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More sensitivity than respect » Jakeman

Posted by Declan on June 25, 2006, at 21:39:23

In reply to Re: please be respectful and sensitive- Declan » Dr. Bob, posted by Jakeman on June 23, 2006, at 21:16:26

This is really an Admin question, but since we are here.....what about supporters of John Howard?
I'm *fairly* sure that there are none here. But is that the point?
Maybe we should act *as if* they were here.
You might have the same problem with President Bush before too long.
I notice from the papers that John Howard is looking more and more like the Penguin from Batman.
Declan

 

Re: More sensitivity than respect » Declan

Posted by Declan on June 25, 2006, at 21:39:23

In reply to More sensitivity than respect » Jakeman, posted by Declan on June 24, 2006, at 1:26:18

On second thoughts, I could be wrong. Zazenduck has found Brendan Nelson very intelligent and someone else's in the goverment's suit comely (I think), and she has commented ambiguously but not negatively on Amanda Vanstone's dress sense, although it is true she said 'I'm on to you'.
Nothing about John Howard though.
Declan

 

Re: blocked for 2 weeks » Declan

Posted by Dr. Bob on June 25, 2006, at 22:32:55

In reply to More sensitivity than respect » Jakeman, posted by Declan on June 24, 2006, at 1:26:18

> I notice from the papers that John Howard is looking more and more like the Penguin from Batman.

Please be sensitive to the feelings of others (such as supporters of John Howard).

But please don't take this personally, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're a bad person.

If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please first see the FAQ:

http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforce

Follow-ups regarding these issues, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.

Thanks.

> what about supporters of John Howard?
> I'm *fairly* sure that there are none here. But is that the point?
> Maybe we should act *as if* they were here.

I think it's reasonable to assume that there are supporters of John Howard here. But I don't remember anyone posting in support of him, so I'm just using a multiplier of 2 (see below).

Bob

PS: I'm trying out a new system:

previous block: 2 weeks
period of time since previous block: 10 weeks
uncivil toward a particular individual or group: yes (but see above)
particularly uncivil: no
different type of incivility: no
clearly didn't understand PBC and made effort to reply: no
provoked: no
uncivil in multiple posts at same time: no
already archived: no

If we take 10 weeks, divide by 10, and round down, that's a reduction of 1 week. If we apply that to your previous block, that's 2 - 1 = 1 week. And if we multiply that by 2, that's 2 weeks.

 

You remember what Babblers post about? *Bob love*

Posted by Deneb on June 26, 2006, at 1:38:15

In reply to Re: blocked for 2 weeks » Declan, posted by Dr. Bob on June 25, 2006, at 22:32:55

> I think it's reasonable to assume that there are supporters of John Howard here. But I don't remember anyone posting in support of him, so I'm just using a multiplier of 2 (see below).
>
> Bob

Wow, you really pay attention. :-) You would remember something like that? I don't know if I would. I'm also amazed at your ability to pull up past posts.

((((((((Bob))))))))) Still love you. :-)

Bob, do you think I should be more supportive? I've been thinking that maybe you want me to support others more.

((((((((((((((Dr. Bob))))))))))))))

Deneb*

 

Re: blocked for 2 weeks

Posted by teejay on June 26, 2006, at 7:38:29

In reply to Re: blocked for 2 weeks » Declan, posted by Dr. Bob on June 25, 2006, at 22:32:55

Sorry Dr Bob, I think your banning protocols are becomming more erratic and bizarre with each passing week.

I also see the politics board STILL appears to have more controls on freedom of speech than china!

See you soon declan.

 

Re: blocked for 2 weeks

Posted by llrrrpp on June 26, 2006, at 8:31:15

In reply to Re: blocked for 2 weeks, posted by teejay on June 26, 2006, at 7:38:29

I'll miss you too Declan,
Enjoy your classical music and sushi.

I don't even know who those guys are? politicians?

I wonder if you had substituted in the names of known alQaeda operatives for John Howard and such.

Well, Dr. Bob's blocks not completely logical. The human mind makes judgements based on broader context, some of which is explicit, and some of which is beyond conscious awareness. And we should be grateful for that. If all it took were logic, a computer could be programmed to perform Dr. Bob's role, and then we'd miss out on the "human touch"

Ciao,
-ll

 

yikes

Posted by wildcardII on June 26, 2006, at 10:45:01

In reply to Re: blocked for 2 weeks » Declan, posted by Dr. Bob on June 25, 2006, at 22:32:55

~i took it as a definite compliment from Declan?!! I LOVE PENGUINS!!

