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Posted by happyflower on December 7, 2005, at 19:28:38
like 4 times since Thursday? Normally I MIGHT see him once a week at the gym, but now he seems to be going every other day.
Not that I am compaining, it is some nice eye candy to look at, makes me work out a little harder! LOL I am not sure if I am breathing hard because I am working too hard or if it is because my T is there. LOL
But it feels like I am being watched, LOL . Do you think he is stalking me ? LOL.
But seriously though, it is starting to feel a little normal to see him all the time. I don't know why I am disclosing this, but it was just a thought. It is the most I have ever seen him.
Posted by Tamar on December 7, 2005, at 19:31:50
In reply to Wouldn't you think it was weird if you saw your T, posted by happyflower on December 7, 2005, at 19:28:38
> like 4 times since Thursday? Normally I MIGHT see him once a week at the gym, but now he seems to be going every other day.
> Not that I am compaining, it is some nice eye candy to look at, makes me work out a little harder! LOL I am not sure if I am breathing hard because I am working too hard or if it is because my T is there. LOL
> But it feels like I am being watched, LOL . Do you think he is stalking me ? LOL.
> But seriously though, it is starting to feel a little normal to see him all the time. I don't know why I am disclosing this, but it was just a thought. It is the most I have ever seen him.Either he wants to see more of you, or he's been eating too much recently and needs to work it off...
Maybe he wants to get into shape before the holiday season hits him in the tummy?
It must be nice to be able to see him frequently and feel that it's normal. Better than having a non-verbal car park encounter (sigh).
Posted by daisym on December 7, 2005, at 23:15:30
In reply to Wouldn't you think it was weird if you saw your T, posted by happyflower on December 7, 2005, at 19:28:38
Posted by fairywings on December 8, 2005, at 12:35:25
In reply to Wouldn't you think it was weird if you saw your T, posted by happyflower on December 7, 2005, at 19:28:38
Maybe it's just the cold weather and good timing! ; )
fw
Posted by muffled on December 8, 2005, at 13:01:12
In reply to Wouldn't you think it was weird if you saw your T, posted by happyflower on December 7, 2005, at 19:28:38
> like 4 times since Thursday? Normally I MIGHT see him once a week at the gym, but now he seems to be going every other day.
> Not that I am compaining, it is some nice eye candy to look at, makes me work out a little harder! LOL I am not sure if I am breathing hard because I am working too hard or if it is because my T is there. LOL
> But it feels like I am being watched, LOL . Do you think he is stalking me ? LOL.
> But seriously though, it is starting to feel a little normal to see him all the time. I don't know why I am disclosing this, but it was just a thought. It is the most I have ever seen him.
**HE'S been thinking about soaping YOU all over!!!!ALL over!!! Ha!
Gotta get me a man T.
Take care!
Posted by happyflower on December 8, 2005, at 13:36:54
In reply to **T-trigger** He wants you » happyflower, posted by muffled on December 8, 2005, at 13:01:12
Hey, You are TOOO much! LOL Seeing that T trigger I think feels weird, like I am doing something wrong with my thoughts or something.
Posted by muffled on December 8, 2005, at 14:24:10
In reply to Re: **T-trigger** He wants you » muffled, posted by happyflower on December 8, 2005, at 13:36:54
Posted by happyflower on December 8, 2005, at 15:43:26
In reply to I thot thats what I supposed to do? (nm), posted by muffled on December 8, 2005, at 14:24:10
It is Muffled, I just think it feels like weird like we are doing something wrong or something. Thats all. It makes me want to close myself off because I can't be free to speak about how I feel.
Posted by happyflower on December 8, 2005, at 15:51:47
In reply to Re: I thot thats what I supposed to do? » muffled, posted by happyflower on December 8, 2005, at 15:43:26
Maybe we should start our own little group then?
What could we name it? T's in love with their clients? LOL I wana marry my T?
Posted by happyflower on December 8, 2005, at 15:53:39
In reply to T TRIGGER T TRIGGER T TRIGGER T TRIGGER » happyflower, posted by happyflower on December 8, 2005, at 15:51:47
It seems to me that almost every post on this board could be a trigger to someone. Where do we draw the line ?
Posted by muffled on December 8, 2005, at 16:00:56
In reply to Re: T TRIGGER T TRIGGER T TRIGGER T TRIGGER, posted by happyflower on December 8, 2005, at 15:53:39
> It seems to me that almost every post on this board could be a trigger to someone. Where do we draw the line ?
