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Posted by Iwillsurvive on March 18, 2007, at 23:41:45
cuz I SUCH a dope.
I think I SO great and handle all well, and I am doing SO great and I just about perfect and nothing bugs me and I am a model client I have done so well, then something interests me and of course I acn handle it cuz I am SO good, but then I get freaked out.
DAMN.
But really,
I be fine,
ALWAYS am.
HA!
Sh*t anyways.
This slow server be getting me down,
No T and babbles unwell :(
Hells bells.
This is proly a test,
Just a test,
Of IWS coping mechanisms,
this is just a test.
G'night.
HA, see how well I do.
HA!
Posted by Racer on March 19, 2007, at 16:33:15
In reply to BAM, sombuddy kick this ladys *ss, posted by Iwillsurvive on March 18, 2007, at 23:41:45
HoneyBunny, the reason you feel as though you're coping so well when things are going smoothly is that there's nothing to cope with!
OK, that was an attempt to make you smile. I doubt it worked.
Now that Babble's working better again, let me just say that I don't care whether you fall apart sometimes, or freak out, or decide you need an @$$whooping. I only care that you're you, and that you're here.
How about, instead of an @$$-kicking, I offer you -- not a hug, but maybe an elbow rubbing? Just like in "Young Frankenstein." (Am I the only one who remembers that part? Madeline Kahn never let Gene Wilder kiss her, they just rubbed their elbows together? I think I could handle that...)
Take care, Missy. Take good care of yourself.
Posted by Llurpsie_Noodle on March 20, 2007, at 3:39:48
In reply to Re: BAM, sombuddy kick this ladys *ss » Iwillsurvive, posted by Racer on March 19, 2007, at 16:33:15
Hi Racer,
I missed you bunches. do you have an elbow to spare for me?anyways. I usually have this thought "I'm doing so well, I've got it all figured out" about 1-24 hours later I'm in some complete melt-down because something occurs to me and I don't have the presence of mind to un-occur it.
I hate it when someone snaps the insight-towel at me. insight is nice and warm and soaks up all kinds of garbage, but it can also make us feel all optimistic and strong and then
BAM something "happens" and the equilibrium is no longer.
IWS, how's this coping mechanism wroking out for you. if it's a test, did me and Racer pass? I'm a bit of an overachiever myself. if there's any extra-credit involved I suppose I can give you an elbow rub too (that sounds really bizarre having never seen this movie but whatever. I wouldn't kiss Gene Wilder either. yuck!)
-Ll
Posted by Iwillsurvive on March 20, 2007, at 11:23:18
In reply to Re: BAM, sombuddy kick this ladys *ss » Iwillsurvive, posted by Racer on March 19, 2007, at 16:33:15
> HoneyBunny, the reason you feel as though you're coping so well when things are going smoothly is that there's nothing to cope with!
*OH! Duh!!!! LOL! :)
>
> OK, that was an attempt to make you smile. I doubt it worked.*ROFL it worked! Works everytime I read this, makes me smile :)
Maybe I so happy to see Racer around too.
>
> Now that Babble's working better again, let me just say that I don't care whether you fall apart sometimes, or freak out, or decide you need an @$$whooping. I only care that you're you, and that you're here.*that made my chest hurt. Thank you. That is a very good thing you said and the words are good words.
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> How about, instead of an @$$-kicking, I offer you -- not a hug, but maybe an elbow rubbing? Just like in "Young Frankenstein." (Am I the only one who remembers that part? Madeline Kahn never let Gene Wilder kiss her, they just rubbed their elbows together? I think I could handle that...)
>
> Take care, Missy. Take good care of yourself.**Elbow rubs, they proly ok. Just no sneaking up!
You take good care too.
>>><<< Ha, thats elbows being together! Ha!
Posted by Iwillsurvive on March 20, 2007, at 11:31:50
In reply to Re: BAM, sombuddy kick this ladys *ss » Racer, posted by Llurpsie_Noodle on March 20, 2007, at 3:39:48
LLurpy, hope you doing OK.
I am OK.
Just something going on inside but I dunno what.
Maybe sad and tired and scared and I dunno.
But I got patience like a spider.
I can wait and wait.
Sorta sucks though.
But I always ok.
I always survive.
Just the way it is.
Posted by Llurpsie_Noodle on March 20, 2007, at 21:25:52
In reply to Re: BAM, sombuddy kick this ladys *ss, posted by Iwillsurvive on March 20, 2007, at 11:31:50
I have the temperament of a cat.
at times so relaxed and loose.
at other times scared by the slightest twitch
alternating between wanting to be around people and wanting to isolate myself
doesn't like being sneaked up on either
everyonce in a while breaking into random sprints around the house and biting random chunks of air in an effort to make a kill
patient stalker
curious
good problem solver
vigilant
clever
just don't tell me what to do!
*******
enough about me. I'm so sorry that you're sad and tired and scared. I wish I could give you some relief :(
I've been soaking up new knowledge without having time or energy to process it. I'm scared that sometime soon it's gonna catch up with me and that I'll have to deal with it. are you kind of in a holding (fermenting?) pattern right now?
Well, there's always ice cream. no matter what there will always be ice cream. I hear that even in the hospital there's ice cream.
you always survive, and better- you come out a survivor. you make it through this and you will have a little boost to your self-confidence. but I understand your ambivalence at gaining self-confidence. It involves changing how you feel about yourself, and sometimes we get kinda comfy with ourselves. We forget that we deserve better.
well just a couple random thoughts from my addled mind.
gonna go sleepy now,
best,
-Ll
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