 

Re: yikes

Posted by gardenergirl on June 26, 2006, at 14:48:55

In reply to yikes, posted by wildcardII on June 26, 2006, at 10:45:01

I wondered if he meant Burgess Meredith or Danny Devito. I always thought there was a certain debonair quality to Burgess Meredith in that role, which could make it a bit of a compliment. But Danny Devito....ummmmm....yeah. His Penguin was scary.

I was surprised by this block, but then provincial ol' me doesn't even know who he was referring to. (A PM perhaps???)

gg

 

Re: yikes » gardenergirl

Posted by 10derHeart on June 26, 2006, at 17:30:02

In reply to Re: yikes, posted by gardenergirl on June 26, 2006, at 14:48:55

I had about the same thoughts about the two penguins that you did :-)

and yeah, John Howard is the PM of Australia.

 

Re: blocked for 2 weeks- clarification needed plea » Dr. Bob

Posted by Jakeman on June 27, 2006, at 21:46:41

In reply to Re: blocked for 2 weeks » Declan, posted by Dr. Bob on June 25, 2006, at 22:32:55

> > I notice from the papers that John Howard is looking more and more like the Penguin from Batman.
>
> Please be sensitive to the feelings of others (such as supporters of John Howard).

Dr. Bob does your ruling mean we can not be critical of any heads of state? China, Mexico, N.Korea, Cuba, etc.

Thanks in advance, Jake

 

Re: blocked for 2 weeks- clarification needed plea

Posted by teejay on June 27, 2006, at 21:54:21

In reply to Re: blocked for 2 weeks- clarification needed plea » Dr. Bob, posted by Jakeman on June 27, 2006, at 21:46:41

I fear you are wasting your breath jakeman :-(

I made some derogatory remarks about saddams sons which were ignored despite the fact I drew ttention to them on numerous occasions.

Its clear to me now that you can say what you want about what the world as a whole considers evil men but on world leaders you better have nothing but praise to laud upon them!

Great to see a post of yours jakeman :-)

 

Re: blocked for 2 weeks- clarification needed plea » teejay

Posted by llrrrpp on June 27, 2006, at 22:17:48

In reply to Re: blocked for 2 weeks- clarification needed plea, posted by teejay on June 27, 2006, at 21:54:21

I guess one could argue that in a democracy, a political leader has the vote of a majority, or at least the most votes. So, by critiquing a political leader in a democratic world one is perhaps likely to step on toes than by critiquing a political leader appointed by his father, or by God, or by guns, bloodshed, or bankrolls.

Just a though, why perhaps George w Bush gets the benefit of the doubt more than, say, Kim Jong Il. Although my reasoning fails miserably when it comes to the election of the popular Adolf Hitler, but that's a fault of the Weimar constitution, and beyond the scope of the current discussion on the nature of political correctness and it's implications for civility.

penguins are stinky. smell like rotten fish. but the movie March of the Penguins was awfully poignant. I don't see them as a negative or positive animal.

-ll

 

Re: blocked for 2 weeks- clarification needed plea » teejay

Posted by Jakeman on June 27, 2006, at 22:30:46

In reply to Re: blocked for 2 weeks- clarification needed plea, posted by teejay on June 27, 2006, at 21:54:21

Glad to see your post too!

I need to stay off this board. But I just have this crazy idea about being logical. And the leaders I mentioned I don't all consider to be bad guys. That's not for me to say anyway. Yes I am wasting my breath. Or am I Dr. Bob?

Jake

> I fear you are wasting your breath jakeman :-(
>
> I made some derogatory remarks about saddams sons which were ignored despite the fact I drew ttention to them on numerous occasions.
>
> Its clear to me now that you can say what you want about what the world as a whole considers evil men but on world leaders you better have nothing but praise to laud upon them!
>
> Great to see a post of yours jakeman :-)

 

Re: clarification

Posted by Dr. Bob on June 28, 2006, at 1:54:25

In reply to Re: blocked for 2 weeks- clarification needed plea » teejay, posted by Jakeman on June 27, 2006, at 22:30:46

> Yes I am wasting my breath. Or am I Dr. Bob?

What do you think about the point that llrrrpp made above?

> > I guess one could argue that in a democracy, a political leader has the vote of a majority, or at least the most votes. So, by critiquing a political leader in a democratic world one is perhaps [more] likely to step on toes than by critiquing a political leader appointed by his father, or by God, or by guns, bloodshed, or bankrolls.

