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Re: 'Trolls' and Really Defensive People

Posted by SLS on March 3, 2014, at 14:23:54

In reply to Re: 'Trolls' and Really Defensive People, posted by Ronnjee on March 3, 2014, at 10:07:21

> "Trolls" in quotes, because it's a subjective judgement. "Defensive people" because I have seen many who I would characterize that way, and it appears that the most defensive are the ones who want a third-party solution the most. I am often perplexed at how incredibly defensive some are about posts that do not involve or are not directed at them. Why do they feel the need to defend? Why are they so sure that someone or the website need defending? Are they as defensive in real life, and do they expect third-party intervention? Are they unable to let something pass without action? Is it about virtue and nobility, ala Don Quixote?
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> These are just questions that occur to me.

I would feel that it be an abdication of my responsibility as a fellow human being to say nothing when innocence is attacked by injustice, bullying, or worse.

"The world is a dangerous place, not because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing." - Albert Einstein

To each his own.


- Scott

 

Re: 'Trolls' and Really Defensive People

Posted by Ronnjee on March 3, 2014, at 14:56:32

In reply to Re: 'Trolls' and Really Defensive People, posted by SLS on March 3, 2014, at 14:23:54

Where does that assumption of responsibility come from?

What I'm really curious to explore is the interestingly subtle relationships of "victim" and "victimizer".

 

Re: 'Trolls' and Really Defensive People

Posted by SLS on March 3, 2014, at 15:11:04

In reply to Re: 'Trolls' and Really Defensive People, posted by Ronnjee on March 3, 2014, at 14:56:32

> Where does that assumption of responsibility come from?

My personal choice to assume responsibility is a manifestation of my spiritual morality. I thought that the Einstein quote portrayed this very well. I subscribe to it. Do you?

I think that what we call "morality" (knowing right from wrong) is innate and actually hard-coded into our biology. When this is absent, we are looking at a psychopath.

> What I'm really curious to explore is the interestingly subtle relationships of "victim" and "victimizer".

Okay.


- Scott

 

Re: 'Trolls' and Really Defensive People

Posted by Ronnjee on March 3, 2014, at 15:11:38

In reply to Re: 'Trolls' and Really Defensive People, posted by SLS on March 3, 2014, at 14:23:54


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> "The world is a dangerous place, not because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing." - Albert Einstein
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This, coming from a man who's work and words contributed to the creation and use of the atomic bomb.

On the contrary, attributed to Saint Bernard of Clairvaux (c. 1150) is the quote, "The road to hell is paved with good intentions".

As always, the grey between the black and the white is where reality resides.

 

Re: 'Trolls' and Really Defensive People

Posted by SLS on March 3, 2014, at 15:29:45

In reply to Re: 'Trolls' and Really Defensive People, posted by Ronnjee on March 3, 2014, at 15:11:38

> > "The world is a dangerous place, not because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing." - Albert Einstein

> This, coming from a man who's work and words contributed to the creation and use of the atomic bomb.

The history of the development of the A-Bomb (and war in general) is not so simple. Shall I interpret your reaction to Einstein's words to be a repudiation of them?

> On the contrary, attributed to Saint Bernard of Clairvaux (c. 1150) is the quote, "The road to hell is paved with good intentions".

How do you interpret this quote? How does it relate to one's desire to help others?

> As always, the grey between the black and the white is where reality resides.

Were I to be blind, I would still see the universe in color.

Do you find anarchy at all attractive?


- Scott

 

Re: 'Trolls' and Really Defensive People » SLS

Posted by Ronnjee on March 3, 2014, at 15:56:01

In reply to Re: 'Trolls' and Really Defensive People, posted by SLS on March 3, 2014, at 15:29:45

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> > On the contrary, attributed to Saint Bernard of Clairvaux (c. 1150) is the quote, "The road to hell is paved with good intentions".
>
> How do you interpret this quote? How does it relate to one's desire to help others?
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I think about unintended consequences occurring from seemingly well-intended action. Idealists of every stripe have often been ultimately proven to have done more harm than good. Desire to help others is nice, but like all desire, needs to be tempered with caution and pragmatism.

