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Re: Jimi » lil' jimi

Posted by yesac on August 8, 2003, at 16:07:12

In reply to Re: Jimi » yesac, posted by lil' jimi on August 7, 2003, at 21:46:56

Sounds like you had a busy weekend. Yesterday I was having lunch on the lawn with my coworkers, and one person's friends came to meet us. They have these 2 year old twins. Very cute. A boy and a girl.

Anyways... I was wondering why you hadn't responded to this. It isn't like you! But it's okay.

I have been a little bit absent the past few days too. I don't know, just haven't found the time. And also, I just didn't want to be even more depressed about the lack of people here.

I've been on the medication board more, because I've been obsessively researching all kinds of meds out there, as future options.

Glad you are here. Hope you have another good weekend. Mine's looking somewhat drab, as always, except for going to a soccer game tomorrow.

 

re: Jimi » yesac

Posted by lil' jimi on August 8, 2003, at 16:50:55

In reply to Re: Jimi » lil' jimi, posted by yesac on August 8, 2003, at 16:07:12

hi again Yesac!

> Sounds like you had a busy weekend. Yesterday I was having lunch on the lawn with my coworkers, and one person's friends came to meet us. They have these 2 year old twins. Very cute. A boy and a girl.
>
> Anyways... I was wondering why you hadn't responded to this. It isn't like you! But it's okay.
>
> I have been a little bit absent the past few days too. I don't know, just haven't found the time. And also, I just didn't want to be even more depressed about the lack of people here.
>
> I've been on the medication board more, because I've been obsessively researching all kinds of meds out there, as future options.
>
> Glad you are here. Hope you have another good weekend. Mine's looking somewhat drab, as always, except for going to a soccer game tomorrow.
>

see, if i get a post to a thread i've posted to ... i'll get an e-mail alert to get my attention ... ...

But, if you post to me on a new thread, then i'll have to read the board before i'll find it and respond ... ...
.... .... and i don't always check out the whole board everytime i visit pBabble land ... ... so i reply whenever i get wind of interest ... or interest gets wind of me! .... ... HA!

soccer! ... go soccer folk!!

... this weekend i'll be marching down at our state capital in protest of the pernicious efforts to redistrict texas' congressional representation ... ...

... yesterday it got up to 108 ...
... this afternoon, it got up to 110 ...
... this keeps up, it may get warm ...
... drinking water now, for the march tomorrow ...

hope your weekend goes swell ... i'll be checking in on you ... so
TAKE CARE !!
~ jim


 

yesac? Lil Jimi? Where are you?

Posted by kara lynne on August 12, 2003, at 1:20:29

In reply to re: Jimi » yesac, posted by lil' jimi on August 8, 2003, at 16:50:55

You said I could jump into your thread, right? In rebellion of clicks? Well here I am wondering where you are in this thread I want to hijack.

 

Re: yesac? Lil Jimi? Where are you? » kara lynne

Posted by yesac on August 12, 2003, at 8:51:10

In reply to yesac? Lil Jimi? Where are you?, posted by kara lynne on August 12, 2003, at 1:20:29

> You said I could jump into your thread, right? In rebellion of clicks? Well here I am wondering where you are in this thread I want to hijack.

Yes, please feel free to hijack! I haven't been on much the past few days.... I do need to catch up and do some posting though. So hijack away! What's on your mind?

 

re: yesac? Lil Jimi? Where are you? » kara lynne

Posted by lil' jimi on August 12, 2003, at 12:27:06

In reply to yesac? Lil Jimi? Where are you?, posted by kara lynne on August 12, 2003, at 1:20:29

hi kara lynne!

looking for us?

you wrote:
> You said I could jump into your thread, right? In rebellion of clicks? Well here I am wondering where you are in this thread I want to hijack.

right, right, right! ... please do jump in ... ... ... anytime ... !

i have no idea where we are in this thread ... ... But we can't let that stop us!
Or you!!

... ... being hijacked sounds delightful to me ... ... ... hijack away!!

hope i'm not too late,
~ jim

p.s. had the computers off last night because we had some thunderstorms here.
gratefully, we got some rain.
it's cooled off ... ... high today is supposed to be only 90.

 

re: yesac? Lil Jimi? Where are you?