***Yeah, one of those things its hard to tell. But judging just from the basic reactions, what the hell, lets T-trigger our T posts that even MIGHT be controversial and just leave it at that. I sometimes put trigger on posts that I even THINK might be a prob, and sometimes I don't think at all!!!Its not that they are BAD posts, its just there are some that can't tolerate the humour. And THATS OK. Takes all kinds to make the world go round. Thats a wonderful thing.
There are those of us who have a more wacky irreverant sense of humour and to me it is a HUGE blessing. I love to be able to laugh, even at the odd things. It SAVES me. So post away you wild thing!!!I need your humour.
Thanks Happy,
Muffled and Muffly etc.
Posted by allisonross on December 9, 2005, at 10:37:13
In reply to Re: T TRIGGER T TRIGGER T TRIGGER T TRIGGER, posted by muffled on December 8, 2005, at 16:00:56
> >There...that should do it for anyone who might be triggered by discussions of our feelings for t's, LOL
can't help it if I have an outrageous sense of humor
It seems to me that almost every post on this board could be a trigger to someone. Where do we draw the line ?
I made that same statement!
>
> ***Yeah, one of those things its hard to tell. But judging just from the basic reactions, what the hell, lets T-trigger our T posts that even MIGHT be controversial and just leave it at that. I sometimes put trigger on posts that I even THINK might be a prob, and sometimes I don't think at all!!!Its not that they are BAD posts,Geez, it could make a person paranoid, or something! Maybe we should get a therapist, LOL, LOL, LOL
its just there are some that can't tolerate the humour. And THATS OK. Takes all kinds to make the world go round. Thats a wonderful thing.
> There are those of us who have a more wacky irreverant sense of humour and to me it is a HUGE blessing.I am the poster-child for wacky, irreverent, sassy, wild-child (done of course, in an elegant fashion!!)
I love to be able to laugh, even at the odd things. It SAVES me.
i have saidthe EXACTsame thing. Said that if it were not for my wicked wit and sense of humor, I would be drooling in a corner somewhere
(hey, a childhood of abuse, and 31 years of abusive marriage, followed by a church that kicked me out cause I got a divorce).....and what?
My t said he was "blown away at my ability to overcome pain." Hey, it's been my profession all of life!! I am GOOD at it.
Thatz my story, and I am stickin to it (green light bulb, and ALL)
So, let's nominate each other for the "In love With T" Club....who wants to be president?I'll collect the money (LOL)
hugs n love..to ya both!! .from one one wild-child, sassy, toothsome wench, out there, born standin up and talkin back, shameless hussy ...So...enough about ME, what do YOU think about ME?!!
Ally-gurl!
.......etc.!
So post away you wild thing!!!I need your humour.
> Thanks Happy,
> Muffled and Muffly etc.
Posted by happyflower on December 9, 2005, at 11:01:54
In reply to Re: HappyMuffy-ONLY T TRIGGER T TRIGGER T TRIGGER, posted by allisonross on December 9, 2005, at 10:37:13
I think after suffering from some very shocking child abuse for (I should of
died) for many years, if I didn't learn to laugh, I would have killed myself if I didn't release the pain. My T said I suffered some of the worse child abuse he has heard, and we has been a T for a long time and is an organization to prevent child abuse and helps with CPS to deceide about
what to do with kids of child abuse.Laughing helps with the pain. If I couldn't laugh, I would be in an institution, I am sure. So maybe my humor is a little offcolor, but if you walked in my shoes, the more pain you endured
, the more you need to laugh. I would rather be a little obnoxious sometimes, then dead.
I am still learning what is acceptable, so I don't mean to offend anyone. I do have a high level of admiration and respect for my T. Yes I am sexually attracted to him. Sex is suppose to be a natual thing, I know some have been abused, so I see where they are coming from and why it triggers them. I am sure with my T's sense of humor, he wouldn't be insulted by my sexual comments, in fact I think he would be flattered by them. But I will respect others and put trigger warning on my posts(probably most of them)) In fact I am almost ready to tell him I want him wrapped up naked with a bow for Christmas. I am sure he would laugh, because he would understand.
