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Stress....trial coming up....work issues and Fayed

Posted by fayeroe on June 4, 2009, at 16:20:18

Some of you know that my drunken neighbor assaulted me back in January. To be exact, it was the inauguration eve....I called the police and they took it to the DA and charges were filed. Neighbor lives to the west side of my yard. Our yards are joined to my left.

The DA offered him a deal. Plead guilty and judge will order rehab and extensive community service. And he would write me a letter of apology and ask what he could do to make living next to him easier. They also said they wouldn't offer any suggestions to his parole officer about the future penalties. He refused the deal and asked for a JURY TRIAL.

In central Texas a jury will consist of some little blue-haired ladies and old farmers in overalls. The salt of the earth people who don't hit one another and they don't drink. WHY would this idiot want a jury trial is beyond all of us.

He is on probation for two DUIs and now he is in big trouble with them. He peed dirty.

He went to my witness and tried getting him to lie. "Tampering with a witness".....

We definitely believe that he killed Fayeroe. So, I am still struggling, on a daily basis, with that. I want to rip his heart out.

I am working in the public library and am in charge of the adult fiction and computers that only adults can use. I did some detective work and verified that we have a sex offender using the computers here. CHILDREN come here by the droves. I talked to my Pdoc about my plan for notifying the officials. I know most of the policemen here and I also know two detectives. I also have the choice of calling the DA. It has to be very confidential. My job would be in jeopardy if it came out that I turned him in. The head librarian refuses to do anything. (she is a ditz)

I wish something else would fall on my head. Well, it sorta did. I guess that the Buspar and my binge eating after Fayeroe died has added 20 lbs to my little 5' frame. I'm guessing about the Buspar and I am certain that the binge eating has helped me add those love handles and big legs....A John Lee HOoker song if there ever was one.

I'm still reeling from the fiasco that we called my birthday and mother's day. What a dysfunctional mess that was!

The joy in my life is the garden blanket that I've planted on Fayeroe's grave..I also have a little half-airedale and half german shepherd that was rescued from a busy highway. Clementine is full of mischief and a handful. I didn't intend to get another dog so soon. But she desperately needed a home with someone who could handle her. She is very smart. She knows to sit for treats and going in and out of the house.

Ah, life......Pat

 

Re: Stress....trial coming up....work issues and Fayed fayeroe

Posted by obsidian on June 4, 2009, at 22:15:15

In reply to Stress....trial coming up....work issues and Fayed, posted by fayeroe on June 4, 2009, at 16:20:18

oh goodness fayeroe, too much stuff to deal with. Why is it that the world can be such a scary place?
I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear pet. I hope all goes as smoothly as possible.
wishing I (and you) didn't have to be on the lookout,
sid

 

Re: Stress....trial coming up....work issues and Fayed obsidian

Posted by Phillipa on June 4, 2009, at 23:34:05

In reply to Re: Stress....trial coming up....work issues and Fayed fayeroe, posted by obsidian on June 4, 2009, at 22:15:15

I'm glad you saved a poor dog. But this man sounds like venom. No way you can get him out right? Phillipa

 

Re: Stress....trial coming up....work issues and Fayed obsidian

Posted by fayeroe on June 5, 2009, at 11:36:14

In reply to Re: Stress....trial coming up....work issues and Fayed fayeroe, posted by obsidian on June 4, 2009, at 22:15:15

Thank you for your reply. I have some good news today. Evidently the defendant's lawyer received the statement that the witness gave concerning the assault and it is very bad news for them. My neighbor told me last night that Mr. O has gone "underground" and they haven't seen him in his yard in several days. YEA! That means I won't see h im from my yard when I hang up clothes.

Went to Pdoc yesterday and had very good session about all of the stress that is nesting in my hair. He had some good advice and he also is a good listener. That felt good.

I am hopeful that Mr. O gets 6 months in jail and 6 months in rehab and community service. All of this would be tied together in a package relating to his assault and his violation of his probation.

I am going to do a load of laundry now and hang it out!!!! Thanks, Pat

 

Re: Stress....trial coming up....work issues and Fayed fayeroe

Posted by Poet on June 5, 2009, at 13:34:10

In reply to Stress....trial coming up....work issues and Fayed, posted by fayeroe on June 4, 2009, at 16:20:18

Hi Pat,

A friend's brother is a habitual criminal and has requested a jury trial for his latest crime. Per my friend, his brother has always just faced the judge and gotten sentenced so this time he hopes he'll get sympathy. Your neighbor probably thinks the same thing and frankly I hope they both get sentenced.

