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Posted by gabbii on July 28, 2005, at 11:35:16
In reply to Big Shrug. » gabbii, posted by partlycloudy on July 28, 2005, at 9:39:54
> Most of this stuff baffles me. I even read a book about civility hoping some ray of light would shine through my dim little head as to what's appropriate to say and what isn't.
> I just try not to get upset about the rules anymore.Sorry, that wasn't really meant for you to ponder, I accidentally clicked that button..
which I almost always do.I have mail?
Cool! Thanks.
> And I take a lot longer to compose responses to posts!!
> partly
> p.s. you have mail!
Posted by rayww on July 28, 2005, at 13:31:00
In reply to Re: WHAT EXACTLY DID CRAZY T DO DR. BOB??? » rayww, posted by Dinah on July 28, 2005, at 11:29:11
As usual you are right, then perhaps there is a little more to being saved, than being saved.
Posted by crushedout on July 28, 2005, at 15:27:47
In reply to Re: Here is the post where » partlycloudy, posted by gabbii on July 28, 2005, at 9:29:38
i'm with you, gabbii. i haven't even looked at the post where she got blocked. i just kept reading over and over the one where she got pbc'd and scratching my head till it hurts.huh? dr. bob? it's uncivil to say it's wrong to kill people on this site? i'm floored. dinah, can you help me understand this?
Posted by Dinah on July 28, 2005, at 15:56:12
In reply to geez » gabbii, posted by crushedout on July 28, 2005, at 15:27:47
I believe it was the form, not the content that was at issue.
I'm sure it's quite possible to say that you find killing wrong under site guidelines. :)
Posted by crushedout on July 28, 2005, at 16:02:01
In reply to Re: geez » crushedout, posted by Dinah on July 28, 2005, at 15:56:12
phew, that's good to know. but still...are you referring to the cursing? i thought it was ok to curse as long as you used asterisks, and now that there's a filter, we're not even responsible for those? i don't get it.
Posted by crushedout on July 28, 2005, at 16:03:38
In reply to Re: geez » crushedout, posted by Dinah on July 28, 2005, at 15:56:12
> I'm sure it's quite possible to say that you find killing wrong under site guidelines. :)that would be taking objectivity and nonjudgmentalness to an extreme now, wouldn't it?
Posted by Dinah on July 28, 2005, at 16:18:32
In reply to Re: geez » Dinah, posted by crushedout on July 28, 2005, at 16:02:01
Not *just* the cursing.
Obviously I can't comment on a specific post, or Dr. Bob's thinking about it.
But pretend you were the recipient.
Posted by crushedout on July 28, 2005, at 16:22:18
In reply to Re: geez » crushedout, posted by Dinah on July 28, 2005, at 16:18:32
but it wasn't directed *at* anyone, was it? i thought she was starting a thread and just ranting about something that happened. frankly, i didn't quite follow what she was talking about but i think it's because i was reading so quickly. (i'm an incorrigible skimmer these days. reading too much, i guess.)
Posted by Dinah on July 28, 2005, at 16:26:25
In reply to Re: geez » Dinah, posted by crushedout on July 28, 2005, at 16:22:18
I didn't look at the quotation in context.
In context, clearly the person she was talking about wasn't a fellow babbler...
She didn't override the curse filter...
Perhaps Dr. Bob thought a particular religion could feel put down? Although I thought the overall message was just the opposite.
OK, you got me. You'll have to ask Dr. Bob.
Posted by crushedout on July 28, 2005, at 16:32:22
In reply to Well, now you caught me., posted by Dinah on July 28, 2005, at 16:26:25
You don't know how happy this makes me, Dinah. If *you* don't get it, then I can't possibly feel bad about not getting it. (Idealize Dinah much? So sue me.)Happy dance.
But I'm mad about the injustice of the PBC and sad that crazy t got blocked.
And I'd still really like Dr. Bob to explain himself, although I don't hold out hopes of him actually clarifying anything. In the past when I've had such hopes, I've been sorely disappointed. Wanna give me a pleasant surprise Mr. Dr. Bob sir?