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> Do you find anarchy at all attractive?
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In fact, I do. But I question the possible negative consequences. Revolution seems to be a good thing only in rewritten history that makes it look prettier and more noble than it is.

I'm trying to keep this discussion about this thread, more or less. I'm thinking about a psyche version of "give a man a fish.......", where learning to deal with the "slings and arrows" may be better than expecting to control the slingers. I think of road rage, and learning how to avoid it, starting with the acceptance that other drivers will always, at one time or another, do stupid or careless things on the road (as will we sometimes). We can't control that but we can learn to not be so surprised by it and not freak out about it.

 

Re: Trolls and Freedom of Speech » SLS

Posted by doxogenic boy on March 3, 2014, at 16:31:23

In reply to Re: Trolls and Freedom of Speech, posted by SLS on March 3, 2014, at 7:21:53

> I think it would be a big mistake to judge and identify anyone as being a "troll" for the purpose of website moderation. It is sort of like identifying someone with borderline personality disorder (or any other mental illness) and banning them from the website once they display problematic behaviors consistent with the description of that disorder. What if a deputy or moderator misdiagnoses someone? I think it is safer for the community to concern itself less with what a person is versus what a person does.

I value your objections, and I will try to further explain my point of view.

A deputy or a moderator can misdiagnose uncivility too, so I don't think it will be more arbitrary with a no-troll-policy. A troll is a troll because of what he/she does - no one can be a troll if he just thinks of trolling. The reason why I think it can be of importance to know if a poster is a troll is that he can be dangerous for other posters' mental health because of his sadistic and psychopathic personality. It is a big difference between a poster who is temporarily angry because he lost his job, and a troll that purposefully tries for a long time to mentally break down or destroy other users in a support group. And they may have met the troll before in other forums.

Canadian researchers have made the study "Trolls just want to have fun", which is published in the academic journal "Personal and Individual Differences":

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http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886914000324
Quote:
Abstract

In two online studies (total N = 1215), respondents completed personality inventories and a survey of their Internet commenting styles. Overall, strong positive associations emerged among online commenting frequency, trolling enjoyment, and troll identity, pointing to a common construct underlying the measures. Both studies revealed similar patterns of relations between trolling and the Dark Tetrad of personality: trolling correlated positively with sadism, psychopathy, and Machiavellianism, using both enjoyment ratings and identity scores. Of all personality measures, sadism showed the most robust associations with trolling and, importantly, the relationship was specific to trolling behavior. Enjoyment of other online activities, such as chatting and debating, was unrelated to sadism. Thus cyber-trolling appears to be an Internet manifestation of everyday sadism.
Keywords

Sadism;
Dark Tetrad;
Dark Triad;
Trolling;
Cyber-trolls;
Antisocial Internet behavior;
Personality
End quote.
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So trolling is much more dangerous for others' mental health than most people are aware of.

> How does a troll become a troll? Were they formally educated by the public school system to be a troll? Are there college classes for trolling that include lab work to practice troll behaviors? Can one be officially certified to be a troll? Are there blood tests we could use to differentiate a troll from a mentally ill person who does troll things?

There exist measuring instruments for this (it isn't a joke), such as the "Global Assessment of Internet Trolling"
I will quote from a news article about the above-mentioned study:

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http://arstechnica.com/science/2014/02/science-confirms-online-trolls-are-horrible-people-also-sadists/

Excerpt from the article above:
"Though it sounds awesome in an "evil magician" sort of way, the Dark Tetrad is actually a set of four "noxious" personality traits: narcissism, Machiavellianism, psychopathy, and sadism. Professors Eric Buckels, Paul Trapnell, and Delroy Paulhus hypothesized that online trolls would rank highly in Dark Tetrad traits, and they set out to test the idea with surveys administered both to Canadian students and to random users of Amazon's Mechanical Turk program (the latter group receiving fifty cents per person for their trouble).

