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Posted by Louoicu81 on September 22, 2004, at 21:30:41
In reply to Re: Quit Effexor cold turkey--meow71877wildbean, posted by jujube on September 19, 2004, at 7:35:58
Ok guys.... I have been reading your posts and sometimes writing my own for a couple months now and they are really helping me. The only problem is that I have been completely off of Effexor for six weeks now and am still feeling depressed and anxious all day long. For the two years I was on it, I was fine....better than I ever had been in my whole life. Now, I am constantly feeling sad, worthless, anxious, and in a daze the whole day long. Do you think that it is the medicine doing this to me? I think it has to be because I was doing sooooo well on the medicine. I am trying to convince myself that it takes time for my body and brain chemicals to adjust after being on Effexor so long. Also, I have just started a new birth control pill about a week ago and have been reading your postings on birth control. Desogen (Orthocept) is the name of it. Has anyone had any experiences with it and could this be contributing to my crappy feelings. I am nervous and depressed about starting the day even.....Please help~
Thanks,
Linda
Posted by wildbean on September 22, 2004, at 21:59:26
In reply to Still feeling bad..., posted by Louoicu81 on September 22, 2004, at 21:30:41
I would venture to guess that your birth control is contributing somewhat to your negative feelings. If you were feeling wonderful on effexor, why did you go off of it? I think effexor is a wonderful drug and swore I would never go off of it. However, lately I have felt the urge to try to see what life would be like without it. Today is my 2nd day in weaning myself off from effexor. I was taking 150 mg a day, but cut my dose in half starting yesterday. I've gained a ton of weight the last couple of years and want to see if I have more energy without it. When I started effexor, I was in a miserable marriage with 2 toddlers. Now, I'm single and managing well on my own and my kids are not so dependent on me. I am feeling slightly dizzy and foggy-headed, but it's only at home. I take the 75 mg in the am before work, so I can maintain normalcy there. I'll keep you posted.
Posted by jujube on September 22, 2004, at 22:58:14
In reply to Still feeling bad..., posted by Louoicu81 on September 22, 2004, at 21:30:41
Linda,
Sorry to hear that you are feeling so lousy. I am relatively new to the boards, so I don't know your story. Why did you stop the Effexor if you were feeling good on it (I personally did not have the most positive response to Effexor). Perhaps staying on a low, maintenance dose longer-term may have been ok. I did that with Paxil for a few years, a number of years ago. However, the birth control may be the culprit. Side effects of birth control can include anxiety and depression (especially for those of us who have experienced these things in the past). Did you get any documentation from the pharmacy that would tell you what the side effects are (both common and uncommon). I had been having a really terrible experience with Depo Provera. Got my first shot in early August (because I was bleeding every two weeks and I am iron deficient - sorry to get so personal). The first week or so, I just experienced cramping, some nausea and fatigue. But after that, I started throwing up, I am exhausted, moody, irratible and anxious. Wasn't told much about possible side effects when I got the shot, and have since learned that thousands of perfectly health women have suffered physical and emotional side effects from Depo (also found out the Depo is used in the prison system on sex offenders and pedophiles). Unfortunately, there is not a darn thing I can do about it. Depo is an injectable (it stays in your body for three months). You can probably find some info on side effects on www.drugdigest.com, and if you are concerned about your reaction to it, talk to your doctor about milder alternatives. Sorry to be so long-winded. I hope you are feeling better soon. Take good care.
Tamara
> Ok guys.... I have been reading your posts and sometimes writing my own for a couple months now and they are really helping me. The only problem is that I have been completely off of Effexor for six weeks now and am still feeling depressed and anxious all day long. For the two years I was on it, I was fine....better than I ever had been in my whole life. Now, I am constantly feeling sad, worthless, anxious, and in a daze the whole day long. Do you think that it is the medicine doing this to me? I think it has to be because I was doing sooooo well on the medicine. I am trying to convince myself that it takes time for my body and brain chemicals to adjust after being on Effexor so long. Also, I have just started a new birth control pill about a week ago and have been reading your postings on birth control. Desogen (Orthocept) is the name of it. Has anyone had any experiences with it and could this be contributing to my crappy feelings. I am nervous and depressed about starting the day even.....Please help~
>
> Thanks,
> Linda
Posted by sbvac on September 23, 2004, at 9:44:21
In reply to Re: Still feeling bad... » Louoicu81, posted by jujube on September 22, 2004, at 22:58:14
Sorry to hear that you are feeling bad. What are the reasons that you were on effexor? what dosage? how long? and did your doctor switch your medication? You are smart to be aware of the signs and symptoms that you wrote about. Since depression is manifested by not having enough serotonin and norepinephrine (which effexor stimulates) you could very well be experiencing a cycle of clinical depression. If you have had depression before, you should be aware that each cylce tends to get worse in nature and last for a longer period of time. You should contact your doctor asap and let him/her know what is going on.
