:53
In reply to Nah, I'm still going with all him » slinky, posted by zenhussy on August 7, 2003, at 12:29:28
>How about you allow some of the people here to >hold onto that love for you until you're ready >to start lovin' yerself? I know plenty of folk >here do.
I think ZenHussy has a jewel of an idea Slinky,
I'm one of them, truly, I just think you're
the cats pajamas.
Posted by zenhussy on August 7, 2003, at 18:57:39
In reply to Re: Nah, I'm still going with all him P.S, posted by gabbix2 on August 7, 2003, at 17:00:53
... I just think you're
> the cats pajamas.
>awwwwww.
Slinky honey pops,
Face it. You're loved. By a bunch o' people here.
Thems the facts ma'am.
zenhussy
Posted by Tabitha on August 8, 2003, at 1:45:58
In reply to Re: Nah, I'm still going with all him P.S, posted by gabbix2 on August 7, 2003, at 17:00:53
Gabster, now that's eerie. I actually wrote a post for this thread saying slinks was the cat's pajamas. Then I erased it, fer some reason. This proves...
a) warped minds think alike
b) slinks just really is the cat's pajamas
c) both of the above.
Posted by slinky on August 8, 2003, at 2:31:51
In reply to Re: Nah, I'm still going with all him P.S » gabbix2, posted by Tabitha on August 8, 2003, at 1:45:58
Feeling drunk this morn..took 10mg valium + booster magnesium + neurontin and went to bed.
Phoned him-he said he put phone down cause conversation wasn't getting anywhere....my conversations never get anywhere:-)
I'm going to focus on other things now I'm sick of being a projection screen for his problems.Thanks for being sweet..why arn't there more people in the real world like folks here..probably are-just don't get out much :-)
Gabby..sometimes we meet someone who appears so nice then it's jeckal n hyde so we forgive the bad times ..
but stranglation isn't acceptable:-)Sometimes I feel I deserve things cause I was very ill once and drove men/women crazy the saying what goes around comes around blah blah. I should stop thinking like this.
Posted by Dinah on August 8, 2003, at 7:02:47
In reply to Re: cats pajamas, posted by slinky on August 8, 2003, at 2:31:51
Sounds like a healthy approach, slinky. I'm sorry about this one. I remember he made you feel safe at the beginning.
(And you are the cat's pajamas.)
Posted by lostsailor on August 8, 2003, at 9:29:03
In reply to Re: Nah, I'm still going with all him P.S » gabbix2, posted by Tabitha on August 8, 2003, at 1:45:58
a) warped minds think alike
b) slinks just really is the cat's pajamas
c) both of the above.
I am going with C--final answer and no need to use a "lifeline"
~t
Posted by zenhussy on August 8, 2003, at 12:38:56
In reply to Re: cats pajamas, posted by slinky on August 8, 2003, at 2:31:51
> Feeling drunk this morn..took 10mg valium + booster magnesium + neurontin and went to bed.
> Phoned him-he said he put phone down cause conversation wasn't getting anywhere....my conversations never get anywhere:-)Neither do mine but I stopped caring about that a long time ago.
> I'm going to focus on other things now I'm sick of being a projection screen for his problems.
Yeah. Readjust that focus to you and get you in crystal clear focus so that your art comes back and the priority is *you*.
> Thanks for being sweet..why arn't there more people in the real world like folks here..probably are-just don't get out much :-)
Told ya people here are nice.
> Gabby..sometimes we meet someone who appears so nice then it's jeckal n hyde so we forgive the bad times ..
> but stranglation isn't acceptable:-)
Never.
> Sometimes I feel I deserve things cause I was very ill once and drove men/women crazy the saying what goes around comes around blah blah. I should stop thinking like this.
Stop thinking like that. Stop thinking like that.*smoochie smoochie*
zh
Posted by gabbix2 on August 8, 2003, at 13:50:25
In reply to Re: cats pajamas » slinky, posted by zenhussy on August 8, 2003, at 12:38:56
Yeah, slinky, people are nice and we're honest.
Cause Tabby and I were both thinking Cats Pajamas as a description for you and I think its because you're such a sweet and funny, charming, and smart little duck no typical description would suit you, so we both thought of something a little offbeat.
So if you ever think
"oh all those people are just saying that" We're not like those school counsellors who you just knew said to EVERYONE
"You have a lot going for you"It is hard though I know, not having a few like-minded 3d friends. I don't know what I'd do without the people here. I mean that, I REALLY DON'T.
I wonder if its made the difference between life and death in all seriousness.
Though sometimes I find this like an Itch I can't scratch, its just so close... but not quite.
It would be so nice just to have a
girlfriend for tea and laugh about this stuff,
unstead of having it loom over you, I remember how a that could sometimes turn a heartbreak into a comedy,
women are truly amazing that way.And yes strangulation is *never* acceptable.
I love that understatement. I think I shall sign
everything with that now.
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