Psycho-Babble Psychology Thread 579607

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Dr.Bob's new picture...

Posted by B2chica on November 17, 2005, at 10:27:04

...makes me ache inside. it makes me feel like i missed out on something special. that enjoyment of being a child. i hate her and i wish i was that stick figure by that beautiful tree. i always hear people say, "i wish i was a kid again"....i've never felt like that. now i remember why. i never drew pictures like this. maybe that gives me a reason to like it. to fall into it.

am i the only one that feels like this.
b2c.

 

Re: Dr.Bob's new picture...

Posted by LadyBug on November 17, 2005, at 11:17:27

In reply to Dr.Bob's new picture..., posted by B2chica on November 17, 2005, at 10:27:04

I like the new picture, it is a reminder of the little child inside of me.

 

Re: Dr.Bob's new picture...

Posted by B2chica on November 17, 2005, at 11:28:53

In reply to Re: Dr.Bob's new picture..., posted by LadyBug on November 17, 2005, at 11:17:27

> I like the new picture, it is a reminder of the little child inside of me.


-for me it's like the lost little child. maybe there's hope she will be found?
b2c.

 

Re: Dr.Bob's new picture... » B2chica

Posted by Frida on November 17, 2005, at 14:01:22

In reply to Re: Dr.Bob's new picture..., posted by B2chica on November 17, 2005, at 11:28:53

Hi..

It has actually made me cry- it also reminds me of the lost, hurt, damaged and needy little girl inside of me :-(

love to the little girl in you
Frida

> > I like the new picture, it is a reminder of the little child inside of me.
>
>
> -for me it's like the lost little child. maybe there's hope she will be found?
> b2c.
>
>

 

Re: LadyBug B2Chica/Bob;s new pic.

Posted by allisonross on November 17, 2005, at 14:29:16

In reply to Re: Dr.Bob's new picture..., posted by B2chica on November 17, 2005, at 11:28:53

You can be kids again. I am going to take you to my house, let you play on the swing set, slippery-slide; give you milk and cookies, hot chocolate in the winter, and lemonade in the summer......read you stories, hug you, let you run in a field filled with flowers, and at the end of the day, when you are all itchy from the weeds and flowers; give you a bath, put you in your pajamas, give you your favorite stuffed animal, tuck you in, read you a story (again, LOL), kiss you goodnight.

Love, mom
Ally

 

I have same old pic.????...

Posted by muffled on November 17, 2005, at 15:09:25

In reply to Dr.Bob's new picture..., posted by B2chica on November 17, 2005, at 10:27:04

If you talking about the one at the top of the page.

 

B2, Ally. ***trigger?***

Posted by muffled on November 17, 2005, at 15:17:54

In reply to Re: LadyBug B2Chica/Bob;s new pic., posted by allisonross on November 17, 2005, at 14:29:16

> You can be kids again. I am going to take you to my house, let you play on the swing set, slippery-slide; give you milk and cookies, hot chocolate in the winter, and lemonade in the summer......read you stories, hug you, let you run in a field filled with flowers, and at the end of the day, when you are all itchy from the weeds and flowers; give you a bath, put you in your pajamas, give you your favorite stuffed animal, tuck you in, read you a story (again, LOL), kiss you goodnight.
>
> Love, mom
> Ally

NOBODY gives me a bath, NOBODY tucks me in. You got that. But the rest sounds lovely.
Can you really go back like that? I can't. Kid hood is DEAD. Sweet little kid ain't though. Met her. Damn B2, I wish you could meet your little sweetie inside. She's there.
Muffled.

 

Ooops. Sh*t.Above post stupid.Never mind. (nm)

Posted by muffled on November 17, 2005, at 15:19:33

In reply to B2, Ally. ***trigger?***, posted by muffled on November 17, 2005, at 15:17:54

 

Sweet post Allison.Sorry.Dunno whats wrong w/me? (nm)

Posted by muffled on November 17, 2005, at 15:24:30

In reply to Ooops. Sh*t.Above post stupid.Never mind. (nm), posted by muffled on November 17, 2005, at 15:19:33

 

The artist is one of our own... » B2chica

Posted by 10derHeart on November 17, 2005, at 16:01:07

In reply to Dr.Bob's new picture..., posted by B2chica on November 17, 2005, at 10:27:04

...this is Deneb's work. See the thread on the bottom of the Admin board that Alex started....think it's called "Cool pic"

Deneb either sent it or made a link available to Dr. Bob....and now look...she's Babble-famous!

