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Posted by SLS on October 4, 2006, at 0:30:29
In reply to Re: untrue religions, posted by SLS on October 3, 2006, at 6:53:14
Well, it is 11:00, and I still feel the same way about the phrase:
"not all religions are all true."
Out of context, it seems logical, true, and benign. I have said ths already.
However, within the environment of the Faith board, faith in, and emotional attachments to, one's own religion brings in a special set of dynamics.
I think a reasonable person could feel put down by reading this statement, even if taken out of context. I think it is reasonable to assume that the author would favor his own religion. In a forum where many people believe that their religions are all true, it is not unreasonable for a reader to assume that this might also be the belief of the author. To assume this, the reader would naturally feel put down, as this statement implies that his religion is not a true religion.
This statement is in a negative format and automatically places the reader in a defensive position.
Why should someone make a statement like this?
Let me add the surrounding text to the phrase cited for sanction:
"There is truth in all religions, but not all religions are all true. Most religions are man made with some sort of spiritual foundation."
I guess we now have the added proposition that the author probably believes that at least one religion is not man made. I think a reasonable reader would take this to indicate that the author believes that there exists a religion that is made by God. The reader would probably conclude that the author would choose to worship that religion that he believed was made by God.
Now, as I have illustrated in a previous post:
"To process the logic further, at most, only one religion can be all true. The reader is then faced with the proposition that the author would choose for himself the religion that he believed was all true. If the reader's religion is different from the author's religion, then the reader has just been told that his religion is not all true. Only a religion that is all true can be Truth. Therefore, any religion that is not all true is not Truth. The author has, in effect, made the statement that his religion is the only true religion and that all other religions are not true religions."
So, what do I think?
I think the author has very strong beliefs in his religion. I think it is very difficult to navigate the special standards of civility when authoring posts on the Faith board. I think a reasonable reader would feel put down by the phrase cited for IDENTIFICATION and sanction when in context. I do not think the statements represent an eggregious incivility. However, I do believe that the meaning of the statements is clear. It is not necessary that the author subscribe to the religion that is all true for the statements to be uncivil. The sanction is valid, if perhaps unpopular. The block is long, if perhaps equitable.
- Scott
Posted by Dinah on October 4, 2006, at 10:27:26
In reply to Re: untrue religions, posted by SLS on October 4, 2006, at 0:30:29
First of all, I'm sorry you felt hurt, Scott, and sorry that I didn't focus on that before.
I guess it really is a statement that I could see myself making, in a completely logical way, so it hit me hard. Context *is* always important. I understand that.
I don't know. I consider myself to be an enormously open and embracing person in a religious sense. My personal belief is that God (by whatever name he is called) welcomes those who seek him, through whatever path they choose, or that is made available to them.
However, my path to that openness is one that I'd be afraid to state, given the block to Ray. And it somehow bothers me that her statement is read as a putdown of other religions, when similar thoughts brought me to embrace all seekers of the divine as being on a valid path.
Posted by Dinah on October 4, 2006, at 10:28:54
In reply to Re: untrue religions » SLS, posted by Dinah on October 4, 2006, at 10:27:26
Which does not mean that I believe that those who do not seek the divine are not on a valid path, I must add.
It's just that we were discussing the Faith Board and religion.
Posted by SLS on October 4, 2006, at 11:06:49
In reply to Re: untrue religions » SLS, posted by Dinah on October 4, 2006, at 10:27:26
> First of all, I'm sorry you felt hurt, Scott, and sorry that I didn't focus on that before.
I was not terribly injured by the statements made.
I don't wish to add any further comments with regard to them at this time.
It was my objective to evaluate the statements cited for sanction in an effort to understand better the decision reached by Dr. Bob to block the author.
- Scott
Posted by Dr. Bob on October 4, 2006, at 21:32:59
In reply to You can't make sense out of nonsense (nm), posted by 3mta3 on October 2, 2006, at 14:12:27
> You can't make sense out of nonsense
I don't think it's sensitive or respectful to imply that anything here is nonsense. Also, I believe you to be posting under more than one name at the same time.
But please don't take this personally, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're a bad person.
