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Posted by happyflower on August 16, 2006, at 8:31:33
Okay, I haven't seen him at the gym, and it is totally messing with my head. Is he not going because of me? Is he sick? Is he dying? Why did he sell his motorcycle and now he is thinking about not renewing his gym membership. I miss him so much today, but I need to cut the cord, I want to call him so much today, just hear his voice. This is killing me.
Tell me not to call or I will make a complete fool of myself. I need to get over this. I need to get over him.
Posted by llrrrpp on August 16, 2006, at 10:14:09
In reply to Tell me not to call my T today PLEASE!, posted by happyflower on August 16, 2006, at 8:31:33
Hi Happyflower,
He probably has very simple reasons for doing these things. And his reasons probably don't have much of anything to do with you. Are you in danger of hurting yourself? Are you in crisis? [then please call him]Perhaps you can try to distract yourself from these thoughts? It's time to play some Bolero, or a few 3 octave scales. How about going to the garden center and picking up some new flowers for your front yard. Get out your nail polish and paint your toenails. Anything to keep you busy!!
-ll
Posted by bent on August 16, 2006, at 11:08:44
In reply to Tell me not to call my T today PLEASE!, posted by happyflower on August 16, 2006, at 8:31:33
I agree with ll, he probably has very simple reasons. But that doesn’t make it easier for us! I tend to jump to the worst-case scenario when something is off with my T, and so far, I am always wrong. Does he have voicemail you could call just to hear his voice? Sometimes that helps me. If you really need him call, but I understand the not wanting to (while at the same time wanting to). Its so messed up, I know. I hope you can find something to do for you! I am sure he's fine.
Posted by susan47 on August 16, 2006, at 11:13:54
In reply to Re: Tell me not to call my T today PLEASE! » happyflower, posted by bent on August 16, 2006, at 11:08:44
I called the voicemail and it was disaster, I got so turned on and comforted I couldn't stop.
Don't do it if you're at all anxiety-driven and have any OCD tendencies at all. Call somebody who will understand. Somebody who's been in therapy and felt this way.
Aaaggggghhhhh.
I know. I know iknowiknowiknowiknow!!!!
Posted by happyflower on August 16, 2006, at 11:43:57
In reply to Re: Tell me not to call my T today PLEASE! » happyflower, posted by llrrrpp on August 16, 2006, at 10:14:09
> Hi Happyflower,
> He probably has very simple reasons for doing these things. And his reasons probably don't have much of anything to do with you.You are probably right about that.
Are you in danger of hurting yourself? Are you in crisis? [then please call him]
No, I don't hurt myself or in a crisis, I am just worried, and I miss him so much.
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> Perhaps you can try to distract yourself from these thoughts? It's time to play some Bolero, or a few 3 octave scales.LOL I DO need to practice, and 3 octave scales would wear out any trumpeter.
How about going to the garden center and picking up some new flowers for your front yard. Get out your nail polish and paint your toenails. Anything to keep you busy!!
Thanks llrrry! I did call his voice mail, it is a little embarrising because I have to ask his receptionist to transfer me to it, and I called twice. I hope he doesn't have caller ID, because I hung up after the beep.
>
> -ll
Posted by happyflower on August 16, 2006, at 11:47:03
In reply to Re: Tell me not to call my T today PLEASE! » happyflower, posted by bent on August 16, 2006, at 11:08:44
Thanks Bent,
I am sure I am just going stir crazy at the momement. I am going to my chiropracter in a few hours, so maybe the massage will calm me down. I just miss him so bad this week. I am a little nervous too, that this is the weekend my families reunion is happening, and I am a scared of seeing my mom. I will be in Chicago over the weekend, so I hope that will help. I see my T on Monday.
Posted by happyflower on August 16, 2006, at 11:50:27
In reply to Re: Tell me not to call my T today PLEASE!, posted by susan47 on August 16, 2006, at 11:13:54
Hi Susan,
Calling his voice mail helped, just to hear his voice. I think what might be causing me to be nervous is the family reunion this weekend. I hope my mom doesn't come into town. I will be out of town, but it still freaks me out. I guess I am just needed my T to calm me, tell me I will handle everything okay. Deep breaths.
Posted by susan47 on August 16, 2006, at 22:10:14
In reply to Upcoming family reunion is what is making me nuts » susan47, posted by happyflower on August 16, 2006, at 11:50:27
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