Shana
Posted by jennyb on September 23, 2004, at 11:45:14
In reply to Re: Effexor Withdrawal Highly Overrated, posted by scruff on September 12, 2004, at 15:33:07
I am finally off of effexor and I will never again allow a doctor to put me on ANY meds. Effexor did nothing for my "depression"...in fact, I think it made me worse. I was nearly suicidal at times...getting off of effexor was probably the worst sickness I've ever experienced physically and emotionally. First came the electric shock sensations, then the nausea, then full blown vomitting anything I took in, sweating, nightmares...horrible nightmares, and terrifyingly strong impulses to do completely irrational things. At one point, when some of my physical withdrawals were starting to subside, I walked out to my back yard to place something in my barn. There on my husbands work bench, was a full can of gasoline for the lawnmower. For no explainable reason, when I saw the gas can, I was so strongly compelled to dump it all out and light the barn on fire...it was almost irrististable. It scared me so I left the barn immediately. Another instance of the severe emotional instability, was me breaking dishes in the kitchen and raving like a lunatic at my husband for absolutley no reason. I even told him I wished for him to die...(bless his heart, he has forgiven me, he knows I was coming off the meds...)I have been off for around two weeks now, and am happy to say I feel better now than ever. I do not feel depressed at all, except for being a little bummed still about the weight gain. All of my side effects from the effexor are finally starting to go away...(tremors, sweating, sleepiness etc...and I am making steps for the first time in a year and a half of getting my life together without meds...(eating healthy, exercise, looking for a new job, ending toxic relationships etc)...all of these are things that seemed nearly impossible for me to consider while on effexor...I will never go down that road again.
Posted by corafree on September 23, 2004, at 14:09:48
In reply to Re: Still feeling bad... » jujube, posted by sbvac on September 23, 2004, at 9:44:21
L, I have done very well on Effexor-XR. I first tried it three years ago and the dosage was incorrect and regimen was incorrect and it was awful. But now (can't remember old dosage and regimen, just know I felt like I could climb walls), 150morning and 75 @ 3p, it's the best I've ever felt. I also increased my thyroid med to 75mcg. I also take a sleep med, and a bit of Klonopin. I have tried every single anti-depressant know to this girl (and that's a lot) up until any new on market in prob' last 3 years. I don't know how old you are. If you are under 25 or so, and feel that your depression is situational, I applaud you're trying to get off an anti-depressant. But, if this has gone on for years, I too am interested in why you discontinued it? You'll be okay ... I know good things are coming your way. You've helped me and you will be helped in return. HANG IN EASY .. BABY STEPS cf
> Sorry to hear that you are feeling bad. What are the reasons that you were on effexor? what dosage? how long? and did your doctor switch your medication? You are smart to be aware of the signs and symptoms that you wrote about. Since depression is manifested by not having enough serotonin and norepinephrine (which effexor stimulates) you could very well be experiencing a cycle of clinical depression. If you have had depression before, you should be aware that each cylce tends to get worse in nature and last for a longer period of time. You should contact your doctor asap and let him/her know what is going on.
>
> Shana
Posted by marcy on September 23, 2004, at 18:29:39
In reply to Re: Still feeling bad... » jujube, posted by sbvac on September 23, 2004, at 9:44:21
Hi,
I hope you will check with your Dr. asap. I understand you not wanting to take meds if you don't have to, but sometimes we need to take them. It may take trying different ones to find the right combination for your body.
I have tried to go without because I just was tired of taking medicine. I found out quickly I could not do that. My 3 grown children are all on meds too. My oldest daughter stopped her meds for 3 months. We finally convinced her to go to the Dr. and she is now on Cymbalta(Effexor). I am happy to see her starting to cheer up again.Get a good support group, from what I am reading here, this is one. We all understand each other because we have been there, done that.
Take care of yourself and know that each day is one step closer.
