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Posted by Mair on April 7, 2002, at 10:59:30
In reply to Re: ANNOUNCEMENTtrouble, posted by Phil on April 7, 2002, at 10:29:38
I'm pretty sure that her family lives in San Antonio or wherever she was right before she moved back to Austin. Can't we just go through every xxx in the San Antonio phone book?
Mair
Posted by Phil on April 7, 2002, at 11:25:45
In reply to Re: ANNOUNCEMENT confirment, posted by kid_A on April 7, 2002, at 10:55:32
kid_A, can you let me and others know what you find out.
I would like to have some info to research since I'm right here. I'll post my email if you want it.Phil
Posted by Phil on April 7, 2002, at 11:40:11
In reply to Re: kid_A, posted by Phil on April 7, 2002, at 11:25:45
u can email me at: yoyoyoyo78703@yahoo.com
appreciate any info.
Phil
Posted by Shar on April 7, 2002, at 12:21:46
In reply to Re: kid_A Mair, posted by Phil on April 7, 2002, at 11:40:11
My deepest sympathies to those who lost a friend and loved one when Sar died. My heart goes out to the people here at Babbles who were close to her, and I wish you all comfort.
For Sar, I believe she is undoubtedly in a place of peace and out of the terrible pain of living. I will remember her warmly as part of the family here.
Shar
Posted by Greg on April 7, 2002, at 12:37:51
In reply to Sympathies, posted by Shar on April 7, 2002, at 12:21:46
I also want to extend my heart-felt sympathies to those here who have lost a loved one. I only knew Sar from her writings here, but thru the pain and sorrow I saw I also saw a person who was incredibly passionate about those she cared about. This was one of many things that made her a very special person.
I hope she finds the peace she was seeking. She will be missed.
Greg
Posted by IsoM on April 7, 2002, at 12:47:10
In reply to Re: ANNOUNCEMENT » friend, posted by kid_A on April 7, 2002, at 10:28:19
kid_A, please, PLEASE e-mail Flawedplan@aol.com with sar's full name. This person can track down any obits, if this is real, & reach the state hospital in 10 minutes to check things out. If this is someone's deranged idea of a prank, it needs tracking down immediately.
Posted by kid_A on April 7, 2002, at 13:01:13
In reply to KID_A - please read and answer!!!! » kid_A, posted by IsoM on April 7, 2002, at 12:47:10
> kid_A, please, PLEASE e-mail Flawedplan@aol.com with sar's full name. This person can track down any obits, if this is real, & reach the state hospital in 10 minutes to check things out. If this is someone's deranged idea of a prank, it needs tracking down immediately.
I can send you her name, yet, I have allready called her place of work who confirmed that she was found dead in her appartment on tuesday. They even gave me the name of a contact person at the Police Department Victim Services center.
Posted by Krazy Kat on April 7, 2002, at 13:07:28
In reply to Re: KID_A - please read and answer!!!! » IsoM, posted by kid_A on April 7, 2002, at 13:01:13
do you know if this is true? i certainly believe kid_a, but i can't understand. she had been sounding a little better. i also have her info and will help any way i can.
Posted by Krazy Kat on April 7, 2002, at 13:23:51
In reply to dreamer... others..., posted by Krazy Kat on April 7, 2002, at 13:07:28
please, please, please include me on any info/anything i can do. i am so distraught - i don't what to do...i need something to do.
perrofeliz@ivillage.com
doghappy@ivillage.com
kcmodzelewski@yahoo.com
Posted by trouble on April 7, 2002, at 13:44:27
In reply to my emails, posted by Krazy Kat on April 7, 2002, at 13:23:51
still blocked
Posted by Phil on April 7, 2002, at 13:52:23
In reply to still blocked, posted by trouble on April 7, 2002, at 13:44:27
If you're not comfortable with email, maybe Dr. Bob could give you a get out of jail free card.
Phil
Posted by trouble on April 7, 2002, at 13:56:13
In reply to still blocked, posted by trouble on April 7, 2002, at 13:44:27
Hey all,
Everyone has questions, I want to talk to people who were w/her toward the end. I want to go to the coffee house, maybe not today, it depends on your answers.
If you don't think this is ethical, to get into her life, when the deal here is that we are all anonymous, I understand, and am struggling w/that.It seems to me that all of a sudden it's a new ballgame, and all of the old bets are off. To me, it's not a question of what harm can it do, it's a question of what would Sar want? And the answer to that can only be guessed at. I await your replies.
trouble
Posted by Krazy Kat on April 7, 2002, at 14:07:11
In reply to guess not, posted by trouble on April 7, 2002, at 13:56:13
trouble:
did you know her? or is that where you live?
thanks.
- kk
Posted by Krazy Kat on April 7, 2002, at 14:11:22
In reply to did you know her? » trouble, posted by Krazy Kat on April 7, 2002, at 14:07:11
any more info would be greatly appreciated. i am torn up and want So badly to have more info.
- kk
Posted by Mair on April 7, 2002, at 14:23:07
In reply to guess not, posted by trouble on April 7, 2002, at 13:56:13
Trouble - others may disagree, but i don't think Sar was as assiduous as others about protecting her identity and I don't think she would mind our attempts to find out more. I think she had such little regard for herself - I would love to find a way to let people who knew her understand how special and important she was to all of us. If you or Phil or Kid_a are able to find anything out, please share whatever you are able to glean. I'm sure others feel as helpless and lost as I do - this is such a hard thing to deal with under any circumstances and particularly within the constraints of internet relationships.
