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Posted by mfarrellr on October 5, 2010, at 22:24:31
According to an article written by Simon Sobo, M.D., selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors, or SSRIs, like Celexa can cause a mental phenomenon called emotional blunting, which can make patients have a carefree, well whatever attitude toward life.
Steve Ilardi, professor of abnormal psychology said emotional blunting could lead to two particular types of potentially life-altering side effects: emotional numbing and reduced error detection.
For some patients emotional numbing is a good thing. But for others the degree to which they experience positive emotions such as love and affection goes down as well. Ilardi said he has known many individuals on SSRIs who have reported falling out of love with their significant others, and they never considered that it could be because of the medications.
People were making irreversible lifetime decisions, like divorcing their partners or leaving their longtime boyfriend or girlfriend, Ilardi said. They never once considered it could be the medications that was doing it. Thats just not how we reason about it.
This is exactly the point I have been trying to get across.
My wife of 20 years who always proclaimed nothing would come between us. After she was prescibed Prozac/ Flouexetine when her mother passed. She started exhibiting this type of behaviour. Almost a year ago non-chalantly announced she had found an appartment and was moving out. Last weekend she told me she had filed for divorce no tears no emotion. Our daughter has described her as being emotionless before. I have called Dr office as our daughter has done as well even wrote a letter to the Dr.. Nurse practitioner says to me maybe it is something else that has damaged our marriage.My question is and has been why in the HELL is medical Dr,s prescribing these. Why are they not refering them to someone who knows about the pitfalls of these kind of drugs. My wife has damaged relationships with most of our family and friends and denys anything is wrong with her. Her memory once sharp as a tack now is forgetfull, I could be here all night with the nightmares I have endured the last couple of years she has been on these. These drugs may be good for someone suicidal but for someone being depressed I think the best thing would be to refer them to a qualified person in the mental health field not for a doctor not trained in the Mental Health Field to just wing it. She does not seem to give a damn about anything meanwhile I am worried for her well being and mad as hell for the system that makes it seem that these drugs are safe to be passed out so easily....
mfarrellr
Posted by Phillipa on October 5, 2010, at 23:55:36
In reply to Adverse side effects Prozac/Flouexetine, posted by mfarrellr on October 5, 2010, at 22:24:31
I'm sorry for what has happened to your marriage. Have you considered trying to convince her to attend marriage counseling to see what's going on if it's the meds or just a mid life crisis triggered by the death of her mother as this also happens. Phillipa
Posted by mfarrellr on October 6, 2010, at 4:43:34
In reply to Re: Adverse side effects Prozac/Flouexetine » mfarrellr, posted by Phillipa on October 5, 2010, at 23:55:36
Tried that she refused saying it is a waste of money and the medical practitioner says she is ok on the anti depressants, but I cannot believe everything she tells me. I written letter to Dr and talked to one of the nurse practitioners, and she asked if she has had any type of counseling but could not discuss her case with me.
Posted by Lou Pilder on October 6, 2010, at 8:41:19
In reply to Adverse side effects Prozac/Flouexetine, posted by mfarrellr on October 5, 2010, at 22:24:31
> According to an article written by Simon Sobo, M.D., selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors, or SSRIs, like Celexa can cause a mental phenomenon called emotional blunting, which can make patients have a carefree, well whatever attitude toward life.
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> Steve Ilardi, professor of abnormal psychology said emotional blunting could lead to two particular types of potentially life-altering side effects: emotional numbing and reduced error detection.
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> For some patients emotional numbing is a good thing. But for others the degree to which they experience positive emotions such as love and affection goes down as well. Ilardi said he has known many individuals on SSRIs who have reported falling out of love with their significant others, and they never considered that it could be because of the medications.
>
> People were making irreversible lifetime decisions, like divorcing their partners or leaving their longtime boyfriend or girlfriend, Ilardi said. They never once considered it could be the medications that was doing it. Thats just not how we reason about it.
>
> This is exactly the point I have been trying to get across.