Bob

 

Re: clarification

Posted by teejay on June 28, 2006, at 7:22:19

In reply to Re: clarification, posted by Dr. Bob on June 28, 2006, at 1:54:25

> > Yes I am wasting my breath. Or am I Dr. Bob?
>
> What do you think about the point that llrrrpp made above?
>
> > > I guess one could argue that in a democracy, a political leader has the vote of a majority, or at least the most votes. So, by critiquing a political leader in a democratic world one is perhaps [more] likely to step on toes than by critiquing a political leader appointed by his father, or by God, or by guns, bloodshed, or bankrolls.
>
> Bob


Given the scandal surrounding GWB's election victory I think you are on pretty thin ice! ;-)

 

Re: clarification » teejay

Posted by llrrrpp on June 28, 2006, at 7:36:33

In reply to Re: clarification, posted by teejay on June 28, 2006, at 7:22:19

Regardless of the scandal surrounding the majority and the electoral college system, one cannot deny that a lot of people voted for Bush.

In parliamentary systems it's even more complicated, because one votes for a party, with the understanding that the party will support a certain candidate. But regardless of whether the candidate wins or barely wins or barely loses, political leaders in democratic governments are leaders by vitue of having popular support. And popular support suggests that real people might take it personally if we criticize their decision to support a particular candidate.

I think that this is an important distinction, in terms of the application of civility. Criticizing a political leader (who is only one person, kind of like me criticizing my T, or my pdoc, or my unruly neighbor- getting some steam off, in the interests of getting some support from p-babble community) vs. criticizing the choices of people who support a political leader (for example a statement like: everyone who voted for ____ must be ___[insert uncivil word]). I'm not sure that the former is equivalent to the latter. It's possible to support a candidate for political office without thinking that everything they do is 100% golden and peachy.

To the extent that political figures make decisions which affect us personally, we DO need to have the opportunity to rant about them a bit, and it would be great if we could do so without offending the people who happened to vote for them in the last election.

-ll

 

Re: blocked for 2 weeks- clarification needed plea » llrrrpp

Posted by AuntieMel on June 28, 2006, at 8:51:42

In reply to Re: blocked for 2 weeks- clarification needed plea » teejay, posted by llrrrpp on June 27, 2006, at 22:17:48

"Although my reasoning fails miserably when it comes to the election of the popular Adolf Hitler"

Maybe it makes a difference if the leader is still alive???

or maybe I'm grasping at straws....

 

Dr. Bob? political criticisms question

Posted by llrrrpp on June 28, 2006, at 9:22:08

In reply to Re: blocked for 2 weeks- clarification needed plea » llrrrpp, posted by AuntieMel on June 28, 2006, at 8:51:42

AuntieMel writes:
> "Although my reasoning fails miserably when it comes to the election of the popular Adolf Hitler"
>
> Maybe it makes a difference if the leader is still alive???
>
> or maybe I'm grasping at straws....

No, I think that's a good point, because in this case, the people who elected Adolf Hitler are mostly gone, so we needn't concern ourselves too much with offending them via critiquing their choice for the NAZI party to lead Germany.

Dr. Bob,
Am I getting close to understanding your reasoning? At psycho-babble we concern ourselves with incivility towards the common generic person, as well as specific psycho-babblers. So, when we say things like people who vote for ___ are ____, this is more likely to be considered uncivil than person X has done this bad thing, where person X is a political leader with widespread popular support. Is it possible to say bad things about person X without offending the populace who elected him or her? When would this be possible?

For instance say that person X carries the brunt of responsibility for a policy that affects me personally, and i feel really bad about that decision, and I want to get some support from p-babble because I am hurting due to the policy enacted by person X.
Can I criticize person X?
Can I say that this policy is an example of person X's philosophy of ... and cite other historical evidence?
Can I evoke some personality characterisic of person X (i.e. s/he is racist) when trying to understand why person X has done this bad thing that affects me?
Do the answers to these questions depend on whether person X is currently vs. historically in a position of power?

thanks for your attention,
I'm just trying to sort out this issue of what constitutes civil vs. less-than-civil discourse in political matters.

yours,
-ll

 

Re: saying bad things

Posted by Dr. Bob on June 28, 2006, at 11:56:56

In reply to Dr. Bob? political criticisms question, posted by llrrrpp on June 28, 2006, at 9:22:08

> Is it possible to say bad things about person X without offending the populace who elected him or her?

I'm not sure it is.

> For instance say that person X carries the brunt of responsibility for a policy that affects me personally, and i feel really bad about that decision, and I want to get some support from p-babble because I am hurting due to the policy enacted by person X.

What if you just said you were hurting due to that policy? Or, since it tends to be more constructive if you put things in terms of what could be better rather than what's "bad", if you suggested a better one?