Thank you
Mair
Posted by LiLi80 on April 7, 2002, at 14:51:56
In reply to ANNOUNCEMENT, posted by friend on April 6, 2002, at 18:55:30
I know a lot of people think that friend might be lying, but it is possible that this friend of sar's is fulling a wish of hers. I know that I told my friend that if I did kill myself that I wanted her to post on this board and tell everyone. Sar obviously cared about us alot and maybe she wanted someone tell us about her death. It is possible that that is what happened.
Posted by trouble on April 7, 2002, at 15:10:11
In reply to did you know her? » trouble, posted by Krazy Kat on April 7, 2002, at 14:07:11
Hi Krazy Kat,
Thanks for talking to me again, I don't know what the original idea was but it's family now, we pick on each other and Dad throws our butt in the slammer for a week but when it comes down to it we all pull together; that's family.
No I didn't know her, but she was on the list. I had to restrain myself, I had an idea which coffee houses to check out, but I didn't know. I could'nt tell if I was reading her right and I didn't want to screw it up.
Sometimes behind that brilliantly confessional, combustible writing is a decision that I will do THIS instead....A decision like that must be respected,and I've misread it so many times before, came on too much and too noisy in person and needless to say if I would have gone slower, done less, let them make the first move, etc etc things might have turned out different.
Did you see any invitations in her writing? It seemed when the Lester Bangs thread came out, something about the cool people who live in Austin that was probably it; she said trouble and I wrestle on Guadalupe Street everyday, that was the coffeehouse, that neighborhood, it seemed we were getting close to an invitation, but that is just a guess. It will remain unfinished.
We will memorialize her, Kid_A will figure out how, and see to it that she'll always be with us.
Thanks again KK, keep in touch, maybe some of us should stay very close to the board right now.
trouble
Posted by trouble on April 7, 2002, at 15:16:22
In reply to It is possible...., posted by LiLi80 on April 7, 2002, at 14:51:56
Right Lily. You're smart. Now help
us to understand the meaning of having someone else come here to tell us the news.
If it was me, I'd go out in a firestorm of words, and I'd make damn sure they'd be my own.trouble
Posted by Krazy Kat on April 7, 2002, at 15:39:11
In reply to Re: did you know her?, posted by trouble on April 7, 2002, at 15:10:11
trouble:
i have no trouble communicating with you at all. we are just very different sorts. i need to learn to give people the room i request for myself. i read some of your writings at the site posted here for lili - they are spectacular.
i think any help you could give us re: sar would be much appreciated. i suppose we could just post it on chat so there is not a permanent record of detailed info - what do you think?
i'm really at a lost with how to deal with this right now.
- kk
Posted by Zo on April 7, 2002, at 16:26:33
In reply to ANNOUNCEMENT, posted by friend on April 6, 2002, at 18:55:30
Posted by Zo on April 7, 2002, at 17:27:01
In reply to Blessings to her dear soul (nm), posted by Zo on April 7, 2002, at 16:26:33
Please, people, don't post your email address in the usual way. Web spiders are constantly harvesting , the info then sold.
PLUS you're addy will be on Google--search engines pick up posts!
Write it out: zozo at mac dot com
Posted by trouble on April 7, 2002, at 17:36:42
In reply to Re: did you know her? » trouble, posted by Krazy Kat on April 7, 2002, at 15:39:11
KK,
Why not let's stand by and wait for Kid_A's input. If he's been mobilized into action by this incomprehensible tragedy, some sense of purpose can go a long way toward facilitating one's "healing"; or it may have laid him in bed for the next few days, at any rate I'm for standing by.
I've never seen him truly lost and disoriented before today, and the way I see it whoever's been hit the hardest is the one who ought to call the shots.I've been in the archives, and it's clear that everyone here loved Sar and fussed over her escapades, loved her open need and ability to connect and her desperation to be good.
Someone has to pay for this.What I want to do is locate the evil witch psychiatrist who pronounced her defective as an aside, as Sar was walking out the door, Oh By The Way, she's schizoaffective and-oh, you still here? You shouldn't have been listening, anyway I wasn't even talking to you have a nice night.
Was this Sar's last pdoc? If someone can confirm that information I will take care of the rest.
trouble
Posted by Dinah on April 7, 2002, at 17:40:43
In reply to what now? FINGERPOINT!, posted by trouble on April 7, 2002, at 17:36:42
Can you make it to chat?
Posted by Mair on April 7, 2002, at 17:44:26
In reply to Re: what now? » trouble, posted by Dinah on April 7, 2002, at 17:40:43
Someone should let her know if they did. I know Sar emailed her sometimes and they were good friends on this Board. Kristi hasn't been around alot lately and I don't know if she lurks at all.
Mair
Posted by trouble on April 7, 2002, at 17:54:32
In reply to Re: what now? » trouble, posted by Dinah on April 7, 2002, at 17:40:43
Oh God Dinah I wish I could but I've tried too many times in the past and it sent me around the bend. Nufsed.
If you have info on this pdoc you can just email it to me.
Thanks for the offer,trouble
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