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Posted by Dinah on March 30, 2004, at 10:03:07
In reply to Re: Sandy, posted by SandyWeb on March 30, 2004, at 9:55:43
If not the hospital, please call the doctor who prescribes your medications. I find that when I get in that state, it's generally the medications that need a bit of tweaking.
Risperdal has worked wonders for me. I'm not of course recommending it for you, only your doctor knows what will work for you. But for me it has a wonderfully calming and centering effect when I feel like everything is falling apart. Perhaps you can find a medication that works that way for you.
(By the way, that's one of the biggest reasons for hospitalization. To allow you to tweak your medications in a safe environment.)
And who cares anyway what the cops think? Whether or not you go to the hospital isn't for them. It's for you and most importantly your kids.
Posted by jlynne on March 30, 2004, at 11:25:09
In reply to Re: Sandy » SandyWeb, posted by Dinah on March 30, 2004, at 10:03:07
Hey, Sandy . . . I didn't desert you; I just got up.
You know, you're going to go up and down with your emotions right now. Just try to ride them like a wave, and this will pass.
Dinah's right; do you have a therapist or a pdoc? That's one place you should be able to find confidentiality - and help.
Hang in there, sweetie. What are you doing now?
((((HUGS))))
...jlynne
Posted by jlynne on March 30, 2004, at 15:04:32
In reply to Hey, Sweetheart . . ., posted by jlynne on March 30, 2004, at 11:25:09
Sandy, I have to leave now; I have home visits to make all afternoon.
Please, keep in touch. Someone will be watching this board . . .
I will be back this evening.
((((HUGS))))
...jlynne
Posted by Fallen4myT on March 30, 2004, at 16:52:46
In reply to Sandy, posted by jlynne on March 30, 2004, at 15:04:32
am wondering how you are and if you can give me some info later on how to get out of a bad home life please? Thanks and Hugs
Posted by LynneDa on March 30, 2004, at 17:21:42
In reply to Re: Sandy I will be on late but, posted by Fallen4myT on March 30, 2004, at 16:52:46
I'm just getting caught up on the board, was on vaca last week. Has anyone heard from Sandy today - 3/31? Does anyone know what city she is in? Isn't there someone besides the cops Dr. Bob can send - like a social services person? Can we somehow get her to tell us who her doctor is or is that too invasive? I'm just puzzled why we can't do more.
Thanks to anyone who has thoughts on this subject still.
~ Lynne
Posted by LynneDa on March 30, 2004, at 18:36:17
In reply to Was Sandy on today?, posted by LynneDa on March 30, 2004, at 17:21:42
OK, I feel kinda dumb. Today IS 3/30 right? long day I guess and Sandy did post earlier today. Guess we'll see if she comes back tomorrow. And, I have to commend Dr.Bob for all he does. It takes guts to put up a site like this, with the risks that come with it. Can't we send her a list of crisis hotlines or social service organization numbers in her area? We did that for a young girl who seemed suicidal and revealed her city. She didn't use them, but at least she has them if she really gets to that point.
~ Lynne
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I'm just getting caught up on the board, was on vaca last week. Has anyone heard from Sandy today - 3/31? Does anyone know what city she is in? Isn't there someone besides the cops Dr. Bob can send - like a social services person? Can we somehow get her to tell us who her doctor is or is that too invasive? I'm just puzzled why we can't do more.
> Thanks to anyone who has thoughts on this subject still.
> ~ Lynne
>
Posted by jlynne on March 30, 2004, at 20:09:33
In reply to Sandy, posted by jlynne on March 30, 2004, at 15:04:32
Please, let me know if you are there.
((((Strokes))))...jlynne
Posted by jlynne on March 30, 2004, at 22:07:21
In reply to Sandy, I'm home now . . ., posted by jlynne on March 30, 2004, at 20:09:33
Where are you, sweetie??