Definitely report the sex offender using the computer at work. It's not that he shouldn't be in the library, it's that he's lingering there when children are present. It would be different if he checked out a book and left.

I hope your laundry went well. It's warm enough here to hangout today, but I'm waiting for a plumber and I'm afraid he'll need to shut the water off so I can't run the washer. I love the smell of line dryed clothes and sheets.

Poet

 

Re: Stress....trial coming up....work issues and Fayed fayeroe

Posted by fleeting flutterby on June 6, 2009, at 17:05:13

In reply to Stress....trial coming up....work issues and Fayed, posted by fayeroe on June 4, 2009, at 16:20:18

> Some of you know that my drunken neighbor assaulted me back in January. To be exact, it was the inauguration eve....I called the police and they took it to the DA and charges were filed. Neighbor lives to the west side of my yard. Our yards are joined to my left.
>
> The DA offered him a deal. Plead guilty and judge will order rehab and extensive community service. And he would write me a letter of apology and ask what he could do to make living next to him easier. They also said they wouldn't offer any suggestions to his parole officer about the future penalties. He refused the deal and asked for a JURY TRIAL.
>
> In central Texas a jury will consist of some little blue-haired ladies and old farmers in overalls. The salt of the earth people who don't hit one another and they don't drink. WHY would this idiot want a jury trial is beyond all of us.
>
> He is on probation for two DUIs and now he is in big trouble with them. He peed dirty.
>
> He went to my witness and tried getting him to lie. "Tampering with a witness".....
>
> We definitely believe that he killed Fayeroe. So, I am still struggling, on a daily basis, with that. I want to rip his heart out.
>
> I am working in the public library and am in charge of the adult fiction and computers that only adults can use. I did some detective work and verified that we have a sex offender using the computers here. CHILDREN come here by the droves. I talked to my Pdoc about my plan for notifying the officials. I know most of the policemen here and I also know two detectives. I also have the choice of calling the DA. It has to be very confidential. My job would be in jeopardy if it came out that I turned him in. The head librarian refuses to do anything. (she is a ditz)
>
> I wish something else would fall on my head. Well, it sorta did. I guess that the Buspar and my binge eating after Fayeroe died has added 20 lbs to my little 5' frame. I'm guessing about the Buspar and I am certain that the binge eating has helped me add those love handles and big legs....A John Lee HOoker song if there ever was one.
>
> I'm still reeling from the fiasco that we called my birthday and mother's day. What a dysfunctional mess that was!
>
> The joy in my life is the garden blanket that I've planted on Fayeroe's grave..I also have a little half-airedale and half german shepherd that was rescued from a busy highway. Clementine is full of mischief and a handful. I didn't intend to get another dog so soon. But she desperately needed a home with someone who could handle her. She is very smart. She knows to sit for treats and going in and out of the house.
>
> Ah, life......Pat

-----flutterby: thinking of you Pat and will be hoping that the trial goes all in your favor and all against such an awful horrible neighbor. argh!
Sorry your birthday and mother's day wasn't good. :o(
Clementine is very lucky to have a human with such a loving heart taking care of her.

may some peace come to your life and give you a break from the stresses.

flutterby-mandy

 

Re: Stress....trial coming up....work issues and Fayed fleeting flutterby

Posted by fayeroe on June 6, 2009, at 17:46:55

In reply to Re: Stress....trial coming up....work issues and Fayed fayeroe, posted by fleeting flutterby on June 6, 2009, at 17:05:13

Thank you, Candy~Mandy~~~

 

Re: Stress....trial coming up....work issues and Fayed fayeroe

Posted by zenhussy on June 6, 2009, at 20:12:07

In reply to Stress....trial coming up....work issues and Fayed, posted by fayeroe on June 4, 2009, at 16:20:18

>>>Some of you know that my drunken neighbor assaulted me back in January. To be exact, it was the inauguration eve....I called the police and they took it to the DA and charges were filed. Neighbor lives to the west side of my yard. Our yards are joined to my left.

The DA offered him a deal. Plead guilty and judge will order rehab and extensive community service. And he would write me a letter of apology and ask what he could do to make living next to him easier. They also said they wouldn't offer any suggestions to his parole officer about the future penalties. He refused the deal and asked for a JURY TRIAL.<<<

sounds like a contestant for the Darwin Awards.

>>>In central Texas a jury will consist of some little blue-haired ladies and old farmers in overalls. The salt of the earth people who don't hit one another and they don't drink. WHY would this idiot want a jury trial is beyond all of us.<<<

let it be beyond all of you....let the gene pool figure this one out.