Posted by kara lynne on August 12, 2003, at 13:12:31

In reply to re: yesac? Lil Jimi? Where are you? » kara lynne, posted by lil' jimi on August 12, 2003, at 12:27:06

Oh how delightful! What welcoming responses!

I have no idea what I'm hijacking either, I just wanted to sit at your table.

Thunderstorms...mmmmm. That sounds nice. It's a comfortable low of about 101 here. Positively inhuman.

I'm off for my second therapy session. It's a little nervewracking, but I hope it actually gets me somewhere. I been down so long and stuck too deep...

I guess I have an innate distrust of psychotherapy due to some past experiences. But it's been a long time and I'm giving it another go.

Are you guys in therapy?

 

re: hijacking - jimi, kara lynne

Posted by yesac on August 12, 2003, at 13:38:13

In reply to re: yesac? Lil Jimi? Where are you?, posted by kara lynne on August 12, 2003, at 13:12:31

Wow it's so hot where you guys are. It hasn't been so hot here for several weeks, usually maybe a high of 90 on average, but it rains/thunderstorms like every night practically.

Yes, I'm in therapy. I've been off and on in therapy for the past few years, but it has been very frustrating because I've not been able to really settle down for a long time with any therapist. The longest "relationships" were about 7 months each, and they were both going really well but then they ended because (1) I graduated college, and (2) my therapist graduated graduate school and finished her internship. So now, I've been seeing a new therapist for about 3 months, and I like her, but I wasn't feeling totally sure about her for quite a long time. I'm still not, but it seems to be getting better. So hopefully it will work out, because I am now in a more stable living situation and shouldn't be moving any time in the next few years at least, and she shouldn't either.

Anyways. That's probably more than you really wanted to know!

Therapy is nervewracking and very frustrating. I always hope it gets me somewhere, and I often think that it isn't, but then in small little subtle ways, I realize that it is doing something, slowly. I know it isn't a cure-all, that's for sure. But it can be helpful, and the way I look at it now, I just need to take advantage of each piece of the puzzle that helps me in any kind of way.

 

re: yesac? Lil Jimi? Where are you? » kara lynne

Posted by lil' jimi on August 12, 2003, at 14:10:38

In reply to re: yesac? Lil Jimi? Where are you?, posted by kara lynne on August 12, 2003, at 13:12:31

hi hi kara lynne!

it's now nearly 2 PM cdt here and it is ONLY 84!
last friday we set a record for August of 110.

> Oh how delightful! What welcoming responses!
>
> I have no idea what I'm hijacking either, I just wanted to sit at your table.
>
> Thunderstorms...mmmmm. That sounds nice. It's a comfortable low of about 101 here. Positively inhuman.
>
> I'm off for my second therapy session. It's a little nervewracking, but I hope it actually gets me somewhere. I been down so long and stuck too deep...
>
> I guess I have an innate distrust of psychotherapy due to some past experiences. But it's been a long time and I'm giving it another go.
>
> Are you guys in therapy?
>
>

you are Very popular here!
you deserve welcoming responses ... at least!

i haven't had any therapy ... ... ... yet.

vandy made a great post (i need to tell vandy i feel that) about therapy, on the lex thread today (yesterday?) ... something about 'therapy is like an umbrella ... ' ?

i have been using pBab as my pDoc (!)
... (And Now For The FIRST Time I Am Using This Abbreviation!!)
... ... ... _LOL_!!

AND I Am Laughing !! Ack ! HA HA HA!!

Oh, oh, i think i pulled a muscle! ... i'm not in shape for that ... sorry (Not Really!!) HA!

Kara, good dang luck with your ol' shrinky-pie!
(and tell us all about how it goes! please?)

And

Do you tell a pdoc about posting a pBabble ?
actually, i mean,
Does One tell one's pDoc (Pduck?) about posting about one's mental health issues here or anywhere?

welcome!
~ jim

 

The above post wasn't for me but...

Posted by yesac on August 12, 2003, at 15:08:04

In reply to re: yesac? Lil Jimi? Where are you? » kara lynne, posted by lil' jimi on August 12, 2003, at 14:10:38

In the name of jumping in...!

cdt, cdt..... central ?? time - can't think what it is

> you are Very popular here!
> you deserve welcoming responses ... at least!

I think that everyone deserves welcoming responses. If someone doesn't have that, then they probably shouldn't respond at all. But then of course there's the issue of a person not getting any responses, and does that mean no one cares? or that no one has a welcoming response? probably not... but it's always a concern.

