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the 'valentine roses' saga

Posted by milly on March 1, 2006, at 10:45:40

Well I screwed up my courage and decided I would take the 'valentine roses' issue back into therapy

Told him how hurt I'd been that he hadn't responded to my question but that i had rationalised that to the fact that I was rushing out of the door at the time.

However I still don't know the answer but we talked about how the flowers had made me cry and that I hated myself because if they were for him I should be happy that IRL someone cares about him, but I couldn't be because I was so jealous.
I don't think they were for him

Then he gave me this picture he said
'I see us (thats me & T) as two children playing and you are not getting your own way so you are stamping your feet and screaming at me, and its OK because we can just carry on playing'

This is the first time he has included himself in any of his pictures and it felt so good not to be alone! and yes inside I was stamping my feet and yelling.

i always find it hard to leave at the end of a session and when he said we had to end I said 'I'll try not to stamp my feet' to which he replied 'I take it that you are telling me you are stamping'

milly

 

Re: the 'valentine roses' saga milly

Posted by TherapyGirl on March 1, 2006, at 12:06:21

In reply to the 'valentine roses' saga, posted by milly on March 1, 2006, at 10:45:40

That's great, Milly. I was lurking as opposed to posting when you first wrote about this. I'm glad you got at least some resolution to the feelings.

 

Re: the 'valentine roses' saga TherapyGirl

Posted by milly on March 1, 2006, at 14:00:00

In reply to Re: the 'valentine roses' saga milly, posted by TherapyGirl on March 1, 2006, at 12:06:21

Better out than in I guess! and Welcome & Hi by the way
milly

 

Re: the 'valentine roses' saga milly

Posted by Dinah on March 1, 2006, at 15:13:16

In reply to the 'valentine roses' saga, posted by milly on March 1, 2006, at 10:45:40

I'm glad you feel better about it. :)


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