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Dr. Bob is Robert Hsiung, MD,
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Posted by coffeeberry on September 9, 2016, at 3:04:43
After seeing that someone seemingly went into my account on Linkadge's forum site and changed my password, I proceeded to reset my password and delete my account there. I can't claim to know for sure how my password on Linkadge's forum site was seemingly changed, but it's quite obvious from my perspective whose interests it would be in to keep me from getting into my account there. One thing that I can say for sure is that I've had enough of the bullshit associated with a certain poster on this site. Lou Pilder clearly has the traits of a sociopath, and now I can only wonder if he might be a hacker, too. Whether or not it was Lou who somehow got into my account on Linkadge's site, I've had more than enough of Lou's abusive behavior on this site, and I can only fathom how a psychiatrist who's still in practice can continue operating a site where those of us with mental health conditions can be bullied and manipulated in the way that we are while the psychiatrist in question just sits back without doing a damned thing about it! And to think that it used to be the case that saying anything that could lead someone else to feel accused or put down would result in a warning to "please be civil." I don't know why Dr. Bob isn't moderating this site anymore, but if he seriously thinks that participating in this forum with the way it's been lately is generally good for anyone's mental health, the least that I can say is that I think he's very wrong. This site has become very detrimental to my mental health, and I don't think that I'm the only member here who feels this way. The kind of abusive behavior that takes place on this site is one of the last things that anybody with a mental health condition needs, and I'm not going to take it anymore.
While I am grateful for the fact that most of the experiences that I've had on this site over the last ten-plus years have been positive and especially for the fact that I've met some of the most caring, understanding, and helpful people I've ever come across during the time that I've posted here, I think it's a shame that Dr. Bob's neglect of this site has led to the kinds of interactions that I've been seeing here lately. I'm not going to continue to participate in an online forum that's not moderated, and given what happened with my password on Linkadge's site, I just don't see how participating in any online forum is something that would be healthy for me at this time. It's never easy to leave a place that used to be a consistent source of support like this site was for me for many years, but there's no question in my mind that it's time for me to go.
Wishing all of you the best for the last time,
coffeeberry, aka Tomatheus, aka shadowtom2
Posted by SLS on September 9, 2016, at 6:40:08
In reply to Goodbye, Babblers, posted by coffeeberry on September 9, 2016, at 3:04:43
> It's never easy to leave a place that used to be a consistent source of support like this site was for me for many years, but there's no question in my mind that it's time for me to go.
>
> Wishing all of you the best for the last time,
> coffeeberry, aka Tomatheus, aka shadowtom2You will be missed. I hope I have managed to convey to you all of the reasons why I think you are such an awesome person. Yours will be a valuable voice to lose. I wish for you health and happiness. I think you have the assets to be able to do so.
Godspeed, coffeeberry, aka Tomatheus, aka shadowtom.
:-)
- Scott
Posted by Tabitha on September 9, 2016, at 10:42:18
In reply to Goodbye, Babblers, posted by coffeeberry on September 9, 2016, at 3:04:43
Hi coffee/Thom/shadow, I remember you from old days and was glad to see your return. I'm sorry you've been driven off.
Thanks for reporting back what happened at freeforums. I noticed your account was deleted and wasn't sure if there was something wrong with that site.
I'd like to offer some speculation about the password issue. I would guess the freeforums site itself is compromised, and someone has access to new accounts. I doubt that LP has the skills to hack any site, based on has past attempts to subvert blocks here which were so inept that the admin immediately detected his actions.
I hope to cross paths with you again
Posted by linkadge on September 9, 2016, at 12:07:27
In reply to Re: Goodbye, Babblers » coffeeberry, posted by Tabitha on September 9, 2016, at 10:42:18
Hey Coffeeberry,
Feel free to rejoin. If the password gets changed, let me know as I may be able to look into it on the 'admin' side.
Personally, I don't think Lou has the capacity to 'hack'. He came on to my site and tried to pretend he was somebody else. It was a pretty lame attempt.
Linkadge
Posted by Lou Pilder on September 9, 2016, at 12:22:34
In reply to Re: Goodbye, Babblers » Tabitha, posted by linkadge on September 9, 2016, at 12:07:27
> Hey Coffeeberry,
>
> Feel free to rejoin. If the password gets changed, let me know as I may be able to look into it on the 'admin' side.