> i haven't had any therapy ... ... ... yet.

Wow. You are lucky that meds can do it all for you. I was in therapy long before really trying meds. And I was hesitant about therapy, and even more hesitant about meds. Now I don't really care. I just want SOMETHING THAT WILL WORK!!!!! But - you don't have a therapist or a psychiatrist? Just your GP/PCP/family doctor/internist/any-other-name-they-are-called?

> i have been using pBab as my pDoc (!)
> ... (And Now For The FIRST Time I Am Using This Abbreviation!!)

I've never used the abbreviation that you speak of. I just don't like it. It's just not for me.

> Oh, oh, i think i pulled a muscle! ... i'm not in shape for that ... sorry (Not Really!!) HA!

Nothing like a good laugh. You're adding years to your life! Well, seconds anyway. But those seconds can really add up over the course of a lifetime. I wonder if it's true....

> Do you tell a pdoc about posting a pBabble ?
> actually, i mean,
> Does One tell one's pDoc about posting about one's mental health issues here or anywhere?

I don't. Or at least, I haven't. I think if I ever did, it would be kind of vague, I wouldn't give the name of the website or anything.

Oh, I have a headache. It just started. I've felt a little "off" all day, actually. Hmmm.

 

re: The above post wasn't for me

Posted by lil' jimi on August 12, 2003, at 16:07:34

In reply to The above post wasn't for me but..., posted by yesac on August 12, 2003, at 15:08:04

hi yesac!

> In the name of jumping in...!
>

i feel like every post is for everybody here at the pSocial ... or anywhere else in pBab land ...
and
.. .... as IF kl would mind?

> cdt, cdt..... central ?? time - can't think what it is

hah! ... "Daylight"
(as opposed to "Standard")

>
> > you are Very popular here!
> > you deserve welcoming responses ... at least!
>
> I think that everyone deserves welcoming responses.
>

absolutely! ... ... what would we want to do? ... wreck somebody's mood? ... ... i don't Think so ... ...

>
If someone doesn't have that, then they probably shouldn't respond at all. But then of course there's the issue of a person not getting any responses, and does that mean no one cares? or that no one has a welcoming response? probably not... but it's always a concern.
>

this posting life can be such a freaky thing because we can get hung up on our posters' response/non-response
... ... better to let the posts go out ... ...
... ... and just let the good vibes come back if they want to ... ...

> > i haven't had any therapy ... ... ... yet.
>
> Wow. You are lucky that meds can do it all for you.
>

i wouldn't know about "all" ... .. ... though, i am blessed that i'm getting by pretty swell-like here.

>
I was in therapy long before really trying meds. And I was hesitant about therapy, and even more hesitant about meds. Now I don't really care. I just want SOMETHING THAT WILL WORK!!!!!
>

that i can understand ... ... we have friends here who will help us figure it out.

> But - you don't have a therapist or a psychiatrist? Just your GP/PCP/family doctor/internist/any-other-name-they-are-called?
>

only my gp ... ... the 1st time she saw me to give me a physical ... ... (i was being a good sport and told her that my wife thought i might be depressed) ... ... my gp, "mousumi chanda-kim, md" prescribed 10 mg of lexapro ... ... that was march 6 .... .... march 7 i was hunting online and found pBab ... been here ever since ... ... doc chanda-kim has seen me twice since march 6 ... ... now i can go up to 15 mg any time i want to ... (???? ??)

i'm lucky that that's all i've spent on mental health issues in my whole 52 1/2 years!

> > i have been using pBab as my pDoc (!)
> > ... (And Now For The FIRST Time I Am Using This Abbreviation!!)
>
> I've never used the abbreviation that you speak of. I just don't like it. It's just not for me.
>

well, it is a very "lots of looniness" thing for me ... the abbreviation
... but, realy ... using pBabble as a pdoc is ... ... hysterical ... ... and funny! ... ... if not genuinely delusional ... ACK! <<more laughter>>

> > Oh, oh, i think i pulled a muscle! ... i'm not in shape for that ... sorry (Not Really!!) HA!
>
> Nothing like a good laugh. You're adding years to your life! Well, seconds anyway. But those seconds can really add up over the course of a lifetime. I wonder if it's true....
>

i figure that the beneficial endorphins, hormones, neurotransmitters we get from laughing probably make it the best medicine ... and if we are laughing the right amount, would they have us take meds ? ... but not laughing TOO much ... (!!)