Respondents answered survey questions drawn from the Short Sadistic Impulse scale, the Varieties of Sadistic Tendencies scale, the Short Dark Triad scale, and the newly developed Global Assessment of Internet Trolling. Some of the statements that researchers asked the group to respond to included:

I have been compared to famous people (narcissism)
It's not wise to tell your secrets (Machiavellianism)
Payback needs to be quick and nasty (psychopathy)
Hurting people is exciting (sadism)
In video games, I like the realistic blood sports (vicarious sadism)"
End quote.
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As you see in the quotation above, it is possible to assess trolling scientifically, but I think most people understand when they see a troll. But everyone can be fooled, therefore I propose this no-troll-policy.


> If a troll does troll things, then they will very likely be in conflict with the civility regulations for communication of Psycho-Babble. It really is a matter of if, when, and how the moderator decides to take action once they become aware of the violative posting behaviors. You can use the "Notify administration" function at the bottom of the posting page to convey your concerns. Ultimately, it is the role of the moderator to judge civility and not the deputies. It really doesn't matter that the deputies should try to make policy by defining what a troll is. It might be the deliberated decision of the moderator to allow uncivil behavior in a given circumstance.


The moderator can allow deputies to block trolls, if he wants to.


> Can you list a few objectionable things a troll will do that would NOT be a violation of this website's posting regulations?

A troll can sometimes behave nicely, as a part of the troll strategy, such as posting apologies, and shortly thereafter going back to harass other users, and this way hurt them even more, because they have been fooled to defend the troll, and then are attacked again. I don't mean that one should block anyone because of a apology, but as a part of the larger picture, it shows that it is a person with evil intentions.

I think it should be allowed to warn other users by telling them that it is a troll. For a suicidal person this could be very helpful, to avoid being trolled.

> Maybe a troll can learn not to be a troll? If so, blocking him from posting for a year will not optimize his chances of accomplishing this.

A person with psychopathic personality traits is biologically unable to learn empathy.

- doxogenic

 

Re: Trolls and Freedom of Speech » doxogenic boy

Posted by Ronnjee on March 3, 2014, at 16:50:34

In reply to Re: Trolls and Freedom of Speech » SLS, posted by doxogenic boy on March 3, 2014, at 16:31:23

Then there are those of us who think that applying empirical scientific method to human behavior is a fool's errand.

 

Re: Trolls and Extinction » SLS

Posted by doxogenic boy on March 3, 2014, at 16:52:03

In reply to Re: 'Trolls' and Really Defensive People, posted by SLS on March 3, 2014, at 14:23:54

> I would feel that it be an abdication of my responsibility as a fellow human being to say nothing when innocence is attacked by injustice, bullying, or worse.

I respect this principle very much, but when it comes to trolls, it may worsen the situation. Trolls have one goal: to get as much response as possible, and mostly angry response.

The only thing that works is extinction. Without any food, the troll will leave the forum.

http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/gadgets-and-tech/news/online-trolls-are-psychopaths-and-sadists-psychologists-claim-9134396.html

Quote:
"If an unfortunate person falls into their trap, trolling intensifies for further, merciless amusement. This is why novice Internet users are routinely admonished, 'Do not feed the trolls!'," the study warned.
End quote.

-doxogenic

 

Re: Trolls and Freedom of Speech » Ronnjee

Posted by doxogenic boy on March 3, 2014, at 16:56:49

In reply to Re: Trolls and Freedom of Speech » doxogenic boy, posted by Ronnjee on March 3, 2014, at 16:50:34

> Then there are those of us who think that applying empirical scientific method to human behavior is a fool's errand.

If we couldn't do that, then we had no psychiatry.

- doxogenic

 

Re: Trolls and Vulnerable People » Ronnjee

Posted by doxogenic boy on March 3, 2014, at 17:18:17

In reply to Re: 'Trolls' and Really Defensive People, posted by Ronnjee on March 3, 2014, at 10:07:21

> Why are they so sure that someone or the website need defending? Are they as defensive in real life, and do they expect third-party intervention? Are they unable to let something pass without action?

I think vulnerable people should have at least one safe place to go.