I am on my second day of Effexor. So far, I am doing OK. I was on many different antidepressants and am hoping this one will help make life a little better.
Posted by Louoicu81 on September 23, 2004, at 20:35:19
In reply to Re: Still feeling bad, posted by marcy on September 23, 2004, at 18:29:39
Thank you, everyone! Just to let you know a little about myself. I am almost 23 years old and have had anxiety and I guess depression all of my life. I have also always been a high achiever. I was the valedictorian in high school and will have my Bachelor's degree in nursing in May. I love to learn about the body and the mind, but it just seems weird that I am a victim of depression/anxiety. I have worked at CVS in the pharmacy for about four and a half years and know a great deal about drugs, depression, and the many drugs people take for depression/anxiety. Two years ago, I got accepted into the Pharmacy program at Purdue University in Indiana. I had extreme anxieties about leaving home and family so once again, anxieties took away what could have been a great job with great income. When I came home, I had a nervous breakdown....I let my family down and myself down and couldn't seem to stay sane any longer...not to mention I was suffering from bulemia, which I have been free from for two years. That is why I had to turn to medicine for help. For two years, I was wonderful. Effexor helped me through a time when I couldn't seem to help myself. I took XR 75mg once a day. I am a student so I will not have my parent's insurance when I turn 23 in one month-the medicine is wayyyyyyyy too expensive to pay cash for. I am also engaged and plan to have a baby within the next couple of years. I didn't want my baby to have any birth defects because of the Effexor-it is still unknown what Effexor does to a baby. So, even though my life was good while on Effexor, other unmanagable obstacles prove to be in the way of my happiness. It seems like I start off the day feeling sad/anxious and things slowly get better as the day progresses, BUT I never feel completely normal. Thank all of you once again for your concern. If you know of any class action law suits with Effexor please let me know. I believe that it is the medicine that has messed my brain chemistry and chemicals up even more. Yes, I have suffered from anxiety/depression my whole life, but never this bad. It just doesn't make sense. Please respond if you have any advice.
~Linda
Posted by Sondi on September 23, 2004, at 21:11:49
In reply to Re: Effexor Withdrawal Highly Overrated, posted by jennyb on September 23, 2004, at 11:45:14
Hi all,
I am a very confused, relatively new effexor user. I have a history of anxiety and panic, but my doc actually perscribed the effexor for what he assumed was chronic fatigue syndrome. (I was sooooo tired all the time and had some pain along my neck and spine). I have been taking the drug at a 75 mg dose for about a month, and I am pretty sure it is not doing anything positive, and I think it might be making me worse. I am just as tired and fatigued as ever, which is awful, since I am a full time college student and about to start a new part time job! Plus, I am starting to feel depressed again, and I have been free from depression for nearly three years! I thought this was an ANTI-depressant!!??! I am hot a lot of the times, dizzy, feel faint, anxious, have awful headaches, trouble sleeping at night, but super tired all the rest of the time, have constipation, and have extreme difficulty having an orgasm as well. Not to mention lack of pretty much all sexual desire. I am just looking for some advice-is it really worth staying on? I am starting to think that my life was better before! My perscription is almost up for renewal and I am seriously considering whether it's money well spent. Also, I haven't gained any weight since being on the drug, but I have noticed an EXTREME increase in my apetite, which scares me into thinking I might gain weight, in which case I would DEFINITELY want to get off the drug! Also, I am in no way a big drinker, but I do usually have some drinks on the weekend. I haven't noticed anything really different after drinking since I've been taking effexor except that occasionally alcohol affects me more, as in I can get drunk a lot quicker than usual. But is it harmful for me to be drinking in moderation while on the drug? Ok, I know this is long, but one more thing-I have read everyone's horror stories about getting off effexor and that makes me kind of scared since I am considering to stop taking it. Any suggestions there? Thanks so much for taking the time to read and help. I am so glad to know there are people out there in the same boat!