>
> Personally, I don't think Lou has the capacity to 'hack'. He came on to my site and tried to pretend he was somebody else. It was a pretty lame attempt.
>
> Linkadge
Friends,
Be advised that what this poster her said about me is not true. I never came to that site other tham one time clicking on the link here provided to see what it was. I never made a post or submitted anything. This type of defamation via the accusation allowed by Hsiung turns my stomahc.
Lou
Posted by Lou Pilder on September 9, 2016, at 12:59:18
In reply to Goodbye, Babblers, posted by coffeeberry on September 9, 2016, at 3:04:43
> After seeing that someone seemingly went into my account on Linkadge's forum site and changed my password, I proceeded to reset my password and delete my account there. I can't claim to know for sure how my password on Linkadge's forum site was seemingly changed, but it's quite obvious from my perspective whose interests it would be in to keep me from getting into my account there. One thing that I can say for sure is that I've had enough of the b*llsh*t associated with a certain poster on this site. Lou Pilder clearly has the traits of a sociopath, and now I can only wonder if he might be a hacker, too. Whether or not it was Lou who somehow got into my account on Linkadge's site, I've had more than enough of Lou's abusive behavior on this site, and I can only fathom how a psychiatrist who's still in practice can continue operating a site where those of us with mental health conditions can be bullied and manipulated in the way that we are while the psychiatrist in question just sits back without doing a damned thing about it! And to think that it used to be the case that saying anything that could lead someone else to feel accused or put down would result in a warning to "please be civil." I don't know why Dr. Bob isn't moderating this site anymore, but if he seriously thinks that participating in this forum with the way it's been lately is generally good for anyone's mental health, the least that I can say is that I think he's very wrong. This site has become very detrimental to my mental health, and I don't think that I'm the only member here who feels this way. The kind of abusive behavior that takes place on this site is one of the last things that anybody with a mental health condition needs, and I'm not going to take it anymore.
>
> While I am grateful for the fact that most of the experiences that I've had on this site over the last ten-plus years have been positive and especially for the fact that I've met some of the most caring, understanding, and helpful people I've ever come across during the time that I've posted here, I think it's a shame that Dr. Bob's neglect of this site has led to the kinds of interactions that I've been seeing here lately. I'm not going to continue to participate in an online forum that's not moderated, and given what happened with my password on Linkadge's site, I just don't see how participating in any online forum is something that would be healthy for me at this time. It's never easy to leave a place that used to be a consistent source of support like this site was for me for many years, but there's no question in my mind that it's time for me to go.
>
> Wishing all of you the best for the last time,
> coffeeberry, aka Tomatheus, aka shadowtom2
>
Friends,
The poster here is allowed by Hsiung to call me a sociopath. And wants me to be seen as a possible hacker. This type of defamation allowed by Hsiung could seriously mislead you as the accusations against my character are false and defamation per se.
I can't stop Hsiung and his henchmen here from posting defamation against me nor can I stop the anti-Semitic propaganda from being allowed to flourish from here.
But readers here could see the truth if the smokescreen of hate is lifted. This smokescreen obscures reality and has its origins in hate. As long as you are being misled to think that the defamation toward me is supportive, a confusion could happen that could worsen your condition that you came here for.
Lou
Posted by Lou Pilder on September 9, 2016, at 14:14:39
In reply to Lou's response-support? » coffeeberry, posted by Lou Pilder on September 9, 2016, at 12:59:18
> > After seeing that someone seemingly went into my account on Linkadge's forum site and changed my password, I proceeded to reset my password and delete my account there. I can't claim to know for sure how my password on Linkadge's forum site was seemingly changed, but it's quite obvious from my perspective whose interests it would be in to keep me from getting into my account there. One thing that I can say for sure is that I've had enough of the b*llsh*t associated with a certain poster on this site. Lou Pilder clearly has the traits of a sociopath, and now I can only wonder if he might be a hacker, too. Whether or not it was Lou who somehow got into my account on Linkadge's site, I've had more than enough of Lou's abusive behavior on this site, and I can only fathom how a psychiatrist who's still in practice can continue operating a site where those of us with mental health conditions can be bullied and manipulated in the way that we are while the psychiatrist in question just sits back without doing a damned thing about it! And to think that it used to be the case that saying anything that could lead someone else to feel accused or put down would result in a warning to "please be civil." I don't know why Dr. Bob isn't moderating this site anymore, but if he seriously thinks that participating in this forum with the way it's been lately is generally good for anyone's mental health, the least that I can say is that I think he's very wrong. This site has become very detrimental to my mental health, and I don't think that I'm the only member here who feels this way. The kind of abusive behavior that takes place on this site is one of the last things that anybody with a mental health condition needs, and I'm not going to take it anymore.
