Psycho-Babble Relationships Thread 806117

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im losing it

Posted by hoolahoop on January 13, 2008, at 2:22:16

i feel like im losing it. not been too good recently.
my fiance (who posts on psycho babble) is making me feel awful. i found out that he's started smoking again, i am gutted cos i hate it and he stinks.
i feel like hes doing things on purpose to wind me up. i wish i had left him at the fishing lake cos i dont want him here and around me. he was getting on ok with his meds and stuff then he has to take a step back and ruin things.
i dont wanna hate him but i do.
we live together , neither of us have anywhere else to go.
ive been cutting myself again cos i feel so awful.
i dunno what to do. talking only causes arguments.

 

Re: im losing it hoolahoop

Posted by MissK on January 13, 2008, at 11:30:03

In reply to im losing it, posted by hoolahoop on January 13, 2008, at 2:22:16

>i dont wanna hate him but i do.
we live together , neither of us have anywhere else to go.

Sounds like it's time to call it quits. Take the emotion out of it and be practical. Stay together as friends and work towards and plan on getting someplace else to go, then go each your separate ways and accept the learning experience and lessons the relationship provided so that, hopefully, your next one will be better.

 

Re: im losing it

Posted by Phillipa on January 13, 2008, at 13:13:57

In reply to Re: im losing it hoolahoop, posted by MissK on January 13, 2008, at 11:30:03

I'm sorry about your problem is smoking the only one? And hate is a strong word. Seems maybe seeing a cousellor by yourself for the cutting may help you deal with any pain your're feeling. Then maybe some couples theraphy. I just feel that if smoking is all the problems you have that you may be able to work them out. And deep inside do you really love him hence the intense pain. I argue and fight constantly with my husband but I can't be alone due to severe anxiety. Fights are part of a lot of relationships. Solving them is the trick to me. Phillipa

 

Re: im losing it hoolahoop

Posted by Phillipa on November 24, 2008, at 13:57:04

In reply to im losing it, posted by hoolahoop on January 13, 2008, at 2:22:16

Friend ever make it to England? Phillipa


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