Posted by crushedout on July 28, 2005, at 16:34:55
In reply to Well, now you caught me., posted by Dinah on July 28, 2005, at 16:26:25
I'm assuming Dr. Bob doesn't want us to make beheaders and murderers and people like that feel unwelcome here.i'm not smiling. i have a quizzical look on my face and a question mark lighted up over my head.
Posted by Dinah on July 28, 2005, at 16:40:01
In reply to Re: Well, now you caught me. » Dinah, posted by crushedout on July 28, 2005, at 16:32:22
Well, to be fair. The PBC and the block are not necessarily related. A block can also be given after a Please Rephrase that is not rephrased to civility guideline standards. A Please Rephrase is nothing but a conditional Please Be Civil. If you don't take the chance to fix it, it's the same as a PBC.
Posted by crushedout on July 28, 2005, at 16:45:09
In reply to Re: Well, now you caught me. » crushedout, posted by Dinah on July 28, 2005, at 16:40:01
yeah i know that. that's why i said i was mad about the injustice of the pbc and sad that she got blocked. i see them as separate. i still don't even know why she was blocked. but just getting a pbc when you don't deserve one stinks. so that makes me mad.
Posted by Dinah on July 28, 2005, at 16:48:07
In reply to Re: Well, now you caught me. » Dinah, posted by crushedout on July 28, 2005, at 16:45:09
Perhaps Dr. Bob could discuss the particulars of this PBC and/or block, and his thinking behind it.
Posted by crushedout on July 28, 2005, at 16:50:07
In reply to Re: Well, now you caught me. » crushedout, posted by Dinah on July 28, 2005, at 16:48:07
How about just the PBC, for starters. Dr. Bob?
Posted by gabbii on July 28, 2005, at 16:51:15
In reply to Re: Well, now you caught me. » Dinah, posted by crushedout on July 28, 2005, at 16:45:09
>
It's a freaking frightening world when *you* get told you aren't being civil, for being unspeakably disgusted by someone being dragged behind a truck and voicing your feelings
It just *is*
It's backwards
It's warped
It's like the feeling I had when I read "The Trial"
Posted by crushedout on July 28, 2005, at 16:54:47
In reply to Reality Check!, posted by gabbii on July 28, 2005, at 16:51:15
i think dr. bob must have been confused when he gave her that pbc. or do you think i'm giving him too much credit? my other thought was that he might have been on drugs.
Posted by crushedout on July 28, 2005, at 16:55:59
In reply to Reality Check!, posted by gabbii on July 28, 2005, at 16:51:15
i can't remember if i read the trial. should i read it (again?)?it sounds like it might be frustrating.
Posted by gabbii on July 28, 2005, at 16:56:34
In reply to Re: Reality Check! » gabbii, posted by crushedout on July 28, 2005, at 16:54:47
Posted by crushedout on July 28, 2005, at 16:57:34
In reply to Geez you make me laugh! (nm) » crushedout, posted by gabbii on July 28, 2005, at 16:56:34
Posted by gabbii on July 28, 2005, at 17:02:49
In reply to :-) (nm) » gabbii, posted by crushedout on July 28, 2005, at 16:57:34
Those who enjoy dragging people behind trucks?
My head hurts
Posted by crushedout on July 28, 2005, at 17:04:00
In reply to Please respect the feelings of others, posted by gabbii on July 28, 2005, at 17:02:49
it's inane, right? ((((crazy teresa))))
Posted by Dinah on July 28, 2005, at 17:07:31
In reply to Re: Please respect the feelings of others » gabbii, posted by crushedout on July 28, 2005, at 17:04:00
I'm sure Dr. Bob has a reason, even if we wouldn't come to the same conclusion. It's probably best to hear it first?
Posted by crushedout on July 28, 2005, at 17:10:58
In reply to Re: Please respect the feelings of others, posted by Dinah on July 28, 2005, at 17:07:31
But it just doesn't make any sense. And it's aggravating. (I'm misusing the word "aggravating" but I can't find a better one.)
Posted by Dinah on July 28, 2005, at 17:11:17
In reply to Re: Please respect the feelings of others, posted by Dinah on July 28, 2005, at 17:07:31
It's not like there won't be plenty of time to berate him after we know his thinking.
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