> > Do you tell a pdoc about posting a pBabble ?
> > actually, i mean,
> > Does One tell one's pDoc about posting about one's mental health issues here or anywhere?
>
> I don't. Or at least, I haven't. I think if I ever did, it would be kind of vague, I wouldn't give the name of the website or anything.
>
> Oh, I have a headache. It just started. I've felt a little "off" all day, actually. Hmmm.
>
>

i slept a lot last night and i feel better for it .. .. .. also i have been trying to push water and i think i'm almost hydrated now .. .. .. drink more water ... tastes good! ... ... this is what i'm crediting with fewer headaches for me ...

What do you like to take for headaches? ... i use ibuprofen.

take it easy,
~ jim

 

where'd our hijacker go? {wink, wink!} (nm) » kara lynne

Posted by lil' jimi on August 12, 2003, at 16:09:55

In reply to re: yesac? Lil Jimi? Where are you?, posted by kara lynne on August 12, 2003, at 13:12:31

 

re: vandy about therapy » lil' jimi

Posted by lil' jimi on August 12, 2003, at 16:34:26

In reply to re: yesac? Lil Jimi? Where are you? » kara lynne, posted by lil' jimi on August 12, 2003, at 14:10:38

hi!

i wrote this:
> vandy made a great post (i need to tell vandy i feel that) about therapy, on the lex thread today (yesterday?) ... something about 'therapy is like an umbrella ... ' ?
>

i went and found vandy's post ... ... it's at http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/20030807/msgs/250131.html

i still need to post to vandy how much i liked this ... guess i'd better do it now or i'll forget .

b-b-b-bye!
~ jim

 

She had to go to therapy, I believe (nm)

Posted by yesac on August 12, 2003, at 16:51:34

In reply to where'd our hijacker go? {wink, wink!} (nm) » kara lynne, posted by lil' jimi on August 12, 2003, at 16:09:55

 

re: The above post wasn't for me » lil' jimi

Posted by yesac on August 12, 2003, at 17:09:45

In reply to re: The above post wasn't for me, posted by lil' jimi on August 12, 2003, at 16:07:34


> > cdt, cdt..... central ?? time - can't think what it is
>
> hah! ... "Daylight"
> (as opposed to "Standard")

Just have to be different, huh? You Centralers!

> this posting life can be such a freaky thing because we can get hung up on our posters' response/non-response
> ... ... better to let the posts go out ... ...
> ... ... and just let the good vibes come back if they want to ... ...

How very Buddhistish, or something.

> only my gp ... ... the 1st time she saw me to give me a physical ... ... (i was being a good sport and told her that my wife thought i might be depressed) ... ... my gp, "mousumi chanda-kim, md" prescribed 10 mg of lexapro

Wow, that's quite a name. Typical presentation, actually - "my wife thinks I might be depressed" - a lot of people don't actually come out and say it directly. So... if you don't mind me asking, why DID your wife think you might be depressed?

> i figure that the beneficial endorphins, hormones, neurotransmitters we get from laughing probably make it the best medicine ... and if we are laughing the right amount, would they have us take meds ? ... but not laughing TOO much ... (!!)

Laughing too much might be indicative of needing meds. Or, I guess it could just be one of those annoying people who laugh all the damn time and it really gets on your nerves. Or laugh inappropriately at things that really aren't funny. I don't know about not laughing enough. I think that many people laugh quite a bit but are really depressed too. Like me. I think I laugh a normal amount. I find humor in many situations - or should we say, I find many situations just so ridiculous that they seem almost humorous.

> i slept a lot last night and i feel better for it .. .. .. also i have been trying to push water and i think i'm almost hydrated now .. .. .. drink more water ... tastes good! ... ... this is what i'm crediting with fewer headaches for me ...

I usually drink a lot of water. I think maybe it does help because I don't get headaches much.

> What do you like to take for headaches? ... i use ibuprofen.

I used to take ibuprofen at the first hint of a headache. But then I thought I was overusing it. So I really cut back. Now, I usually try to go for a little while without taking anything. Then if it doesn't get better, I take whatever. Acetaminifen would be my first choice, but I'll take ibuprofen or aspirin.