I should let her explain what led her to draw it, but if I recall a bit of her posts...the figure is Dr. Bob, and he's watering the Tree of Babble, with the lovely colors being all the different posters growing on the tree. I really, really like it.

(Deneb did I come close?)

You guys own impressions were lovely and touching, too.

- 10derHeart (seems more like blabber-Heart lately, can't seem to not throw in my 2 cents all over the boards...)

 

Here's the Admin link...

Posted by 10derHeart on November 17, 2005, at 16:04:16

In reply to The artist is one of our own... » B2chica, posted by 10derHeart on November 17, 2005, at 16:01:07

http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20051013/msgs/579492.html

 

Re: The artist is one of our own... » 10derHeart

Posted by Deneb on November 17, 2005, at 16:57:54

In reply to The artist is one of our own... » B2chica, posted by 10derHeart on November 17, 2005, at 16:01:07

>the figure is Dr. Bob, and he's watering the Tree of Babble, with the lovely colors being all the different posters growing on the tree.

That's right! :-) You explained it perfectly.

Dr. Bob is like a gardener...he takes care of the Babble Tree. :-)

 

Re: LadyBug B2Chica/Bob;s new pic. » allisonross

Posted by LadyBug on November 17, 2005, at 19:11:10

In reply to Re: LadyBug B2Chica/Bob;s new pic., posted by allisonross on November 17, 2005, at 14:29:16

Oh Ally,
That sounds awesome!!! All of it, especially the part about getting a bath and putting on my jamies and getting my favorite stuffed animal!!! And a hug???? That's what I need the most!! I never got a hug from my Mom, but my Dad hugged me!
Your so sweet Ally Mom!
LadyBug

 

:-) (nm) » Deneb

Posted by 10derHeart on November 17, 2005, at 21:57:33

In reply to Re: The artist is one of our own... » 10derHeart, posted by Deneb on November 17, 2005, at 16:57:54

 

thank you mother ((((ally)))) (nm)

Posted by B2chica on November 18, 2005, at 9:29:23

In reply to Re: LadyBug B2Chica/Bob;s new pic., posted by allisonross on November 17, 2005, at 14:29:16

 

Re: B2, Ally. ***trigger?*** » muffled

Posted by B2chica on November 18, 2005, at 9:33:33

In reply to B2, Ally. ***trigger?***, posted by muffled on November 17, 2005, at 15:17:54

> NOBODY gives me a bath, NOBODY tucks me in. You got that. But the rest sounds lovely.
> Can you really go back like that? I can't. Kid hood is DEAD. Sweet little kid ain't though. Met her. Damn B2, I wish you could meet your little sweetie inside. She's there.
> Muffled.

i must admit i felt a little funny when i read bath. its interesting cuz yesterday in session i mentioned that i remembered my mother giving me and my brother baths and whenever she bathed me she was terribly rough, i remember feeling almost raw when she was done. maybe that's why i hate taking baths and showers.
i'm just wondering...is it wierd to have kids the age of 6-7 and 8-9 taking baths together?
it makes me angry when you talk about the stupid little girl inside me.

i think that's what my T wants. i should tell him to just get me talking about her.
b2c.

 

Re: LadyBug B2Chica/Bob;s new pic. » LadyBug

Posted by allisonross on November 18, 2005, at 9:35:27

In reply to Re: LadyBug B2Chica/Bob;s new pic. » allisonross, posted by LadyBug on November 17, 2005, at 19:11:10

> Oh Ally,
> That sounds awesome!!! All of it, especially the part about getting a bath and putting on my jamies and getting my favorite stuffed animal!!! And a hug???? That's what I need the most!!

I read somewhere that for just BASIC mental health, we all need at least 16 hugs a day. Just think of it; most of us get None...No wonder everyone is so crabby!!

I never got a hug from my Mom, but my Dad hugged me!

How sad, but I am glad your dad hugged you. I never knew my father, my mother hugged me, but she was so abusive, it never meant anything.

> Your so sweet Ally Mom!

Thankyou, sweet ladybug (I LOVE ladybugs)

Do you know WHY mom never hugged you? That must have been so painful and confusing.

