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Posted by Happyflower on May 21, 2007, at 18:23:32
I guess we are in a little spat, right now, you know, resetting boundries because things went too far. But it sucks because I need to talk to him. I called last week and he didn't have an open appointment, and he didn't call today either. So what do I have to do wait each day to see if I will get a last minute appointment?
Last session he asked me if I wanted to not set an appointment and just call him on a as needed basis, well I am glad I said no. I called him last week because I really need to talk to him and he had nothing open even this week. I don't want to wait until next week, but I guess I have no choice. Doesn't he care that I need him? uggh! I am getting angry because I feel like he is doing this on purpose. I am probably wrong, but it is hard not to take it personally. I NEED him and it feels like he doesn't care, and I just want to have a temper tantrum. blah!
Posted by susan47 on May 21, 2007, at 21:01:23
In reply to I am getting angry at my T, posted by Happyflower on May 21, 2007, at 18:23:32
Maybe you're becoming a bit too reliant on him and he wants you to be a bit more independent. Are you being demanding and unreasonable in any way? I mean, if we took the male/female thing out of it, is this how you would be with any other T? Or just This One?
I remember those days.
Yechccchhhh excuse me while I puke. I really remember those stupid insane I-Am-Woman, heeeyy Tarzan wanna hike up MY vine? Ew, baby.
I remember.
Posted by Happyflower on May 22, 2007, at 8:14:32
In reply to A little bit of Transference? » Happyflower, posted by susan47 on May 21, 2007, at 21:01:23
> Maybe you're becoming a bit too reliant on him and he wants you to be a bit more independent?
um, no, I have a real issue I need to talk to him about, it has been over 3 weeks, he told me to call if I needed him.
Are you being demanding and unreasonable in any way? I mean, if we took the male/female thing out of it, is this how you would be with any other T? Or just This One?I have never had another T. I am not being demanding or unreasonable, I don't know why you are saying these things, it is making me feel very judged.
> I remember those days.
My T experience isn't yours, I am not you, and he isn't your T.> Yechccchhhh excuse me while I puke. I really remember those stupid insane I-Am-Woman, heeeyy Tarzan wanna hike up MY vine? Ew, baby.
> I remember.I am not insane, and I don't want to F*ck him, I just need his help in a current issue I am having. A issue that a T is suppose to be able to help a client with. I am not trying to get is attention for sex or anything else, I just need some help and I am frusterated that he has no open appointments.
Please do not post to me anymore, thanks.
Posted by 10derHeart on May 22, 2007, at 9:50:09
In reply to A little bit of Transference? » Happyflower, posted by susan47 on May 21, 2007, at 21:01:23
>Are you being demanding and unreasonable in any way?
> I remember those days.
> Yechccchhhh excuse me while I puke. I really remember those stupid insane I-Am-Woman, heeeyy Tarzan wanna hike up MY vine? Ew, baby.
> I remember.Even if your intention is to be supportive, please don't jump to conclusions about others or post things that could lead them to feel accused or put down.
Reagarding the PDNP request, per the FAQ, Happyflower should contact the administration to
discuss the request, reasons it's needed, etc. After that, a determination will be made whether it will be enforced. As I can't be sure when this will happen, I ask that you please honor Happyflower's request not to post to her for now/until you hear otherwise. Thanks.If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please see the FAQ: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
Follow-ups regarding these issues should be directed to Admin and should of course be civil. Dr. Bob has oversight over deputy decisions, and he may choose a different action.
Respectfully,
10derHeart, acting as deputy for Dr. Bob
Posted by LadyBug on May 22, 2007, at 9:59:55
In reply to I am getting angry at my T, posted by Happyflower on May 21, 2007, at 18:23:32
Hugs to you my friend. I'm sorry for the hurt. I do hope you can get into see your T SOON!!!! I know how you must feel. Be persistant in trying to get in to see him. I hope he makes time for you.
LadyBug
Posted by Nathan_Arizona on May 22, 2007, at 16:55:33
In reply to I am getting angry at my T, posted by Happyflower on May 21, 2007, at 18:23:32
I hope that you get to see your T again soon too.
Hang in there happyflower.
Posted by dispatcher on May 24, 2007, at 12:54:59
In reply to PDNP » susan47, posted by Happyflower on May 22, 2007, at 8:14:32
wow. one post and a PDNP.
Doesn't there need to be a pattern of harrassment?
Can you just PDNP to a person who's post you don't like?
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