 

re: She had to go to therapy, I believe » yesac

Posted by lil' jimi on August 12, 2003, at 17:25:44

In reply to She had to go to therapy, I believe (nm), posted by yesac on August 12, 2003, at 16:51:34

oh, yeah ... i remember now.

i for(Lexapro)got ... ... (i don't really think it's the lex) ... ...

THANKS!!! yesac!
~ jim

 

Back from therapy!

Posted by kara lynne on August 12, 2003, at 18:34:38

In reply to re: She had to go to therapy, I believe » yesac, posted by lil' jimi on August 12, 2003, at 17:25:44

And so happy to find you guys here. And the above post (f you were referring to mine) was for either or both of you.

I wish meds worked for me. I've been trying over 10 years now. Surely they will come up with something soon....

Meanwhile, I'm not so sure about this therapy. It was the kind of confrontive in your face thing today--where he played back my patterns with dramatic intensity as if that would do anything but shame me. Then he said my issues with men would lead me to distrust him--leaving me severely psychobabbled.

I'm not sure that kind of thing is good for me--right now I'm trying to get over my ex rejecting me for those parts I reject in myself. I am not a denier; my therapist doesn't have to worry about that. I don't need to dwell even more dramatically on my failings.

If leaving me in tears was the goal, he succeeded. He even seemed to be backpedaling for the rest of the session as if he were unsure of how he'd dealt with me--but maybe that's just my imagination. I'll go back next week with renewed wits (!) and try to tell him, maybe give it another chance.

Anyway, it really was nice to come home and find you guys here. I hope you're back and posting soon.

What shall we order?

 

re: The above past life wasn't for me » yesac

Posted by lil' jimi on August 12, 2003, at 18:49:19

In reply to re: The above post wasn't for me » lil' jimi, posted by yesac on August 12, 2003, at 17:09:45

> Just have to be different, huh? You Centralers!
>

oh, yes
... ... "<to tune a song i can't place> Austin, Texas, she's my home!"
... ... <oh, i remember!
... (sur-lexapro-prise!)>
... "Dirty Water", at the end of a chorus, it goes something like, "but i love that dirty water ... oh, boston, you're my home" , i think
... ... "Frustrated women! Have to in by twelve o'clock." ... ... just an old song i used to know .. not really that good a song ... but fun

> > this posting life can be such a freaky thing because we can get hung up on our posters' response/non-response
> > ... ... better to let the posts go out ... ...
> > ... ... and just let the good vibes come back if they want to ... ...
>
> How very Buddhistish, or something.

rolling With the punches
... kinda buddhistic-ish-esque

... never let 'em see you sweat !
... less buddh-whatever

>
> > only my gp ... ... the 1st time she saw me to give me a physical ... ... (i was being a good sport and told her that my wife thought i might be depressed) ... ... my gp, "mousumi chanda-kim, md" prescribed 10 mg of lexapro
>
> Wow, that's quite a name. Typical presentation, actually - "my wife thinks I might be depressed" - a lot of people don't actually come out and say it directly. So... if you don't mind me asking, why DID your wife think you might be depressed?
>

her mister fun Jim was getting surly or surlier ... ... and getting less and less .. ... .. motivated ... less follow-through ... way less productive .. ... .. fussier about it all ... .... less buddhistic .... .... i'm still not overwhelmed by the evidence ...

... but i was a tad on the dour side ...
.. ... .. i had some spiritual issues that were overtaking me, to my benefit ... i was all set to join my fav flavor of buddhism called nyingmapa ... ... culmination of decades of things i was/am slowly working on spiritually ... the nyingma dharma master was coming to town ... he's a big deal and coming here was an unexpecterd and very rare event, so i was up for it ... ...

... ... day before lama pema norbu was to arrive ... both of my parents died in an auto accident ...
and i had to go to florida ... ... my relation to nyingmapa remains unresolved ...
... anyway, i think sylvia saw a cumulative deteriortation ... ... i might have been on a bummer ... ... also because my dad was my best friend ... ... and it is weird that there would be this seeming conflict with my spiritual aspirations.

