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Re: GOOD reading for borderline type disorder floatingbridge

Posted by sigismund on January 23, 2011, at 21:11:45

In reply to Re: GOOD reading for borderline type disorder sigismund, posted by floatingbridge on January 23, 2011, at 16:36:32

>totalitarian run families and emotional neglect.
>I would (will?) constantly berate myself for
>being 'this sick' when nothing 'that bad' had happened.

If babies are sufficiently neglected (I read once) they can enter into marasmic states (nice name!) and then die. You know yourself how critical your attention is to kids, and how they thrive on it. I had no advantages or skills as a parent but I have learned from seeing my kids grow just how important real attention is. To be deprived of real attention is to be deprived of the possibility of relationship. People back then didn't know what they were doing, thinking of my own case.

 

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