- doxogenic

 

Re: Trolls and Vulnerable People » doxogenic boy

Posted by Ronnjee on March 3, 2014, at 17:51:26

In reply to Re: Trolls and Vulnerable People » Ronnjee, posted by doxogenic boy on March 3, 2014, at 17:18:17


> I think vulnerable people should have at least one safe place to go.

Others have stated the same wish, and while I understand the desire, I sincerely doubt that such places truly exist.

In one breath, you stated your desire to have "trolls" quickly banished, while in a more recent post, you mentioned "don't feed the trolls", which seems to indicate simple non-response as a tactic - reinforcing my view that there are no pat answers.

 

Re: Trolls and Vulnerable People » Ronnjee

Posted by doxogenic boy on March 3, 2014, at 18:05:21

In reply to Re: Trolls and Vulnerable People » doxogenic boy, posted by Ronnjee on March 3, 2014, at 17:51:26

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> > I think vulnerable people should have at least one safe place to go.
>
> Others have stated the same wish, and while I understand the desire, I sincerely doubt that such places truly exist.

We can make them exist, if we want to, or are allowed to.


> In one breath, you stated your desire to have "trolls" quickly banished, while in a more recent post, you mentioned "don't feed the trolls", which seems to indicate simple non-response as a tactic - reinforcing my view that there are no pat answers.

If it comes a troll to a support group, and he isn't blocked (immediately), then extinction is the only thing that works. But it is difficult, since there always is someone who replies to the trolls' posts.

A combination of blocking trolls and extinction (whilst we are waiting for the blocking) is still the best medicine.

And the statement 'Do not feed the trolls!' was a quote:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20131217/msgs/1061756.html

- doxogenic

 

Re: Trolls and Freedom of Speech

Posted by Ronnjee on March 3, 2014, at 18:08:03

In reply to Re: Trolls and Freedom of Speech » Ronnjee, posted by doxogenic boy on March 3, 2014, at 16:56:49

> > Then there are those of us who think that applying empirical scientific method to human behavior is a fool's errand.
>
> If we couldn't do that, then we had no psychiatry.
>
> - doxogenic
>
Really? I wonder what empirical studies Freud and Jung used and cited.

 

Re: Trolls and Vulnerable People

Posted by Ronnjee on March 3, 2014, at 18:11:07

In reply to Re: Trolls and Vulnerable People » Ronnjee, posted by doxogenic boy on March 3, 2014, at 18:05:21

>
> We can make them exist, if we want to, or are allowed to.
>
But what do you do about members, such as me, who don't agree? Disagreement = troll?

 

Re: Trolls and Extinction » doxogenic boy

Posted by SLS on March 3, 2014, at 18:12:03

In reply to Re: Trolls and Extinction » SLS, posted by doxogenic boy on March 3, 2014, at 16:52:03

I agree with what you say regarding psychopaths. They are predators born without conscience. No doubt, many of these people troll the web, but I am dubious that all trolls are psychopaths. I also agree with you that the concept of "feeding" trolls is often accurate in its dynamic; with starving the troll often convincing him to leave the scene. The thing is, it is uncivil to call someone a troll. It is more of an accusation than it is a nosological description. Besides, it is much quicker to identify a behavior than it is to deliberate one's status as a troll.


- Scott

 

Re: Trolls and Freedom of Speech » Ronnjee

Posted by SLS on March 3, 2014, at 18:25:02

In reply to Re: Trolls and Freedom of Speech » doxogenic boy, posted by Ronnjee on March 3, 2014, at 16:50:34

> Then there are those of us who think that applying empirical scientific method to human behavior is a fool's errand.

Then, what do you call the person who refuses to even try? Genius?

My college classes indicated to me that there is a great deal about human behavior that can, and has, been studied emirically. Today, human behavior can even be studied neuropsychobiologically. We were also taught to appreciate the wealth of differences that lie in the personalities of different individuals - something that is difficult to quantify. Gestalt.


- Scott

 

Re: Trolls and Vulnerable People

Posted by SLS on March 3, 2014, at 18:45:11

In reply to Re: Trolls and Vulnerable People » doxogenic boy, posted by Ronnjee on March 3, 2014, at 17:51:26

> > I think vulnerable people should have at least one safe place to go.