> > i figure that the beneficial endorphins, hormones, neurotransmitters we get from laughing probably make it the best medicine ... and if we are laughing the right amount, would they have us take meds ? ... but not laughing TOO much ... (!!)
>
> Laughing too much might be indicative of needing meds. Or, I guess it could just be one of those annoying people who laugh all the damn time and it really gets on your nerves. Or laugh inappropriately at things that really aren't funny. I don't know about not laughing enough. I think that many people laugh quite a bit but are really depressed too. Like me. I think I laugh a normal amount. I find humor in many situations - or should we say, I find many situations just so ridiculous that they seem almost humorous.
>

aye, you got me ... again
... ... i laugh sometimes out of nervous tension
... ... and we don't want that "inappropriate affect" label either
... ... ... it is the absurity of life that makes me laugh the most ... like the absurdity of using our pBab for a therapist ... absurd

> > i slept a lot last night and i feel better for it .. .. .. also i have been trying to push water and i think i'm almost hydrated now .. .. .. drink more water ... tastes good! ... ... this is what i'm crediting with fewer headaches for me ...
>
> I usually drink a lot of water. I think maybe it does help because I don't get headaches much.
>
> > What do you like to take for headaches? ... i use ibuprofen.
>
> I used to take ibuprofen at the first hint of a headache. But then I thought I was overusing it. So I really cut back. Now, I usually try to go for a little while without taking anything. Then if it doesn't get better, I take whatever. Acetaminifen would be my first choice, but I'll take ibuprofen or aspirin.

i abuse ibuprofen like a fiend ... ... i take it like a supplement 600 to 800 mg a day most days ... ... i still have good liver function ... ... should i be more concerned, you think ?

~ jim

 

re: The above past life wasn't for me

Posted by kara lynne on August 12, 2003, at 19:07:26

In reply to re: The above past life wasn't for me » yesac, posted by lil' jimi on August 12, 2003, at 18:49:19

I'm always saying I'm in the wrong life--or that surely I've had better lifetimes.

Jimi, I just wanted to say I'm so sorry about your parents--I would imagine that's a hard blow no matter how Buddhist you are. What timing--it sure seems like it means something, but who knows what?
I'm sure you will pick up your spiritual journey however you need to do it.

Did you say you're doing well on Lexapro? I've started taking little bits of it again trying to tolerate it.

 

re: Back from therapy! » kara lynne

Posted by lil' jimi on August 12, 2003, at 19:19:30

In reply to Back from therapy!, posted by kara lynne on August 12, 2003, at 18:34:38

hi kara lynnne!

you're back from "Therapy":
> And so happy to find you guys here. And the above post (f you were referring to mine) was for either or both of you.
>
> I wish meds worked for me. I've been trying over 10 years now. Surely they will come up with something soon....
>
> Meanwhile, I'm not so sure about this therapy. It was the kind of confrontive in your face thing today--where he played back my patterns with dramatic intensity as if that would do anything but shame me. Then he said my issues with men would lead me to distrust him--leaving me severely psychobabbled.
>
> I'm not sure that kind of thing is good for me--right now I'm trying to get over my ex rejecting me for those parts I reject in myself. I am not a denier; my therapist doesn't have to worry about that. I don't need to dwell even more dramatically on my failings.
>
> If leaving me in tears was the goal, he succeeded. He even seemed to be backpedaling for the rest of the session as if he were unsure of how he'd dealt with me--but maybe that's just my imagination. I'll go back next week with renewed wits (!) and try to tell him, maybe give it another chance.
>

i love getting the inside on this therapy stuff here, but i must say, i do Not like your therapist ... ... at all ... ... ... glad you're handling it as well as you are .... way to go there.
... (and he calls that "Therapy" ?)

> Anyway, it really was nice to come home and find you guys here. I hope you're back and posting soon.
>

it's a little after 7 austin time ... .. ... i got off from work about 5 ... ... i and our 4 3/4 year old are here eating our pizza, watching cartoon network ... ...

> What shall we order?

Order? ... What menu may we use ? ... ... i'm a big tipper!

~ jim again

 

Life Toons

Posted by kara lynne on August 12, 2003, at 19:27:04

In reply to re: Back from therapy! » kara lynne, posted by lil' jimi on August 12, 2003, at 19:19:30

This time warp thing sure is a trip.

Four and 3/4 year old? How sweet is that!

I'm not sure at all that I'm going to continue with this 'therapy' the more I think about it. I think pizza would have worked far better.

Meanwhile I have an earache and I decided to wait until after hours to have it start really hurting. Should be a fun night.

What kind of work do you do?