> >
> > While I am grateful for the fact that most of the experiences that I've had on this site over the last ten-plus years have been positive and especially for the fact that I've met some of the most caring, understanding, and helpful people I've ever come across during the time that I've posted here, I think it's a shame that Dr. Bob's neglect of this site has led to the kinds of interactions that I've been seeing here lately. I'm not going to continue to participate in an online forum that's not moderated, and given what happened with my password on Linkadge's site, I just don't see how participating in any online forum is something that would be healthy for me at this time. It's never easy to leave a place that used to be a consistent source of support like this site was for me for many years, but there's no question in my mind that it's time for me to go.
> >
> > Wishing all of you the best for the last time,
> > coffeeberry, aka Tomatheus, aka shadowtom2
> >
> Friends,
> The poster here is allowed by Hsiung to call me a sociopath. And wants me to be seen as a possible hacker. This type of defamation allowed by Hsiung could seriously mislead you as the accusations against my character are false and defamation per se.
> I can't stop Hsiung and his henchmen here from posting defamation against me nor can I stop the anti-Semitic propaganda from being allowed to flourish from here.
> But readers here could see the truth if the smokescreen of hate is lifted. This smokescreen obscures reality and has its origins in hate. As long as you are being misled to think that the defamation toward me is supportive, a confusion could happen that could worsen your condition that you came here for.
> Lou
>
Friends,
The furnace of hate here produces the smokescreen that obscures your vision of reality. The furnace is stoked by Mr. Hsung allowing defamation and anti-Semitic propaganda to be seen as being supportive by him. And worse, he states that he does this so that his community will be improved, as he thinks. This thinking is nothing new, but an old way of thinking used to justify slavery, infanticide segregation and genocide.
It is resurrected here under the guise of support and education. Is defamation supportive? Is anti-Semitic propaganda supportive? And if I am prohibited by Mr. Hsiung from posting education here that could save your life, is what is allowed here really education at all? Or is it really an indoctrination, an indoctrination of the worst kind?
The fire of hate being spewed out here as support can be quenched. But my small number of buckets is not enough to put out the inferno of hate here being perpetrated as support.
The pointing fingers and foul-mouthed epithets against me here produce a putrid stench of anti-Semitic hate that could poison even those that revere Mr. Hsiung. What can be done for you to be saved?
It has been revealed to me how one could not be hurt by the fire of hate. And how one could walk in the furnace of hate and be not singed. I have come here to have you liberated from the bondage of hate that could consume you to kill yourself and others.
Take this opportunity to eat the fruit from the Tree of Life and be healed by the leaves. Flee from the fire of hate and find the treasure of love with healing in his wings.
Lou
Posted by coffeeberry on September 9, 2016, at 17:42:45
In reply to Goodbye, Babblers, posted by coffeeberry on September 9, 2016, at 3:04:43
I'm going to make one more post to let all of you know that I'm expecting that I'll soon be making more use of the forums on Psych Central with the shadow2000 username that I already have there. Even though I have been commenting to the blogs on Psych Central using my shadow2000 username on a fairly regular basis as of late, I haven't participated in the forums there in a while. Most likely, I'll be posting to the Psych Central forums again before too much longer, probably mostly on the forums pertaining to mood disorders. I'd also like to use Linkadge's forum some more, but unfortunately, I have too many concerns about using the freeforums site right now to participate there. Even though I haven't used the account that I have on Psych Central much in years since I created it, I haven't ever had any problems with getting into my account there, and nothing has ever happened there to lead me to suspect that somebody might have been tampering with my account in any way, so I feel comfortable enough with that site to post there.