> Others have stated the same wish, and while I understand the desire, I sincerely doubt that such places truly exist.

How hard have you looked? Have you, yourself, tried to create a safe place and failed?

> In one breath, you stated your desire to have "trolls" quickly banished, while in a more recent post, you mentioned "don't feed the trolls", which seems to indicate simple non-response as a tactic - reinforcing my view that there are no pat answers.

This is why I return to the simple concept of sanctioning behaviors as they occur rather than evaluating and categorizing people first. Intent is not always a factor to be considered in determining the civility of someone's words. However, when there is no moderator to police language, members of the community might then choose to behave in ways that disarm trolls.


- Scott

 

Re: Trolls and Freedom of Speech

Posted by Ronnjee on March 3, 2014, at 18:49:05

In reply to Re: Trolls and Freedom of Speech » Ronnjee, posted by SLS on March 3, 2014, at 18:25:02

I just think that the science is too often over-applied, over relied-upon in psychiatry, as it can be in other areas. There should be as many usable tools in the toolbox as possible, is all, and the toolbox owner better damn well know how to use them.

 

Re: Trolls and Vulnerable People

Posted by Ronnjee on March 3, 2014, at 19:00:19

In reply to Re: Trolls and Vulnerable People, posted by SLS on March 3, 2014, at 18:45:11

>
> How hard have you looked?

I haven't exactly looked, because it's not something I'm really interested in.

>Have you, yourself, tried to create a safe place and failed?

Even if I wanted to, I really have an aversion to banging my head against walls. I HAVE seen attempts at it in other forum venues, and the results were not positive.

I'm a proponent of tolerance, reasonableness, pragmatism, forgiveness, and I'm not a big fan of rules that exclude. WWJD?

 

Re: Trolls and Vulnerable People » Ronnjee

Posted by SLS on March 3, 2014, at 19:09:24

In reply to Re: Trolls and Vulnerable People, posted by Ronnjee on March 3, 2014, at 19:00:19

> WWJD?

What's that?


- Scott

 

Another Einstein Quote » SLS

Posted by Ronnjee on March 3, 2014, at 19:16:54

In reply to Re: Trolls and Vulnerable People » Ronnjee, posted by SLS on March 3, 2014, at 19:09:24

> > WWJD?
>
> What's that?
>

LOL - Google it, for God's sake

"Nothing is more destructive of respect for the government and the law of the land than passing laws which cannot be enforced." I don't think its a helluva lot differrent on forums.


 

Mike Duffy. » Ronnjee

Posted by SLS on March 3, 2014, at 19:28:27

In reply to Another Einstein Quote » SLS, posted by Ronnjee on March 3, 2014, at 19:16:54

> > > WWJD?
> >
> > What's that?
> >
>
> LOL - Google it, for God's sake

Are you kidding me?

That's how you answer a simple question?

Never mind.

"If you have to be right, you're wrong." - Mike Duffy.


- Scott

 

Re: Mike Duffy.

Posted by Ronnjee on March 3, 2014, at 19:37:08

In reply to Mike Duffy. » Ronnjee, posted by SLS on March 3, 2014, at 19:28:27


>
> Are you kidding me?
>
> That's how you answer a simple question?
>
It was PART of my answer about tolerance, etc. - I just plugged it at the end as maybe an example that would resonate. And BTW, I'm an athiest, so I was simply referring to what I've gathered was his M.O., not anything else.

I'm not trying to be right, I'm just sharing some thoughts, as you are, and I think a mix of ideas is good to consider. I really believe that we all can be right, and that win-win is a true possibility.

And there have been many times that I would've loved to see so-and-so instantly banished. But if I can't take a joke, it's on me, really.

 

Re: Trolls and Freedom of Speech » doxogenic boy

Posted by SLS on March 4, 2014, at 7:11:19

In reply to Trolls and Freedom of Speech, posted by doxogenic boy on March 1, 2014, at 12:21:35

I am in agreement with 10derheart regarding your initial post along this thread. I neglected to tell you that I appreciated your post and the time it took you to compose it.


- Scott


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