Posted by allisonross on December 9, 2005, at 12:27:42
In reply to Trigger of all kinds T and types » allisonross, posted by happyflower on December 9, 2005, at 11:01:54
> I think after suffering from some very shocking child abuse for (I should of
> died) for many years,I hear you, Happy. I had a friend tell me that she couldn't believe that I had any sense of self, and that I was not dead. i think it is a miracle, too...if not for my sense of humor life would be unbearable.
if I didn't learn to laugh, I would have killed myself if I didn't release the pain. My T said I suffered some of the worse child abuse he has heard, and we has been a T for a long time and is an organization to prevent child abuse and helps with CPS to deceide about
> what to do with kids of child abuse.
>
> Laughing helps with the pain. If I couldn't laugh, I would be in an institution, I am sure.me, too.
So maybe my humor is a little offcolor, but if you walked in my shoes, the more pain you endured
> , the more you need to laugh.My t asked me what did I think was behind the joking, flirting, teasing stuff. I said: pain.....a way of keeping it away. Life is too short and precious to take it seriously; we should live each day as if it were our last....
because....one day
it will be. I figure as long as my friends/loved ones are not ill, or dying, It's NOT that serious! Life can be, and is so tragic and always something ucky happening. Might as well lie down and croak right now, cause it goes on, with or without you!
iI would rather be a little obnoxious sometimes, then dead.
> I am still learning what is acceptable, so I don't mean to offend anyone. I do have a high level of admiration and respect for my T.So do I.. We have an unbelievable relationship. The reason is because as he says: i am not afraid to discuss the "hard" stuff; meaning the scary stuff about ALL my feelings, and yes....those for him, also.
Yes I am sexually attracted to him. Sex is suppose to be a natual thing, I know some have been abused, so I see where they are coming from and why it triggers them. I am sure with my T's sense of humor, he wouldn't be insulted by my sexual comments, in fact I think he would be flattered by them.
Mine LOVES my teasing and sense of humor; he has a wonderful outlook on life, an is not afraid to be.....authentic with me.
But I will respect others and put trigger warning on my posts(probably most of them)) In fact I am almost ready to tell him I want him wrapped up naked with a bow for Christmas. I am sure he would laugh, because he would understand.
Know that song (I love it) played at Christmastime---ALL I WANT FOR CHRISTMAS......IS YOU (it's really fast and makes ya wanna dance); speaking of that, must start preparing for my Flamenco Christmas performance.
There ya have it, there ya go!!
hugs, Ally (sassy, wild-child)
Posted by muffled on December 9, 2005, at 14:18:13
In reply to Re: HappyMuffy-ONLY T TRIGGER T TRIGGER T TRIGGER, posted by allisonross on December 9, 2005, at 10:37:13
My T is a LADY, talk about B.O.R.I.N.G.
Gotta get me a man-T, thats what I say!
You guys are having WAY too much fun!!!!!!!!!!
Actually my T is very nice, but I just don't want to jump her!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dang anyways!!!
So if you don't mind I'll just vicariously enjoy your guys fun!
Muffled
Posted by happyflower on December 9, 2005, at 14:24:52
In reply to Siiiiiggggggghhhhhhhhh....... » allisonross, posted by muffled on December 9, 2005, at 14:18:13
> My T is a LADY, talk about B.O.R.I.N.G.
> Gotta get me a man-T, thats what I say!
> You guys are having WAY too much fun!!!!!!!!!!
> Actually my T is very nice, but I just don't want to jump her!!!!!!!!!!!!!
> Dang anyways!!!
> So if you don't mind I'll just vicariously enjoy your guys fun!
Hey, Muffy,
It also is a little painful too, but laughing about our fantasies helps, but maybe you are better off than us. :) But enjoy our crazines, if you like! LOL
Posted by allisonross on December 9, 2005, at 15:38:43
In reply to Siiiiiggggggghhhhhhhhh....... » allisonross, posted by muffled on December 9, 2005, at 14:18:13
Dear Mufferino!!! Wonderful to have you join the happyflower n me in our little club!! I could (but I won't here); walls have ears ya know...CIA n all.
tell you some stuff that would make you want to come right over to my house, sit down, and we would have a LONG, exciting chat, LOL, LOL
Geez, if ya can't have any fun, might as well lay down and take the dirt nap....early!!!
Gurls just wanna have fun!!! LOVE having you with us to do the vicarious thing.
Yer right; gotta get a man t!
Hugs, Ally (Shameless hussy, sassy)
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