Take care-
Sondi
Posted by corafree on September 23, 2004, at 21:13:01
In reply to Thanks, posted by Louoicu81 on September 23, 2004, at 20:35:19
L, it is possible that it could have changed your brain chemistry, and then again maybe .... it didn't. Either way, I would take part in any class action lawsuit which you find on the Internet just to be on the safe side. Guess we're sort of guinea pigs right now. It is wise to be concerned about how a drug may effect your future health. I'm more...give it to me now...live for the day, ya' know. But, I admire your forethought about your health. Sorry, don't know of lawsuit, but I'm sure there is one out there. Maybe you could let us know if your find one. CF
> Thank you, everyone! Just to let you know a little about myself. I am almost 23 years old and have had anxiety and I guess depression all of my life. I have also always been a high achiever. I was the valedictorian in high school and will have my Bachelor's degree in nursing in May. I love to learn about the body and the mind, but it just seems weird that I am a victim of depression/anxiety. I have worked at CVS in the pharmacy for about four and a half years and know a great deal about drugs, depression, and the many drugs people take for depression/anxiety. Two years ago, I got accepted into the Pharmacy program at Purdue University in Indiana. I had extreme anxieties about leaving home and family so once again, anxieties took away what could have been a great job with great income. When I came home, I had a nervous breakdown....I let my family down and myself down and couldn't seem to stay sane any longer...not to mention I was suffering from bulemia, which I have been free from for two years. That is why I had to turn to medicine for help. For two years, I was wonderful. Effexor helped me through a time when I couldn't seem to help myself. I took XR 75mg once a day. I am a student so I will not have my parent's insurance when I turn 23 in one month-the medicine is wayyyyyyyy too expensive to pay cash for. I am also engaged and plan to have a baby within the next couple of years. I didn't want my baby to have any birth defects because of the Effexor-it is still unknown what Effexor does to a baby. So, even though my life was good while on Effexor, other unmanagable obstacles prove to be in the way of my happiness. It seems like I start off the day feeling sad/anxious and things slowly get better as the day progresses, BUT I never feel completely normal. Thank all of you once again for your concern. If you know of any class action law suits with Effexor please let me know. I believe that it is the medicine that has messed my brain chemistry and chemicals up even more. Yes, I have suffered from anxiety/depression my whole life, but never this bad. It just doesn't make sense. Please respond if you have any advice.
> ~Linda
Posted by corafree on September 24, 2004, at 1:53:36
In reply to Questions about Effexor, posted by Sondi on September 23, 2004, at 21:11:49
Hi. I keep seeing posts like yours and thinking, why aren't you on a second follow-up dose during the day???????? I do not believe XR lasts all day, at least it certainly does not for me. If I take 150mg upon awakening, around 3p and on I would be a basket case. It's all about metabolizing the med. We are all different and some people 'use up that drug so fast it's gone in five hrs.' Try type in Effexor-XR slow metabolizer in Internet and see what you find. good luck cf
Posted by tassh on September 24, 2004, at 10:22:01
In reply to Re: Scared of Effexor, posted by jtc on February 18, 2003, at 21:54:18
Hello! I am new to this message boared. I would really like some advice. I recently started counseling/therapy (I've only gone twice) and on my second visit my counselor suggested that I go on antidepressants (effexor xr). The reason I went to counseling is I have trust issues with my boyfriend. I don't trust him at all! I believe he is cheating on me with his co-worker or any pretty girl for that matter. He has contributed to this by lying to me many times over our 6 year relationship. He says he lies to me because he knows how jealous I am and would rather avoid an arguement and feels that he cannot have a female that is just a FRIEND! To get to the point I am scared to go on this drug because I've read on these message boards all the side effects and withdrawl symptoms and they are very scary. My counselor feels that I have low self esteem,and am very insecure but who isn't from time to time. I know that I am obbessesed with the thought that he is cheating on me and can't get the negative thoughts out of my head when it comes to trusting him.I don't feel that I am depressed. I know that I'm not 100% happy in my life right now,but I dont' think I'm depressed. I was in a slight depression about 3 years ago so I know what it feels like. I have been struggeling with this trust issue with my boyfriend for a long time and I am desperate to fix it if not it's over for us. So I'm desperate to save my relationship to the point of even going on this medication, but dont' know if I really need it. Please any adivce...! Thanks
Posted by jujube on September 24, 2004, at 10:42:06
In reply to Re: Scared of Effexor, posted by tassh on September 24, 2004, at 10:22:01
I think that going on Effexor XR for the issues you are dealing with is a bit extreme (that is my personal opinion only and based on the little bit of information you provided in your message). I don't know, but continuing with the therapy to deal with your trust and self-esteem issues and doing some cognitive behaviour therapy may be all you need. You might even consider having your boyfriend participate in the therapy at some point once you have made some progress (his feeling that he has to lie to you certainly isn't helping you). Effexor, and any other anti-depressant, can help bring a person who is in a depressive and/or extremely agitated/anxious state to a level where they can start dealing with issues. But, as other people have said here at Psycho-Babble, it is only a bandaid. I would encourage you to discuss this further with your therapist before you start on any medication. I apoligize if I have crossed the line with my opinions, but I just don't understand how Effexor is going to address your self-esteem/trust issues and fix your relationship with your boyfriend.
