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Posted by rskontos on September 30, 2007, at 18:19:22
OK I think my T dumped me. I missed a therapy session b/c of a very bad week. I called and explained. She called back to set something up we missed each other. I called right back like 10 minutes later and not a word. Do I call her again or what. Why would she not call me. It has been over a week. She has two jobs and I know she is busy. I have not bonded to her but she knows I have attachment issues, I have a dissociative disorder. She knows abandonment is my biggest thing so why no word? That is why I think I have been dumped. I know this dissocative thing is tough. What should I do. Anyone have any suggestions. I am getting back. I have been trying to remember some of my areas of I have no memories and twice when I tried to remember I hit a wall of physical pain unlike anything I have ever had happen. I mean it physically made me ill to the point I thought I would pass out. I loss my vision, it got blurry with spots, I got nauseous almost ill, I had to lay down. This has happened twice. Now why did I try twice to see if I imagined it. I have always had balck out where I lost time but not like this. I need to talk to someone about this and would like to talk to her but I am anxious about the fact she hasn't call me back. Oh did I mention I have anxiety and depression issues too. I did tell her I thought I was too messed up, maybe she agreed. Any suggestions. RK
Posted by Dory on September 30, 2007, at 19:34:17
In reply to I think my T dumped me, posted by rskontos on September 30, 2007, at 18:19:22
deep breaths... yes, i would definitely say call her back. Make sure your message says that you feel very upset and it's important you speak with her. Does she not have a receptionist? Can you give her a time when you will certainly be home to take a call? If yes, then give her a time range of a few hours so she can find the time to connect with you.
It is very rare for a T to just dump someone without even a final appointment... so try to hold onto that. A T that is going to dump someone would tell them directly. It is unfair that she has not made more of an effort to contact you and you should address that with her.
But right now, it's in your hands as to what you do. You have the option of calling and making contact. i hope you do that.
Posted by rskontos on September 30, 2007, at 21:17:02
In reply to Re: I think my T dumped me » rskontos, posted by Dory on September 30, 2007, at 19:34:17
Thanks Dory, I will do that. I have trust issues and she knows that so I am so puzzled and yes hurt too that she has done this. And I have always just ran from people to avoid being hurt, so a big part of me just wants to run and hide while the other part of me says see what happens when you go out in the world. You know what I mean. But I need the help I think she can bring. I guess tomorrow I will attempt another call and if that one goes unanswered............thanks for responding. I feel so alone right now. and it helps to talk here.........I hope you read my post to your horrible things thread. I think we have alot in common.......
Posted by Dinah on October 1, 2007, at 8:55:56
In reply to I think my T dumped me, posted by rskontos on September 30, 2007, at 18:19:22
Definitely call back. Messages sometimes get misplaced for one reason or another, especially if she's busy. It happens to me all the time. I need to pin the messages to my shirt or something.
Posted by rskontos on October 1, 2007, at 9:42:52
In reply to Re: I think my T dumped me » rskontos, posted by Dinah on October 1, 2007, at 8:55:56
Thanks guys, I will call båck. Maybe I am being too sensitive about the whole thing. Thanks for the support.
Posted by muffled on October 1, 2007, at 13:26:40
In reply to Re: I think my T dumped me, posted by rskontos on October 1, 2007, at 9:42:52
> Thanks guys, I will call båck. Maybe I am being too sensitive about the whole thing. Thanks for the support.
**NOT too sensitive, just normal. I think most of us have been thru this at one time or another.....
Good luck, hope things go OK.
M
Posted by Dory on October 1, 2007, at 14:39:12
In reply to I think my T dumped me, posted by rskontos on September 30, 2007, at 18:19:22
any word today? how are you doing? coping ok?
Posted by rskontos on October 1, 2007, at 15:40:28
In reply to Re: I think my T dumped me » rskontos, posted by Dory on October 1, 2007, at 14:39:12
Thanks Dory, I am doing better thanks to some nice posters that brightened up my day!!!! You included!!!!! I wrote you a nice long babblemail only to get an error message. I will try again later.
Posted by Dory on October 1, 2007, at 20:00:28
In reply to Re: I think my T dumped me, posted by rskontos on October 1, 2007, at 15:40:28
you don't have babblemail turned on.. you have to go back to the registration page to do that... look in the FAQ. When it's not turned on you can't send or receive bmail
Posted by rskontos on October 1, 2007, at 21:13:15
In reply to Re: I think my T dumped me » rskontos, posted by Dory on October 1, 2007, at 20:00:28
OK thanks I will turn it on.
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