> My wife of 20 years who always proclaimed nothing would come between us. After she was prescibed Prozac/ Flouexetine when her mother passed. She started exhibiting this type of behaviour. Almost a year ago non-chalantly announced she had found an appartment and was moving out. Last weekend she told me she had filed for divorce no tears no emotion. Our daughter has described her as being emotionless before. I have called Dr office as our daughter has done as well even wrote a letter to the Dr.. Nurse practitioner says to me maybe it is something else that has damaged our marriage.My question is and has been why in the HELL is medical Dr,s prescribing these. Why are they not refering them to someone who knows about the pitfalls of these kind of drugs. My wife has damaged relationships with most of our family and friends and denys anything is wrong with her. Her memory once sharp as a tack now is forgetfull, I could be here all night with the nightmares I have endured the last couple of years she has been on these. These drugs may be good for someone suicidal but for someone being depressed I think the best thing would be to refer them to a qualified person in the mental health field not for a doctor not trained in the Mental Health Field to just wing it. She does not seem to give a damn about anything meanwhile I am worried for her well being and mad as hell for the system that makes it seem that these drugs are safe to be passed out so easily....
> mfarrellrHi mfarrellr,
What you are describing here has been revealed to me as a {redacted by respondent}. There have been rules made here, to me at least, that restrain me from posting in relation to what you describe here and I am sorry that I can not post here what could have the potential IMHO to save your marriage. If you could have your wife contact me, I could explain what has been revealed to me and perhaps that could cause a reversal of her wanting a divorce.
Lou
lpilder_1188@fuse.net
there is an underscore between my name and the 1188
Posted by mfarrellr on October 6, 2010, at 20:09:51
In reply to Lou's response- » mfarrellr, posted by Lou Pilder on October 6, 2010, at 8:41:19
Thank you Lou. I will try but as she thinks everything is fine I do not know how receptive she will be. I am out of Ideas her best friend of 25 years cannot get through to her as our daughters. I spend a lot of time helping her when she needs anything. Her friend says I should just stop helping so much and back away. I have started doing that and a couple of days ago she said she filed for divorce and wants to get together to go over the papers. But I will try.
Posted by Lou Pilder on October 6, 2010, at 20:33:59
In reply to Re: Lou's response-, posted by mfarrellr on October 6, 2010, at 20:09:51
> Thank you Lou. I will try but as she thinks everything is fine I do not know how receptive she will be. I am out of Ideas her best friend of 25 years cannot get through to her as our daughters. I spend a lot of time helping her when she needs anything. Her friend says I should just stop helping so much and back away. I have started doing that and a couple of days ago she said she filed for divorce and wants to get together to go over the papers. But I will try.
mfarrellr,,
I see that the involvment of the drug mentioned could make a difference between your situation and other situations that are common today.
You see, in a turn around here, I knew a woman that divorced her husband because of his change in behavior. She deceided in one day to file the divorce and not dismiss it. What she did not know was that the husband had started taking a psychotropic drug.
After 15 years, she discoverd that the drug that the man was taking could have caused his behavior. She sought to find him, but when she did, she found that he had stopped the drug and was remarried. What a difference a day made. Perhaps if you tell her this story, there could be a window opened to dismiss the divorce.
Lou
Posted by mfarrellr on October 6, 2010, at 22:56:49
In reply to Lou's reply- » mfarrellr, posted by Lou Pilder on October 6, 2010, at 20:33:59
Believe me I will,and I greatly appreciate the response. I have been told the best thing for me to get this over ASAP and go my separate ways. That may very well be true.. But would it be for her. We still wear our wedding rings and I will be true to the end,
Posted by mfarrellr on October 7, 2010, at 5:46:16
In reply to Lou's reply- » mfarrellr, posted by Lou Pilder on October 6, 2010, at 20:33:59
Believe me I will,and I greatly appreciate the response. I have been told the best thing for me to get this over ASAP and go my separate ways. That may very well be true.. But would it be for her. We still wear our wedding rings and I will be true to the end,
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