Bob

 

Re: saying bad things » Dr. Bob

Posted by llrrrpp on June 28, 2006, at 12:04:44

In reply to Re: saying bad things, posted by Dr. Bob on June 28, 2006, at 11:56:56

> > Is it possible to say bad things about person X without offending the populace who elected him or her?
>
> I'm not sure it is.
>
> > For instance say that person X carries the brunt of responsibility for a policy that affects me personally, and i feel really bad about that decision, and I want to get some support from p-babble because I am hurting due to the policy enacted by person X.
>
> What if you just said you were hurting due to that policy? Or, since it tends to be more constructive if you put things in terms of what could be better rather than what's "bad", if you suggested a better one?
>
> Bob

Okay, I think I can handle this. Thanks, I'll just use my brother's blog to argue about political missteps and travesties, and stick to psycho stuff in this place. And thank you for your prompt reply :o)
-ll

 

Re: clarification » Dr. Bob

Posted by Jakeman on June 28, 2006, at 20:14:42

In reply to Re: clarification, posted by Dr. Bob on June 28, 2006, at 1:54:25

> > > I guess one could argue that in a democracy, a political leader has the vote of a majority, or at least the most votes. So, by critiquing a political leader in a democratic world one is perhaps [more] likely to step on toes than by critiquing a political leader appointed by his father, or by God, or by guns, bloodshed, or bankrolls.

> What do you think about the point that llrrrpp made above?
>
> Bob

Well I don't agree. Following that logic I could be blocked for criticizing Bush (because he was democratically elected) while it would be ok to criticize a monarch like the king of Bhutan (Jigme Wangchuckor) or the exiled king of Tibet (Dailai Lama), or the Pope (another head of state).

Why should we be trying to determine who is good or who is bad?

The simple way out of this quandry is to just let people criticize any leaders. But if posters start acting uncivilly toward each other as a result of those criticizms, THEN block or PBC them.

warm regards, Jake

 

Re: clarification

Posted by teejay on June 28, 2006, at 20:37:41

In reply to Re: clarification » Dr. Bob, posted by Jakeman on June 28, 2006, at 20:14:42

On other boards there is a policy of 'play the ball not the man'. I'm not sure even that kind of policy exists here as DR Bob seems to deem it ok if you criticise a person he might consider bad (such as saddam or his sons) but doesnt deem it ok to criticise the war in iraq (despite the fact its playing the ball not the man) in case we upset the flag wavers who support GWB.

All far too messy for me which is why I dont post on the politics board anymore. Seems like others are taking similar action and voting with their feet.

 

Re: clarification

Posted by Dr. Bob on June 28, 2006, at 22:39:35

In reply to Re: clarification » Dr. Bob, posted by Jakeman on June 28, 2006, at 20:14:42

> Thanks, I'll just use my brother's blog to argue about political missteps and travesties
>
> llrrrpp

You're welcome. Is your blog interactive? Could others use it, too? :-)

--

> Why should we be trying to determine who is good or who is bad?
>
> The simple way out of this quandry is to just let people criticize any leaders.
>
> Jake

We're not trying to determine who's good, we're trying to determine what to consider sensitive to the feelings of others.

It's also simple just to support rather than criticize...

Bob

 

Re: clarification

Posted by teejay on June 28, 2006, at 23:04:56

In reply to Re: clarification, posted by Dr. Bob on June 28, 2006, at 22:39:35

> We're not trying to determine who's good, we're trying to determine what to consider sensitive to the feelings of others.
>
> It's also simple just to support rather than criticize...
>
> Bob

If only that were true, if only that were true........

......anyway, I've had my fill of banging my head against the brick wall that is Dr Bobs sense of democracy and freedom of expression so I'll bid you all G'night.

TJ (who has finally learned what pi**ing in the wind is all about)

 

Re: clarification » Dr. Bob

Posted by Jakeman on June 28, 2006, at 23:40:41

In reply to Re: clarification, posted by Dr. Bob on June 28, 2006, at 22:39:35

> We're not trying to determine who's good, we're trying to determine what to consider sensitive to the feelings of others.
>
> It's also simple just to support rather than criticize...
>
> Bob

JHC! So the message I'm getting is to always be positive. Why not give people the opportunity to disagree?

To repeat, the simple way out of this quandry is to just let people criticize any leaders. But if posters start acting uncivilly toward each other as a result of those criticizms, THEN block or PBC them.

This discussion yet again has evolved into the dog chasing its tail. You may be right TJ.

Jake


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