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Posted by happyflower on February 10, 2006, at 11:35:20
How are you? Is your MIL still improving? Have you heard yet when you might be able to start therapy? Check in when you get a change. I am thinking of you! :-)
Posted by muffled on February 10, 2006, at 15:03:53
In reply to Tamar? Are you still around?, posted by happyflower on February 10, 2006, at 11:35:20
Posted by Damos on February 12, 2006, at 23:42:42
In reply to Tamar? Are you still around?, posted by happyflower on February 10, 2006, at 11:35:20
Miss Ya - lots.
Miss you and your posts more than you know. I'm so in awe of the way you are able to be with others here, the incredible 'knowingness', understanding and caring of your replies to people; the way you go to places inside you that must be so hard for you so you can reach out and help someone else. I so admire you for that. And the way you can go from that to being so funny, deliciously wicked and playful in the blink of an eye. Well, that's just something I so wish I could do. Something that makes having you here with us so very nice. It's a special thing to be able to call you my friend.
I can still remember seeing Matt's thread and the post from you that said "I'd like to get to know Damos better", or something like that, and I thought "Wow, why?" and replied with something clever and witty like "Hi Tamar" and it was as easy as that, like meeting a long lost friend. You've always been so incredibly kind, caring and giving to me and you give the most spectacular hugs ;-) and it hurts that you're hurting so much right now, and to not know how to return that kindness and caring with lashings of love and support, now when you need it most.
Tamar I so don't want you to be hurting or to be hurt. Just wish I could snuggle you up in my arms when the pain and hurts get too much to bear and hold you tight till they pass, I really do (not sure what hubby would say about that though). Please come and be with us in Muffled's forest, or Voce's aquarium, or come and sit with me on the beach at sunset, whatever will help you be safe and okay. You mean so very much to a lot of us and we miss you. Just know we care for you - deeply, and love you - dearly.
Think of you, your MIL and family constantly and sending lots of love and warmest wishes - always.
((((((((((Tamar))))))))))
Posted by muffled on February 12, 2006, at 23:53:27
In reply to Dearest Tamar, posted by Damos on February 12, 2006, at 23:42:42
Posted by 10derHeart on February 13, 2006, at 13:17:48
In reply to Dearest Tamar, posted by Damos on February 12, 2006, at 23:42:42
Damos speaks for me, too.
I can hardly think of a thing to add.
(He is one h*ll of an outstanding spokesman!!)
((Tamar)) I know it must be nearly impossible, but this hard time *will* pass. They do, they really do pass and life gets brighter.
Posted by Tamar on February 16, 2006, at 19:27:54
In reply to Tamar? Are you still around?, posted by happyflower on February 10, 2006, at 11:35:20
> How are you? Is your MIL still improving? Have you heard yet when you might be able to start therapy? Check in when you get a change. I am thinking of you! :-)
Thanks HF! Yes, my MIL is still improving. She still has a very long way to go, but she seems to be out of immediate danger. The kids finally were allowed to see her last week, and they were much happier afterwards, despite her extensive and very visible injuries.
Thinking of you too...
Tamar
Posted by Tamar on February 16, 2006, at 19:39:53
In reply to Dearest Tamar, posted by Damos on February 12, 2006, at 23:42:42
Hi Damos,
Thanks so much for your caring words and your kindness.
> Tamar I so don't want you to be hurting or to be hurt. Just wish I could snuggle you up in my arms when the pain and hurts get too much to bear and hold you tight till they pass, I really do (not sure what hubby would say about that though).
Yeah, a snuggle sounds really nice. Fortunately my husband isn’t jealous about that kind of thing. He’s been known to enjoy an extra-marital snuggle or two himself… I suppose we should probably keep our clothes on though…
> Please come and be with us in Muffled's forest, or Voce's aquarium, or come and sit with me on the beach at sunset, whatever will help you be safe and okay.
Oh yes please. I think I will make three magic doors in my house: one door to Muffled’s forest, another to Voce’s aquarium, and a third to your beach. If we sit on the beach at sunset, will the sand still be warm?
> Think of you, your MIL and family constantly and sending lots of love and warmest wishes - always.
Lots of love and hugs to you too, (((((Damos))))).
Tamar
Posted by Tamar on February 16, 2006, at 19:41:10
In reply to hey Tamar (nm), posted by muffled on February 10, 2006, at 15:03:53
Posted by Tamar on February 16, 2006, at 19:43:29
In reply to Re: Dearest Tamar, posted by 10derHeart on February 13, 2006, at 13:17:48
> Damos speaks for me, too.
>
> I can hardly think of a thing to add.
>
> (He is one h*ll of an outstanding spokesman!!)He's great, isn't he?
> ((Tamar)) I know it must be nearly impossible, but this hard time *will* pass. They do, they really do pass and life gets brighter.
Thanks 10der. It's good to hear. I can almost remember what life was like when I enjoyed it, and I miss that. It's good to be able to imagine that I will enjoy it again one day.
Posted by damos on February 18, 2006, at 16:30:36
In reply to Re: Dearest Tamar » Damos, posted by Tamar on February 16, 2006, at 19:39:53
Yep the sand will still be warm. And we can listen to the ocean lapping against the shore and the Seagulls calls calling out supper time. We could even walk along the waters edge and let the tide gently lap around our feet.
Nice to see you back, just so very nice.
((((((((((Tamar))))))))))
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