Hugs, Ally (mom)
> LadyBug

 

Re: Sweet post Allison.Sorry.Dunno whats wrong w/m » muffled

Posted by allisonross on November 18, 2005, at 9:36:27

In reply to Sweet post Allison.Sorry.Dunno whats wrong w/me? (nm), posted by muffled on November 17, 2005, at 15:24:30

Hi, sweetie: Nothing's wrong with you that a good hug couldn't help! Love, Ally (moms)

 

Re: B2, Ally. ***trigger?*** » B2chica

Posted by allisonross on November 18, 2005, at 9:45:46

In reply to Re: B2, Ally. ***trigger?*** » muffled, posted by B2chica on November 18, 2005, at 9:33:33

> > NOBODY gives me a bath, NOBODY tucks me in. You got that. But the rest sounds lovely.

Alrighty then.

> > Can you really go back like that?

Well, no....of course you can't go back, but you can find someone to nurture you, etc.....i never had it as a child, and then I just got out of 31 years of abusive marriage; so, I NEVER was nurtured, but I've got a ton to give (fo figure)

I can't. Kid hood is DEAD. Sweet little kid ain't though. Met her. Damn B2, I wish you could meet your little sweetie inside. She's there.
> > Muffled.
>
> i must admit i felt a little funny when i read bath. its interesting cuz yesterday in session i mentioned that i remembered my mother giving me and my brother baths and whenever she bathed me she was terribly rough, i remember feeling almost raw when she was done. maybe that's why i hate taking baths and showers.
> i'm just wondering...is it wierd to have kids the age of 6-7 and 8-9 taking baths together?

i wouldn't do it if they were the opposite sex ; kids are VERY aware of the differences, and it could start to be erotic. Those ages are too old for that.

> it makes me angry when you talk about the stupid little girl inside me.

She isn't stupid; she only wants to be loved and understood and nurtured. You can do that.
>
> i think that's what my T wants. i should tell him to just get me talking about her.

Why don't you?

Hugs, Ally
> b2c.

 

Re: thank you mother ((((ally)))) » B2chica

Posted by allisonross on November 18, 2005, at 9:52:14

In reply to thank you mother ((((ally)))) (nm), posted by B2chica on November 18, 2005, at 9:29:23

Thank YOU ((B2Chica)))); hugs and love. Moms, Ally

 

Re: LadyBug B2Chica/Bob;s new pic. » allisonross

Posted by Poet on November 18, 2005, at 9:58:21

In reply to Re: LadyBug B2Chica/Bob;s new pic., posted by allisonross on November 17, 2005, at 14:29:16

Hi Ally,

Four year old inner me is packing her little suitcase and running away to your house. She'll be carrying her purple stuffed bunny. Watch for her.

Poet

p.s. I think the drawing captures Dr. Bob very nicely.

 

kinda looks like he is peeing! LOL sorry guys! (nm)

Posted by happyflower on November 18, 2005, at 10:55:37

In reply to Dr.Bob's new picture..., posted by B2chica on November 17, 2005, at 10:27:04

 

Re: kinda looks like he is peeing! LOL sorry guys! (nm) » happyflower

Posted by muffled on November 18, 2005, at 13:12:44

In reply to kinda looks like he is peeing! LOL sorry guys! (nm), posted by happyflower on November 18, 2005, at 10:55:37

 

Re: kinda looks like he is peeing! LOL sorry guys! » muffled

Posted by muffled on November 18, 2005, at 13:14:50

In reply to Re: kinda looks like he is peeing! LOL sorry guys! (nm) » happyflower, posted by muffled on November 18, 2005, at 13:12:44

Aaaaaaaaaaaaack, my post, lost in cyberspace!!!!!!! What does this mean!!!!!! Actually, I am ROFL. You make me laugh so hard!! I love it.
Thanks.
Muffled.

 

B2***trigger?*** » B2chica

Posted by muffled on November 18, 2005, at 13:21:43

In reply to Re: B2, Ally. ***trigger?*** » muffled, posted by B2chica on November 18, 2005, at 9:33:33

> i'm just wondering...is it wierd to have kids the age of 6-7 and 8-9 taking baths together?
> it makes me angry when you talk about the stupid little girl inside me.
>
> i think that's what my T wants. i should tell him to just get me talking about her.
> b2c.

*Yes it is weird. I'll post more later.
Sorry to make you mad, but I feel so for that little one. I got one in me(who I used to hate), and I got a real live one of my own who is 6. So there you have it.
Talk when you ready, and not before.
Sorry.
(((B2...and the kid)))
Sorry.
Muffled.


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