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Posted by lili80 on April 9, 2002, at 9:00:09
Ok I was on IM and just looking up internet stuff, when this girl who is not usually mean and vindictive IMs me the following:
HER: fuck you
ME: what?
HER: u heard me
ME: i don't know why you said that
HER: well get over it i said it
ME: fine hate me for no reason
HER: k i will
ME: then leave me alone
HER: die
I don't know what she thinks i did
or why they keep hurting me
they are obviously spreading lies about me again, but now i feel guilty like whatever they say is still my fault and has truth in it cause they are more credible that crazy me, I know why they keep doing this. She IMed me first i dont know why she would say these things to me
i hate this, maybe i should just kill myself, it make everything just go away. sar could do it, i just need to be brave like her. I cant wait to die, everyone wants me dead anyway, i know my mom will be said, because i am her life, but my sister is having a baby soon so she wont be so lonely anymore. I wish they would just forget i exist.
lili
Posted by Penny on April 9, 2002, at 11:32:48
In reply to still in hell, posted by lili80 on April 9, 2002, at 9:00:09
>everyone wants me dead anyway
WE don't. Really and truly, Lili. WE want you around!
PLEASE, find SOMETHING to hold on to, to help you hold on to life. BEAT THIS THING, for sar. Beat it for everyone that goes through this kind of torment.
Don't know what to say to you, except to remind you that you can make it through this, and the folks on the board are here to help you in any way we can.
Email if you need to: penny1076 at yahoo dot com.
Love, Penny
Posted by jay on April 9, 2002, at 13:21:13
In reply to still in hell, posted by lili80 on April 9, 2002, at 9:00:09
I just wanted to relate my story, as I am in a similar boat, and feel everyone hates me. What you have to wonder about, though, is these people who waste their time being mean, maybe *they* are the ones who are psychologically screwed up. Really, they put this energy into being Nazis, maybe *they* need some ECT, and to go on heavy duty drugs because how else can you explain such idiots? Maybe better yet, just tell them to f**k off. Being around "toxic" people like that is something we don't need, as we have our own problems to deal with. "You" are really all's that is important at this moment.
Posted by Gracie2 on April 9, 2002, at 20:36:45
In reply to still in hell, posted by lili80 on April 9, 2002, at 9:00:09
This is not your problem, it's hers! How bored/lonely/screwed up you have to be to spew such hateful words for no reason at all. Block all of her IMs immediately in your computer and then forget about her.
Also, please remember, it takes more courage to live. Please hang in there.
-Gracie
Posted by Krazy Kat on April 10, 2002, at 10:16:01
In reply to still in hell, posted by lili80 on April 9, 2002, at 9:00:09
lili:
i haven't been a real part of these posts, and i'm sorry.
please get a therapist now if you don't have one. these are issues, imho, that you need to discuss with someone who has seen them before and knows how to react. and i'm not even a pro-therapy person. :) i did go to a therpay of sorts when my marriage was in grave trouble, and it helped a lot.
it seems like these feelings are prevalent and consistent, and having others' professional reassurance that they are incorrect could be very valuable.
it took me awhile to learn to just drop people, including best friends and lovers, who were negative in my life. but that's the way life is, and the way we survive. if you can, never answer this person again, and to hell with the lies they may be spreading, to hell with what they think. this seems to get easier to do as one gets older. maybe because one just starts getting tired. :)
- kk
Posted by Penny on April 10, 2002, at 16:15:25
In reply to Re: still in hell » lili80, posted by Krazy Kat on April 10, 2002, at 10:16:01
> it took me awhile to learn to just drop people, including best friends and lovers, who were negative in my life. but that's the way life is, and the way we survive. if you can, never answer this person again, and to hell with the lies they may be spreading, to hell with what they think. this seems to get easier to do as one gets older. maybe because one just starts getting tired. :)
I completely agree. Cutting some folks off from my life has been the best thing that ever happened to me. One of them happened to be my 'best' friend/roommate in college. I don't miss her now.Penny
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