>>>He is on probation for two DUIs and now he is in big trouble with them. He peed dirty.

He went to my witness and tried getting him to lie. "Tampering with a witness".....

We definitely believe that he killed Fayeroe. So, I am still struggling, on a daily basis, with that. I want to rip his heart out.<<<

this man has definite issues that will come out in the jury trial. of course it is easy to let one's mind go to the dark and dangerous thoughts that accompany such needless tragedies like the ones this dolt has brought into your life.

>>>I am working in the public library and am in charge of the adult fiction and computers that only adults can use. I did some detective work and verified that we have a sex offender using the computers here. CHILDREN come here by the droves. I talked to my Pdoc about my plan for notifying the officials. I know most of the policemen here and I also know two detectives. I also have the choice of calling the DA. It has to be very confidential. My job would be in jeopardy if it came out that I turned him in. The head librarian refuses to do anything. (she is a ditz)<<<

do you have access to speaking w/ librarians in other areas? the ones here in this town are very internet savvy and 1st Amend. savvy and balance the two quite well. perhaps the libriarians at the uni. level might have programs in place they can assist you in implimenting to curb this situation going on locally where you're working?

>>>I wish something else would fall on my head. Well, it sorta did. I guess that the Buspar and my binge eating after Fayeroe died has added 20 lbs to my little 5' frame. I'm guessing about the Buspar and I am certain that the binge eating has helped me add those love handles and big legs....A John Lee HOoker song if there ever was one.<<<

there is just temporarily more of you to love....that's all. don't be too down about this. all thing shall change--including you!

>>>I'm still reeling from the fiasco that we called my birthday and mother's day. What a dysfunctional mess that was!<<<

if anything it is more disconcerting to hear about ppl who celebrate these occassions w/o the dysfunctional drama that usually accompanies such dates. try to take comfort that you're in very good company having survived those fiascoes (sp?)

>>>The joy in my life is the garden blanket that I've planted on Fayeroe's grave..I also have a little half-airedale and half german shepherd that was rescued from a busy highway. Clementine is full of mischief and a handful. I didn't intend to get another dog so soon. But she desperately needed a home with someone who could handle her. She is very smart. She knows to sit for treats and going in and out of the house.

Ah, life......Pat<<<

sounds like Fayed's garden blanket is gorgeous. she'd not have had it any other way. of course your new companion came about suddenly and rather quickly after Fayed's abrupt loss but sometimes life has plans other than what we'd have imagined.

you certainly need a smartie pants of a pup to handle the jobs a dog in your pack will need to learn. don't forget that she can handle the tears you still need to shed over Fayedy. that's one of her most important jobs...to help you grieve and release the painful parts. she'll also help you in remembering the wonderful and joyful memories that are in there as well.

ah life indeed. at least it is life. we've all certainly been around long enough to see some of the ups and downs life has tossed at all of us over the years.

it is good that you're still a part of life and striving for more out of it.

smiles from frankendog (healing beautifully thank goodness) and zennie

 

Re: Fayeroe so sorry for all your troubles (nm)

Posted by rskontos on June 11, 2009, at 1:59:43

In reply to Re: Stress....trial coming up....work issues and Fayed fayeroe, posted by zenhussy on June 6, 2009, at 20:12:07

 

Fayeroe so sorry for all your troubles... rskontos

Posted by fayeroe on June 11, 2009, at 9:49:37

In reply to Re: Fayeroe so sorry for all your troubles (nm), posted by rskontos on June 11, 2009, at 1:59:43

I have an update on the drunk idiot.

The witness made his statement and it is very damaging to the defendant. A copy was sent to Mr. O's lawyer. The witness has not been bothered by Mr. O since.O lives next door and somehow he is getting in and out of his house without R seeing him! He and C are delighted as he was such a frequent visitor (asking for beer) that their friends quit visiting.

The child molester who comes to the library wasn't given any restrictions with his probation and he is free to come and go as he pleases. There is nothing that can be done.

He came yesterday and stayed 3 hours! I had him in my building where children under 18 aren't allowed. This makes me sick. There is a father of three daughters who really scares me. I can see a scenario of him coming in with a gun and shooting half of us. He knows about D.

The library could ask for a criminal trespass citation and ban him but that ain't happening. The librarian has the backbone of a salamander. I think I told you about 5 teenagers surrounding the librarian and one shoved her. B wouldn't press charges because she wants to help them! ?????

Yesterday I worked at the technology center. All I did was sit at the desk and read. That was easy. :-)......The people who use the computers there are very quiet and well behaved.

Thanks to everyone! I'm maintaining much better now. xoxoxo Pat


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