((((Sandy))))
...jlynne
Posted by jlynne on March 30, 2004, at 23:34:25
In reply to Yoo-hoo . . . Sandy!, posted by jlynne on March 30, 2004, at 22:07:21
Posted by jlynne on March 30, 2004, at 23:35:02
In reply to I have to go to bed soon, Sandy . . . (nm), posted by jlynne on March 30, 2004, at 23:34:25
Posted by jlynne on March 30, 2004, at 23:37:34
In reply to So, if you're there . . . (nm), posted by jlynne on March 30, 2004, at 23:35:02
I won't sleep well if I don't hear from you, sweetie.
((((HUGS))))
...jlynne
Posted by Fallen4myT on March 30, 2004, at 23:53:32
In reply to Please, let me know soon:), posted by jlynne on March 30, 2004, at 23:37:34
And then when she gets out we can party..get some rest she may not be on for all we know :-/
> I won't sleep well if I don't hear from you, sweetie.
>
> ((((HUGS))))
>
> ...jlynne
Posted by jlynne on March 30, 2004, at 23:59:23
In reply to jlynne...maybe she went to ER.,,lets pray » jlynne, posted by Fallen4myT on March 30, 2004, at 23:53:32
I know . . . I'm just hoping. Maybe we can be her hope, since she doesn't seem to have much of her own:~)
...jlynne
Posted by jlynne on March 31, 2004, at 9:49:26
In reply to Please, let me know soon:), posted by jlynne on March 30, 2004, at 23:37:34
Where are you, babe?? Thinking about you))))
(((((((Sandy)))))))
...jlynne
Posted by Fallen4myT on March 31, 2004, at 10:38:20
In reply to Fallen, posted by jlynne on March 30, 2004, at 23:59:23
I know :) I am waiting and wondering too but if she finally went to ER and stays in the hospital forsay a week...you will be on tired cowgirl not going to bed and all :-)
hugs
Posted by jlynne on March 31, 2004, at 10:44:57
In reply to Re: Fallen/jlynne » jlynne, posted by Fallen4myT on March 31, 2004, at 10:38:20
I'm doing okay. I am just posting while I get ready for work. (I'm on Pacific time) Have to leave in a few minutes. Hope she's okay. Hope she went to the hospital.
...jlynne
Posted by SandyWeb on March 31, 2004, at 15:53:13
In reply to Sandy, posted by jlynne on March 31, 2004, at 9:49:26
I'm still here.
Just nothing much to say anymore.
Sandy
Posted by Fallen4myT on March 31, 2004, at 18:12:41
In reply to Re: Sandy » jlynne, posted by SandyWeb on March 31, 2004, at 15:53:13
Sandy I am so glad you are here.,..though I wish you were in the hospital or seeing a pdoc....but glad youre OK lol now Jlynne can get some sleep..shes nice.. I dont see her posts on HER...Why is that Jlynne ? Sandy I know you left cause of your kids safety but where did you go..I tend to stay cause of the dependancy on cash hubby brings in
Posted by jlynne on March 31, 2004, at 19:49:35
In reply to Re: Sandy » jlynne, posted by SandyWeb on March 31, 2004, at 15:53:13
Hey, Sandy . . . good to hear your ["e"] voice again. I understand your not feeling like writing right now; you're probably pretty exhausted - in every way, huh?
I just got off work, sweetie, and I'm going to go fix myself something to nibble on, okay? Write, if you feel like it, and I will write again a little later.
Back in a bit:~)
...jlynne
Posted by jlynne on March 31, 2004, at 19:55:06
In reply to Re: Sandy » SandyWeb, posted by Fallen4myT on March 31, 2004, at 18:12:41
>I dont see her posts on HER...Why is that Jlynne ?
>
Hey, Fallen I get around . . . you will find me farther up in Psycho Social, under "Redirected Lexaproers", and in Psycho Babble under "Alcohol and Lexapro".Talk to you later - I'm hungry!
