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Posted by LlurpsieNoodle on April 24, 2007, at 19:47:46
There's nothing that my supervisor can do to take back the hurtful negativity that came my way today.
She didn't do her job. That's not my fault but she used me as my punching bag. She knows I have a pathological reaction to stress.
Thanks. (that was sarcastic)
Strongly tempted to do bad things. my T calls me back after email about what happened. told me it wasn't my fault.
I still feel nauseous. I'm supposed to eat ice cream. That's the therapeutic plan
2 klonopin. bubble bath and ice cream.
and a babble hug? maybe? I rarely solicit hugs. but this might be one of those times.
Posted by TherapyGirl on April 24, 2007, at 19:52:45
In reply to hug?, posted by LlurpsieNoodle on April 24, 2007, at 19:47:46
BIG ONE!!!!!!!!!!
(((((((((((Llurpsie))))))))))))
I know all about toxic, pathological bosses and I sympathize.
Posted by Honore on April 24, 2007, at 21:07:27
In reply to hug?, posted by LlurpsieNoodle on April 24, 2007, at 19:47:46
Lurpsie, you can get a hug any time you need it-- any time it feels good.
I'm sorry your advisor used you to vent bad feelings-- she should know better.
Esp now.
I'm still send my good thoughts and energies.
(((((((((Lurpsie)))))))))
Honore
Posted by jammerlich on April 24, 2007, at 21:26:45
In reply to Re: hug?, posted by Honore on April 24, 2007, at 21:07:27
(((((Ms. Noodle)))))
I'm sorry your advisor is so obnoxious. But, I'm really glad you came here to ask for what you need.
Posted by gazo on April 24, 2007, at 22:07:43
In reply to Re: hug?, posted by jammerlich on April 24, 2007, at 21:26:45
(((((Llurpsie))))))
sorry it was a rough day... what flavour ice cream?
Posted by Gee on April 24, 2007, at 22:12:51
In reply to Re: hug?, posted by gazo on April 24, 2007, at 22:07:43
You can have all the rest of my strawberry icecream. (((Noodle))
So, when does the shin kicking of your advisor go down?
Posted by Deneb on April 24, 2007, at 22:34:26
In reply to hug?, posted by LlurpsieNoodle on April 24, 2007, at 19:47:46
Posted by DisTraught on April 25, 2007, at 0:09:28
In reply to hug?, posted by LlurpsieNoodle on April 24, 2007, at 19:47:46
I'm so sorry about your day. It's NOT your fault.When my boss was mean I threatened to tape the conversation the next time and hand it to the media. I figured he wouldn't want to give abuse a public face, know what I mean?;)
Penny
Posted by LadyBug on April 25, 2007, at 16:59:15
In reply to hug?, posted by LlurpsieNoodle on April 24, 2007, at 19:47:46
(((((((LlurpsieNoodle)))))))
I'm always up for a hug when someone needs it! It's always the words of wisdom that I struggle with. I hope your feeling better and that things are going better. You're in my thoughts.........
LadyBug
Posted by ElaineM on April 25, 2007, at 19:09:53
In reply to hug?, posted by LlurpsieNoodle on April 24, 2007, at 19:47:46
LLllllots of hugs for you Lurp.
(((((LL))))) 1 for the cr@p stuff that happened
(((((LL))))) 1 for contacting T
(((((LL))))) 1 for having a plan, and taking care tonightblove, El
Posted by pegasus on April 26, 2007, at 9:08:58
In reply to hug?, posted by LlurpsieNoodle on April 24, 2007, at 19:47:46
Llurps, I somehow missed what happened to you, but I know what it's like to need hugs so bad. So here's a warm and gentle hug for you. (((((llurpsie)))))
I hope you're on the mend from your very bad day.
peg
Posted by LlurpsieNoodle on April 26, 2007, at 14:02:39
In reply to hug a little late, posted by pegasus on April 26, 2007, at 9:08:58
All hugs were recieved in gentle gratitude.
My very bad day is over.
yesterday was medium
today I'm feeling okay.
please send me some good vibes~~~~~
-Ll
Posted by Honore on April 26, 2007, at 14:39:53
In reply to Hug Update, posted by LlurpsieNoodle on April 26, 2007, at 14:02:39
I'm sending as pure a stream of good vibes as I can amass, due west, with directions to circle around the areas where your essence has left any trace, until they have a fix on your location. At which point, they will dive down and surround you with an aura of warmth and light. Plus extra hugs.
Hope they get there soon (I know they will).
Honore
Posted by LlurpsieNoodle on April 26, 2007, at 14:52:55
In reply to Re: Hug Update, posted by Honore on April 26, 2007, at 14:39:53
> I'm sending as pure a stream of good vibes as I can amass, due west, with directions to circle around the areas where your essence has left any trace, until they have a fix on your location. At which point, they will dive down and surround you with an aura of warmth and light. Plus extra hugs.
>
> Hope they get there soon (I know they will).
>
> HonoreAhhh. I think I feel them finding me. little quanta of vibe-ey-ness.
Amazingly calm, despite not eating my beta-blocker yet...
maybe it's the shell of protective good vibes from babblefolk
-Ll
p.s. I gave the basic talk to my T, without any notes or slides in 25 minutes. She found it very interesting and seemed genuinely enthusiastic. That helps a lot too
(((((t~vibes)))))
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