> Hello! I am new to this message boared. I would really like some advice. I recently started counseling/therapy (I've only gone twice) and on my second visit my counselor suggested that I go on antidepressants (effexor xr). The reason I went to counseling is I have trust issues with my boyfriend. I don't trust him at all! I believe he is cheating on me with his co-worker or any pretty girl for that matter. He has contributed to this by lying to me many times over our 6 year relationship. He says he lies to me because he knows how jealous I am and would rather avoid an arguement and feels that he cannot have a female that is just a FRIEND! To get to the point I am scared to go on this drug because I've read on these message boards all the side effects and withdrawl symptoms and they are very scary. My counselor feels that I have low self esteem,and am very insecure but who isn't from time to time. I know that I am obbessesed with the thought that he is cheating on me and can't get the negative thoughts out of my head when it comes to trusting him.I don't feel that I am depressed. I know that I'm not 100% happy in my life right now,but I dont' think I'm depressed. I was in a slight depression about 3 years ago so I know what it feels like. I have been struggeling with this trust issue with my boyfriend for a long time and I am desperate to fix it if not it's over for us. So I'm desperate to save my relationship to the point of even going on this medication, but dont' know if I really need it. Please any adivce...! Thanks
Posted by invisiblemanpa on September 24, 2004, at 11:31:43
In reply to Questions about Effexor, posted by Sondi on September 23, 2004, at 21:11:49
I have been on effexor xr at different doses for about 1 1/2...initially it seemed to work well for me with little side effects. I started to feel all of the depression and anxiety symptons coming back and she added Remeron...after a few weeks I felt fantastic for the first time in years...the change was unreal....but..after 2 months...the depression starting coming back so she increased both and the Effexor up ro 225.....and the depression keeps getting worse.....and yes....I have gone from a very sexual being to no desire at all...I don't even dream about it and I always used to! And alcohol and Effexor don't mix.....at least not more than one or two beers....anymore than that and your memory will be wiped clean for the entire night.....quite bizarre...and dangerous.......
Posted by Sondi on September 24, 2004, at 12:33:17
In reply to Re: Questions about Effexor, posted by invisiblemanpa on September 24, 2004, at 11:31:43
So do you think it's possible that for some people effexor can make depression worse in the long run?
Posted by wildbean on September 24, 2004, at 18:48:41
In reply to Questions about Effexor, posted by Sondi on September 23, 2004, at 21:11:49
Sondi - Effexor makes me totally sleepy, so I too am confused as to why it would be prescribed for chronic fatigue syndrome. Also, although the package says to avoid alcohol, I too am a moderate drinker and have not had any problems while on the effexor.
Posted by wildbean on September 24, 2004, at 18:58:26
In reply to Re: Scared of Effexor, posted by tassh on September 24, 2004, at 10:22:01
My counselor said to always trust your instincts. What does your gut say about your boyfriend? Write down any evidence of or reasons why you think your boyfriend is cheating. Are your feelings rationale or are they based on your own deep-seated insecurities? I find that I'm often paranoid that my boyfriend is lying or cheating and I've been on effexor for 5 years. Effexor won't fix all of your or our issues. I wouldn't go on effexor unless you really needed it to function in life and take care of yourself.
Posted by jennyb on September 25, 2004, at 13:28:10
In reply to Re: Scared of Effexor, posted by wildbean on September 24, 2004, at 18:58:26
DON'T DO IT! Effexor will ruin your life! I URGE you, DO NOT GIVE IN, to your counselor....you are right to be afraid of it. I wasn't and I wish I had been. The doctors that prescribe these medicines to messed up people like us are all a part of the conspiracy. You know, the docs get a kickback from the rx companies, each time they get someone on these drugs...and the rx companies are making a fortune off of these drugs. Think back to the times when the world was a better place...people did not need anitdepressants...people were fine without counseling or thereapy. In this day and age, it's rare to find someone who is NOT in therapy or on meds. It a conspiracy...our socitety's collective sickness is manufactured by our docs and the drug companies. For example, if a new product hits the stores, let's say relaxation products...magnetic bracelets and relaxation stones etc...there is a huge market for these products...why??? because people buy them...one person gets sucked in, swears to everyone they know that the product they bought changed thier life...then everyone they tell goes to buy it. Whether or not the product really works does not matter...we have to have it because everyone says it worked for them...its a vicious cycle. Think about it.