...jlynne
Posted by Fallen4myT on March 31, 2004, at 20:04:13
In reply to Fallen, posted by jlynne on March 31, 2004, at 19:55:06
Ah cool I will look for you when I go to med threads I dont go there often....I may pick your brain on lex too
HUGS
Posted by SandyWeb on March 31, 2004, at 20:25:28
In reply to Sandy, posted by jlynne on March 31, 2004, at 19:49:35
jlynne,
I just wanted to tell you that I have appreciated your concern.
Please don't bother posting to me anymore because I truly won't see it.
I've discovered that my postings have not been appropriate for these boards, and that I've caused problems for people.
So along with everything else that has happened the last few days....I've also lost all credibility with the police department and members' tolerance levels on these boards.
I want you to know that you are a GREAT lady. You did everything that you could have done. Your clients are very blessed to have you on their side. Don't second-guess yourself. It's not a bad thing to reach out to someone. I am grateful. It would have been nice to meet you one day. But I'm at peace with my choice tonight. April Fool's was made for just such a fool as me, eh? *smile*
Take wonderful care of yourself, hun. I loved the (((soft strokes))). I didn't get too many of them during my marriage, so every little bit of human touch is so very much treasured. Thank you for thinking of me.
You will be fine, "jlynne". Please don't give me another thought, and continue living your life as the beautiful soul that you are.
Thank you again, sweetie.
Hugs and God bless you,
Sandy
Posted by Fallen4myT on March 31, 2004, at 20:33:14
In reply to Re: Sandy » jlynne, posted by SandyWeb on March 31, 2004, at 20:25:28
Sandy if you are referring to my post on the confusion of why some posts of a very serious nature are on here and not on the psychology section in Babble please know that doesnt mean I dont care about you and am less than genuine..If OTHERS have issues with your thread...why not start one in psychology with a trigger warning...and go there...This is NOT the only thread I find odd in here...I see many and thus do not post or start posts myself in here cause its an odd vague area.....I care about you and hope you keep posting and get some help..I am mostly on the psych board in here.
Posted by jlynne on March 31, 2004, at 20:51:12
In reply to Re: Sandy » jlynne, posted by SandyWeb on March 31, 2004, at 20:25:28
>>
> I've discovered that my postings have not been appropriate for these boards, and that I've caused problems for people.
>
>Hey, sweetie . . . that's why we created THIS thread - - remember?? No more talk about being inappropriate, see? These boards are for mutual support, and if someone doesn't like our subject matter, they don't have to read it. I have read other posts on this board that I can't really relate to, but I just don't go there when that's the case.
Supporting each other is what this place is all about - we don't all relate to everyone else here, but the ones who do relate to a certain person are the ones who respond to that person.
I'm staying here for you, Sandy. I would like you to stay, too. It's not like we are intruding on someone else's space - this our thread, and everyone can see that. And, now, we have a new friend - a great friend, Fallen4T.
Sorry I ran on, but I feel very strongly about what I said.
((((HUGS)))) ((((Strokes)))) ((((Tissues))))
...jlynne
Posted by SandyWeb on March 31, 2004, at 21:32:25
In reply to Re: Sandy » SandyWeb, posted by jlynne on March 31, 2004, at 20:51:12
jlynne,
This is ridiculous.
Anyways, I've decided that I won't do anything afterall. A steak knife and me visited in the bathroom for over an hour, and a few cuts later, I walked away from it. I didn't really want to die sitting on my toilet.
I am, however, going to leave this board. I really had no intention of ever coming back because I was going to go to a park tonight. Heck, I've even got my longjohns and heavy socks ready in the washroom to get dressed. But, I'm going to go to bed instead.
I'm still not coming back to the board, though. I'm not well....and I don't want to hamper anyone's recovery. I appreciate the thread, but I'm not good for you guys.
And I really, really can't handle anyone's criticisms or belittlements right now.
Thanks for the friendship, both you and Fallen!
Hugs,
Sandy
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