Psycho-Babble Psychology Thread 617477

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No relationship

Posted by Susan47 on March 8, 2006, at 12:07:41

Sounding like a baby, no no no no, no this no that, there can be nothing, absolutely nothing, when there is no relationship with yourself. I have nothing. Why are there days like this, tell me why these days make me feel like death is the only alternative? Why? I don't want this to be my life, my life is pathetic, it's an entity beyond myself, it's not me at all, it's not who I am or who I want to be and I just want to die, because death cannot possibly hurt like life does.

 

Susan I am worried about you

Posted by Tanzanite on March 8, 2006, at 12:29:18

In reply to No relationship, posted by Susan47 on March 8, 2006, at 12:07:41

I don't know what to say but that I care and I am sure that there are others that do to. I cannot pretend to know what you are going through. Please get help if you need it and don't hurt yourself. (((Susan)))
From Chelle

 

Re: Susan I am worried about you

Posted by TherapyGirl on March 8, 2006, at 12:30:36

In reply to Susan I am worried about you, posted by Tanzanite on March 8, 2006, at 12:29:18

> I don't know what to say but that I care and I am sure that there are others that do to. I cannot pretend to know what you are going through. Please get help if you need it and don't hurt yourself. (((Susan)))
> From Chelle


Ditto, Susan.

 

(((Susan)))

Posted by LegWarmers on March 8, 2006, at 13:15:43

In reply to No relationship, posted by Susan47 on March 8, 2006, at 12:07:41

Susan Im so sorry you feel like this, the feelings will pass, they will. Its just a bump you are going through.
I hope you feel better soon

 

Re: No relationship Susan47

Posted by B2chica on March 8, 2006, at 13:33:20

In reply to No relationship, posted by Susan47 on March 8, 2006, at 12:07:41

babies sound like they do to serve a purpose, it's not so bad to sound like one. it means you have needs that you don't otherwise know how to express. you've got to get it out whatever it is.
please don't take it out on yourself though.
tell us if you can.

it may seem like death is the only way because you are wanting to escape from something you cannot. it IS NOT the only alternative. there are others. i think that creative writing would REALLY help you right now. journal out what you are telling us only in more depth. write every last stupid detail down, describe every last pain and echo each and every scream.
you have a lot to share with many, don't hide it.
(((((((((susan))))))))))

b2c

 

Re: No relationship Susan47

Posted by fairywings on March 8, 2006, at 13:58:09

In reply to No relationship, posted by Susan47 on March 8, 2006, at 12:07:41

(((Susan)))

I'm sorry it's feeling so overwhelming right now. Feeling so alone hurts so bad. It sounds like you're feeling a lot of rage and hatred right now too? I hope writing it out helps, and knowing you're supported. Maybe if we just wait it out, it will pass, and trying not to be alone so much will make it pass faster?

fw

 

I know we are far away but we care

Posted by Tanzanite on March 8, 2006, at 20:24:26

In reply to No relationship, posted by Susan47 on March 8, 2006, at 12:07:41

I am writing again to let you know that I care and so do others. I agree with B2 about getting this out in creative writing and please keep communicating with us. HUGS from Chelle

 

Re: No relationship Susan47

Posted by orchid on March 9, 2006, at 18:37:01

In reply to No relationship, posted by Susan47 on March 8, 2006, at 12:07:41

Are you in an anti depressant? Or can you try to do something like do yoga or meditation? I think it might help you if you stop ruminating too much about all these things and focus little outside. Beyond a point, ruminating and trying to gain more insight and cure yourself is not very productive. Once you know some of the basics about yourself, I think it might be more helpful to gain more positive experiences in life, and focus your thoughts towards something else other than yourself. Just my thought.

 

Blessings

Posted by Susan47 on March 11, 2006, at 15:21:40

In reply to Re: No relationship Susan47, posted by orchid on March 9, 2006, at 18:37:01

That's what each one of you people are, here, you're all a blessing in addition to the wonderful people you are.
How lovely, the word "blessing" .. it has a religious connotation to it, doesn't it?
Blessed, bless, blessing .. to BE a blessing .. well ...
You don't even have to try to do anything more than be yourself.
Do you guys see how beautiful you are, in what you do?


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