If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please first see the FAQ:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforceFollow-ups regarding these issues, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
Thanks,
Bob
Posted by SLS on October 5, 2006, at 7:38:38
In reply to I understand, but still..., posted by SLS on October 1, 2006, at 20:57:16
> Regarding the following block:
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> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faith/20060614/msgs/690854.html
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> > > not all religions are all true.
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> > Please don't put down the beliefs of others.
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> * blocked for 12 weeks
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> Ouch.
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> I don't know if this was an attempt at an exercise in logic or a veiled put down of all religions except for perhaps one. I took it as the latter when I first read it. However, it could have been the former.
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> I guess I know what's what. I just hate to see 12 weeks for what might have been a momentary lapse in a focus on civility.
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> I guess you know what's what, too.
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> That's all.
This is where I began the thread.After all that has been said, nothing has changed in my mind.
I will avoid jumping to conclusions here regarding the intended meaning of the author and just say that if the statement identified for sanction were indeed uncivil, I believe it was the result of an unconcious error made by the author when composing a post in an environment where standards of posting behavior are strict and difficult to navigate. Since the statements made were not eggregiously uncivil, I would have preferred to see a PBC issued instead of a posting block.
It was my hope by posting here that Dr. Bob would consider reducing the sanction to a PBC or a shorter posting block. I do not dislike Ray and hate to see her gone for 12 weeks. She is a pivotal member of the Faith board and will be missed.
- Scott
Posted by Toph on October 5, 2006, at 9:48:47
In reply to Re: I understand, but still..., posted by SLS on October 5, 2006, at 7:38:38
Scott, I don't mean to belabor this but I went to the original thread and was curious about your initial reaction to Ray's comment:
>> but not all religions are all true.
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> Perhaps none of them are. If no two religions are exactly alike, then at most, only one could be the Truth...
>Why should not your concurring statement be deemed uncivil also?
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faith/20060614/msgs/690529.html
Toph
Posted by SLS on October 5, 2006, at 12:30:17
In reply to Re: I understand, but still... » SLS, posted by Toph on October 5, 2006, at 9:48:47
> Scott, I don't mean to belabor this but I went to the original thread and was curious about your initial reaction to Ray's comment:
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> >> but not all religions are all true.
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> > Perhaps none of them are. If no two religions are exactly alike, then at most, only one could be the Truth...
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> Why should not your concurring statement be deemed uncivil also?
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> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faith/20060614/msgs/690529.html
That is a very good point, Toph, and I don't know how to respond to it other than to describe how I came to write that. To describe how I came to write that would entail detailing to you how I interpreted the statement in question and my emotional reaction to having someone state it, especially in public. It also involves the conclusions that I had reached about the author's beliefs and his motivations.It is actually unnecessary, and would be uncivil, for me to provide such an explanation. The logic is self-evident, and anything more involves jumping to conclusions about the author. Is that a satisfactory explanation?
I guess not.
I'm sure you are familiar with the concept of rhetoric.
What I attempted to do was to suggest the possibility that even the author's religion could not be all true and to demonstrate how absolute making such a statement like his was by positing the one Truth theorem. In other words, I found him out. Get it?
Maybe?
- Scott
Posted by SLS on October 5, 2006, at 12:51:47
In reply to Re: I understand, but still... » Toph, posted by SLS on October 5, 2006, at 12:30:17
So, I'm brushing my teeth when I realized just how well I managed to do what I tried so hard not to do...
> In other words, I found him out. Get it?
...Demonstrate the conclusions I had come to.
Sorry, Ray.
Thanks, Toph.
- Scott
Posted by Toph on October 5, 2006, at 17:23:17
In reply to Re: I understand, but still..., posted by SLS on October 5, 2006, at 12:51:47
I have no personal interest in this matter other than I wanted to weigh in on what I found to be an unnecessary sanction for a benign generalization.
Posted by SLS on October 5, 2006, at 18:07:53
In reply to Re: I understand, but still... » SLS, posted by Toph on October 5, 2006, at 17:23:17
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> I have no personal interest in this matter other than I wanted to weigh in on what I found to be an unnecessary sanction for a benign generalization.
It was what it was.I'm happy for you that you, too, have found an interpretation that you can live with.
- Scott
Posted by Toph on October 5, 2006, at 21:42:48
In reply to Re: I understand, but still..., posted by SLS on October 5, 2006, at 18:07:53
I appreciate your convictions Scott.