Posted by Cybele on September 25, 2004, at 13:42:44
In reply to Re: Scared of Effexor, posted by tassh on September 24, 2004, at 10:22:01
I agree with Wildbean. Are you in your 20s? Boyfriend issues do get easier to deal with as you go into your 30s. My 20s were one big heartbreak after another. I think it's all just part of growing up and learning from experience. I can't imagine Effexor-XR would help you to deal with a concrete issue like this, and I also can't believe it would be any doctors first choice AD.
Just my two cents...
Posted by jennyb on September 25, 2004, at 13:57:49
In reply to Thanks, posted by Louoicu81 on September 23, 2004, at 20:35:19
Hey you guys...someone mentioned class action lawsuits against effexor...check out the link to a website I found...I already filed my complaint and apparently tons of other people have too. http://www.bigclassaction.com/
Posted by jennyb on September 25, 2004, at 14:45:06
In reply to Re: Success on Effexor XR Thanks for comments and, posted by fork on September 18, 2004, at 4:08:03
Fork,
I have tried over the counter sleep aids as well as rx aids...OTC aids worked just as well for me as ambien did. One major difference between the two was that with ambien I often woke up in the a.m. feeling groggy and stoned. That doesn't happen with the OTC stuff, at least not to me. Hope this helps.
Posted by jadasam on September 26, 2004, at 19:03:03
In reply to Anyone had success on Effexor XR? , posted by jp on October 24, 1999, at 14:59:14
I was taking Paxil and my doctor put me on Effexor because of sexual problems. I love my wife but don't want to have sex. I am taking 150mg of Effexor and I find that I have a hard time ejaculating and reaching orgasm when I masturbate. Although when I do climax it feels very strong and satisfying. I masturbate about 3 times a day and the other 2 times I find that I am having more of a dry orgasm with not too much semen coming out. I s this normal and is anyone feeling the same. I pratice something called powergasm.
Thanks
Posted by Dr. Bob on September 26, 2004, at 19:38:43
In reply to Re: Scared of Effexor, posted by jennyb on September 25, 2004, at 13:28:10
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Posted by april8 on September 27, 2004, at 22:44:31
In reply to Effexor XR and orgasm, posted by jadasam on September 26, 2004, at 19:03:03
you can go off of effexor for 24 hours and it goes out of your system and you can have an orgasm. You can also add wellbutrin and stay on that during your drug "holiday" and it will hold your depression at bay and increase your libido.
I don't even take wellbutrin myself but have done that in the past. I am on effexor and go on 24 hour holidays (just did yesterday) and orgasm fine after that short of a break. The first time I went on the day holiday I had mild side effects of withdrawel, but after a couple of times i have none.
Anyway best to you!> I was taking Paxil and my doctor put me on Effexor because of sexual problems. I love my wife but don't want to have sex. I am taking 150mg of Effexor and I find that I have a hard time ejaculating and reaching orgasm when I masturbate. Although when I do climax it feels very strong and satisfying. I masturbate about 3 times a day and the other 2 times I find that I am having more of a dry orgasm with not too much semen coming out. I s this normal and is anyone feeling the same. I pratice something called powergasm.
> Thanks
Posted by saw on September 28, 2004, at 4:44:08
In reply to Effexor XR and orgasm, posted by jadasam on September 26, 2004, at 19:03:03
I see two problems. 1) not wanting to have sex with your wife, and 2) long time in reaching orgasm with masturbation.
Are these two problems related? Do you battle to reach orgasm when having sex aswell?
In a past relationship, I encountered a similar situation. I gently (and provocatively) asked this man to masturbate a bit less and suggested that it may help in reaching orgasm during sex. Though it still took him long (which I loved!) he was at least able to achieve his orgasm that he couldn't whilst masturbating a couple of times a day.
I hope this frustrating problem comes right for you.
Take care
Sabrina
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