What brand of child do you have? (M, F, neither)

 

re: The above past life wasn't for me » kara lynne

Posted by lil' jimi on August 12, 2003, at 19:33:56

In reply to re: The above past life wasn't for me, posted by kara lynne on August 12, 2003, at 19:07:26

> I'm always saying I'm in the wrong life--or that surely I've had better lifetimes.
>
> Jimi, I just wanted to say I'm so sorry about your parents--I would imagine that's a hard blow no matter how Buddhist you are. What timing--it sure seems like it means something, but who knows what?
>

that is exactly the big deal for me .... the "who knows what" part there ... ... almost zen-like weird ...

dad was 83 and mom was a week short of 82 ... ... 2 weeks from their 59th wedding anniversary ... ... my sibs and i had tried to prepare because we could see the inevitablity .... .... could never have expected what happened though
... ... thanks for your kind thoughts sweetie!

> I'm sure you will pick up your spiritual journey however you need to do it.
>
> Did you say you're doing well on Lexapro? I've started taking little bits of it again trying to tolerate it.

i could be the poster child for lexapro ... ... they should use me in commercials .... .... i am lucky to just stumble into something that works for me ... ... lllluuuucccckkkyyyyyy!

~ jim

 

re: The above past life wasn't for me

Posted by kara lynne on August 12, 2003, at 19:37:18

In reply to re: The above past life wasn't for me » kara lynne, posted by lil' jimi on August 12, 2003, at 19:33:56

You *are* lucky!

Gee. You must have done something right in a past life, or something.

 

Re: Back from therapy! » kara lynne

Posted by Dinah on August 12, 2003, at 20:33:55

In reply to Back from therapy!, posted by kara lynne on August 12, 2003, at 18:34:38

ICK!!!

I've heard of that kind of therapy, but the closest I came to it was with a confrontation from the pdoc from heck. And I fired him from my car on the way home.

I hear it works well for many people though. I just don't like people confronting me head on.

 

re: ibuprofen as a supplement? » lil' jimi

Posted by zenhussy on August 12, 2003, at 20:35:17

In reply to re: The above past life wasn't for me » yesac, posted by lil' jimi on August 12, 2003, at 18:49:19

i abuse ibuprofen like a fiend ... ... i take it like a supplement 600 to 800 mg a day most days ... ... i still have good liver function ... ... should i be more concerned, you think ?

~ jim

Yes. You should be concerned.

zenhussy

 

re: Life Toons » kara lynne

Posted by lil' jimi on August 12, 2003, at 20:39:19

In reply to Life Toons, posted by kara lynne on August 12, 2003, at 19:27:04

> This time warp thing sure is a trip.
>
> Four and 3/4 year old? How sweet is that!
>

it is excellent because there could be no greater blessing.

> I'm not sure at all that I'm going to continue with this 'therapy' the more I think about it. I think pizza would have worked far better.
>

have you got options/alternatives for therapists?

> Meanwhile I have an earache and I decided to wait until after hours to have it start really hurting. Should be a fun night.
>

as a parent, who has fought the ear-infection fight ... (this is a near epidemic among our little ones nowadays, due to antibiotic overuse) ... and as one who has had a earache from our small hero ... ... let me recommend something ...
... at 800 mg, ibuprofen (motrin) provides good anti-inflammatory effects ... ... as adults we shouldn't get earaches because our eustachian tubes should be big enough to breathe and drain ... which should prevent infections from being able to become entrenched ... ... when one does get going in there, they will cause inflammation and the swelling closes off the drainage and breathing and causes the pain ... ... ... therefore the ibuprofen will relieve the pain and decrease the swelling ... ... ... took about 40 minutes from real pain to no pain when i took 800mg ... ... i'd recommend taking 800mg every 4 hours until the pain does not return ... .... ... just my suggestion ...

... ... this is a more serious problem for kids because their tubes are too small, at least until they're 5 or so ... ...

> What kind of work do you do?

electronic repair maintenance technician and multimedia operator type stuff

>
> What brand of child do you have? (M, F, neither)

our ever-larger super hero (we used to be able to call him our "Tiny Hero" ... no more) is Robert Santiago and, oh, my goodness is he ever a b-o-y ! ... .. ... and great fun too ... ...

(_how can i be depressed?_), he asks himself ... ... ...

~ jimdaddy


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