Toph
Posted by SLS on October 6, 2006, at 8:16:29
In reply to Re: I understand, and... » SLS, posted by Toph on October 5, 2006, at 21:42:48
> I appreciate your convictions Scott.
Toph:Mine weren't personal.
Rayww:Again, Ray, I apologize. I never wanted to see you blocked. However, I do understand how your statements could have been interpreted as being uncivil if the site guidelines were administered in a certain way by Dr. Bob. That's just the way I see things. I am sorry if you feel that I have attacked you or put you down. It was about the words, not the person.
I have nothing against you personally. I respect you. I admire your dedication to doing good and not evil. I respect your right to having your own belief system, and I have no designs on changing it. I enjoy your intelligence and its application in matters of philosophy. I happen to like your religion. I understand and appreciate your loyalty to it.
If we both appear together on the Faith board, I don't doubt that we will again disagree on matters of belief. Hopefully, our respect for each other and our acknowledgement of each other's rights to have separate belief systems will surmount those differences and allow for civil discourse, as difficult as that may be to achieve.
I hope Dr. Bob reduces the length of your block and that you return to Psycho-Babble.
- Scott
Posted by alexandra_k on October 6, 2006, at 9:33:29
In reply to Re: I understand, but still..., posted by SLS on October 6, 2006, at 8:16:29
I hope the block gets taken back because I still don't see how what was said was uncivli.
Posted by SLS on October 6, 2006, at 10:09:45
In reply to Re: I understand, but still..., posted by alexandra_k on October 6, 2006, at 9:33:29
> I hope the block gets taken back because I still don't see how what was said was uncivli.
I guess you had to be there.
In any event, I really don't care how the block is removed. Take the statement Dr. Bob cited out of context as it is and forget the Faith board environment:
"not all religions are all true."
It must surely be be true, so how could it be an infraction?
Lift the block, Dr. Bob.
- Scott
Posted by Toph on October 6, 2006, at 14:55:05
In reply to Re: I understand, but still..., posted by SLS on October 6, 2006, at 10:09:45
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> It must surely be be true, so how could it be an infraction?
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> - ScottI'm trying to exit from this thread, but obviously I'm having difficulty. As you have (correctly, IMO) argued in the past Scott, not all facts/truths are civil.
But in this case, I tried to think of a comparable statement that might be offensive to me as a Bipolar I. So I came up with this: "All individuals with Bipolar I are not successfully treated with medication." While unquestionably true, this statement would be deemed civil or uncivil based on it's context (another arguement you have made). If the statement had been made to provide impirical information in general about this diagnostic cohort, then I see it as civil even though it implies that some BP I individuals aren't doing so well on their meds. On the other hand, if someone was communicating with me directly answering, let's say, a question I posed to the board, "How do you guys think I'm doing?" and a poster replied, "All individuals with BP I are not successfully treated with medication." Clearly I could be offended by this comment in this context.
So, now I'm really confused.
Toph
Posted by AuntieMel on October 6, 2006, at 14:58:17
In reply to Re: I understand, but still..., posted by SLS on October 6, 2006, at 10:09:45
You're such a nice guy. We love you.
Have a great weekend.
Posted by Dena on October 7, 2006, at 20:15:29
In reply to Re: I understand, but still..., posted by SLS on October 5, 2006, at 7:38:38
Wow.
It's been a while since I posted on PBF, but I certainly know what it's like to be blocked here... under the "older and arguably less *friendly*" version of blocking times (they simply doubled with each infraction), I was blocked for 1, then 2, then 4, then 8, then 16, and then 32 weeks... I suppose if I offended again, I'd be blocked for 64 weeks... yeppers for more than a YEAR! (not sure I want to brag on this "success"!)
The new system of blocking sounds remotely friendlier, but far too much like a mathematical word problem, and therefore a "no go zone" for me! (gave me a headache, just reading it! Which is why Bob is a doctor, and I am an artist!).
I know Rayww quite well... beyond the confines of this forum... we've had some interesting and even heated conversations for the past (what?) 5 years..! We do not share the same faith... in fact, our particular versions of faith are severely at odds with each other...