Before I go, I'd like to thank everyone who's commented to this thread so far. Scott, you've always been an incredible source of support for me and for others here on Psycho-Babble, and I can't thank you enough for all that you've written here over the years, whether it's been in what you've written to me or what you've written to others. I appreciate that you've wished me health and happiness, and I wish the same for you and for all of us here. To Tabitha and Linkadge, I'm just going have to basically assume at this point that the two of you are right that the reasons why I wasn't able to get into my account on Linkadge's site weren't related to anything that Lou Pilder did. I regret the fact that I made any association between the problems that I had with accessing my account on Linkadge's site and Lou Pilder, and it saddens me that I've probably hurt Mr. Pilder by associating him with the problems that I had with Linkadge's site and by using such an angry tone in writing the things that I wrote late last night. I typically strive to be sensitive to the feelings of all of those that I interact with no matter what sorts of personality traits they might seem to have, and seeing that I clearly failed in meeting that goal with my post, I apologize for conducting myself in the way that I did. I still don't plan on posting here from this point forward because I don't think that a forum with no formal moderation is for me, but I'll probably keep reading messages here. I wish all of you luck in making this site a place where people with mental health conditions can support and inform one another while consistently being respectful and considerate of one another.
cb
Posted by linkadge on September 9, 2016, at 20:02:33
In reply to Planning to use Psych Central, posted by coffeeberry on September 9, 2016, at 17:42:45
Psych Central sounds great. I just joined too.
I will post on the medication part:
http://forums.psychcentral.com/psychiatric-medications/
Linkadge
Posted by Chris O on September 10, 2016, at 21:09:26
In reply to Goodbye, Babblers, posted by coffeeberry on September 9, 2016, at 3:04:43
Hang in there, coffeeberry. If I recall, my interactions with you were supportive and positive. Thanks for being a valuable force of information and emotional support on the psycho-babble boards.
Chris
Posted by coffeeberry on September 11, 2016, at 10:40:27
In reply to Re: Goodbye, Babblers » coffeeberry, posted by Chris O on September 10, 2016, at 21:09:26
Thank you for your support, Chris. I wish you well in your pursuit of good mental well-being and in all of your endeavors as you move forward.
cb
Posted by Horse on September 11, 2016, at 19:48:02
In reply to Planning to use Psych Central, posted by coffeeberry on September 9, 2016, at 17:42:45
I'll look for you shadow2000. Psych Central has been too large or something (maybe the interface?) that I could never stick around. I've tried crazy meds, daily strength, something else, but have always come back here. Now here isn't what it was. Idk, I'll poke around Psyche Central and find you. You've been such an ace, anwswering posts with intelligence and commitment to others' well being. I've posted here since 2009, and you've always been there. Peace <3
Posted by coffeeberry on September 11, 2016, at 20:33:12
In reply to Re: Planning to use Psych Central » coffeeberry, posted by Horse on September 11, 2016, at 19:48:02
Thank you for your supportive response, Horse. My feelings about the Psych Central forums are similar to those that you expressed here, as I prefer the way the forums on this site (Psycho-Babble) are structured compared with the way the forums are structured on Psych Central. I've had an account on Psych Central for more than six years and have only made 53 posts to the forums in my time there, as I've also seemed to find myself not sticking around there for very long during the periods of time when I've gone there to post. I still have yet to post there since I posted here saying that I'll probably be using the Psych Central forums more often going forward, but I'm still planning on making use of the forums on that site soon, even if I don't post there all that often. At any rate, I hope to see you and other Babblers there as I make more use of the site.
cb
Posted by Chris O on September 11, 2016, at 21:08:16
In reply to Re: Planning to use Psych Central » Horse, posted by coffeeberry on September 11, 2016, at 20:33:12
For what it's worth, I've found this site, and the commenters here, immensely more helpful and empathic than other sites.
Chris
Posted by coffeeberry on September 11, 2016, at 21:43:54
In reply to Re: Planning to use Psych Central » coffeeberry, posted by Chris O on September 11, 2016, at 21:08:16
> For what it's worth, I've found this site, and the commenters here, immensely more helpful and empathic than other sites.
I agree with you, Chris. I just don't think that using a site that's not moderated is for me. I think that I'd consider coming back here (other than to just respond to replies on this thread as I'm doing now) if Dr. Bob were to return and moderate the site or perhaps appoint somebody else as a moderator.
cb
This is the end of the thread.
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