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The Counsellor Said

Posted by susan47 on August 24, 2008, at 16:25:49

In reply to Re: Update: Termination because of strong transference nebulae, posted by susan47 on August 23, 2008, at 19:20:07

When I told him I felt so sorry for my ex-T:

"You're borderline, you've been going through all this, and you feel sorry for HIM????"

But it's impossible not to have feelings, because the feelings I Have about my own life and my own self are so overwhelming, it's hard not to cry, and not to share my feelings. Sharing my feelings helps me to release them. I feel so strongly and I didn't know that was the biggest obstacle in my life, it just felt like I needed relief from the feelings. But in the end I could see a person getting overwhelmed of course, the violations to the guidelines were just too severe. Still, it hurts like nothing ever has. And this is what I now have to hurdle.


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