And yet, we have a profound friendship, and a love for each other that transcends our differences. We've seen each other through some tough times. I hope to meet face to face one day (we came close... but I was due to have a baby -- who's now 3 weeks old, btw, and a living miracle! Perhaps I'll share on PBF).
That said, and knowing Rayww personally, I KNOW she was NOT trying to offend with her statement... and if you understand logic, you can see that that's not what she was stating.
She was saying that there is truth in ALL religions, but that no ONE religion can claim to encapsulate the sum total of ALL truth... that Truth iteself is simply too vast to be embraced by any particular person or belief system. "We all see through a mirror dimly", so to speak.
I know she was saying this, because she has said so directly to me on many occasions.
I believe that this was a misunderstanding, both of her words, and of her motives.
I believe the block is injust, and should be recalled.
Trust me, when she decides that she KNOWS she's going to be blocked, she's MUCH more emphatic and controversial in what she writes!
She wouldn't have "wasted" a block on such a "mild" statement...! ;)
An administrative mistake has been made here (hey, administrators are human too!), and should be rectified.
My $.02 for what it's worth!
Shalom, Dena
Posted by gardenergirl on October 7, 2006, at 21:01:48
In reply to Re: I understand, but still..., posted by Dena on October 7, 2006, at 20:15:29
Thanks for sharing your perspective. It's good to hear.
Congrats on the baby! How cool. I hope you do post about it.
Take care,
gg
Posted by zazenducky on October 8, 2006, at 15:52:37
In reply to Re: I understand, but still..., posted by Dena on October 7, 2006, at 20:15:29
I think you would be a lot happier and the board would profit if you chose to believe people have good motives.
Your friend
zazenducky
Posted by Dr. Bob on October 8, 2006, at 22:08:26
In reply to Re: I understand, but still..., posted by Dena on October 7, 2006, at 20:15:29
> She was saying that there is truth in ALL religions, but that no ONE religion can claim to encapsulate the sum total of ALL truth...
If she'd like to rephrase her post after her block is up, that would be fine, but what if a religion did claim to encapsulate the sum total of all truth?
Bob
Posted by alexandra_k on October 8, 2006, at 22:46:50
In reply to Re: the sum total of ALL truth, posted by Dr. Bob on October 8, 2006, at 22:08:26
> > She was saying that there is truth in ALL religions, but that no ONE religion can claim to encapsulate the sum total of ALL truth...
> If she'd like to rephrase her post after her block is up, that would be fine
Why can't she rephrase it now for a reduction?
> but what if a religion did claim to encapsulate the sum total of all truth?
Isn't there an incompleteness theorum or something that proves that for any set of truths there will be some truths that are not provable by those set of truths...
Or perhaps that is uncivil?
Posted by Dena on October 8, 2006, at 23:09:36
In reply to Re: the sum total of ALL truth, posted by Dr. Bob on October 8, 2006, at 22:08:26
> > She was saying that there is truth in ALL religions, but that no ONE religion can claim to encapsulate the sum total of ALL truth...
>
> If she'd like to rephrase her post after her block is up, that would be fine, but what if a religion did claim to encapsulate the sum total of all truth?
>
> Bob
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~You're kidding, right?
If a religion made such a claim, then perhaps you could block that entire religion..?
But Rayww did NOT make that claim.
Shalom, Dena
Posted by SLS on October 9, 2006, at 5:45:46
In reply to Re: I understand, but still..., posted by Dena on October 7, 2006, at 20:15:29
> She was saying that there is truth in ALL religions, but that no ONE religion can claim to encapsulate the sum total of ALL truth...
What about mine?
Where is the improvement in civility in that statement except that it excludes the author's from consideration?
- Scott
Posted by SLS on October 9, 2006, at 6:15:35
In reply to Re: I understand, but still... » Dena, posted by SLS on October 9, 2006, at 5:45:46
> > She was saying that there is truth in ALL religions, but that no ONE religion can claim to encapsulate the sum total of ALL truth...
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> What about mine?
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> Where is the improvement in civility in that statement except that it excludes the author's from consideration?Ok. It would be an exaggeration for me to say that my religion is all truth, but I know for fact that my brother's is. And it would be uncivil for anyone to say otherwise.
- Scott
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