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Re: major transference and terminating therapy healing928

Posted by Lucie Lu on July 7, 2008, at 19:23:44

In reply to Re: major transference and terminating therapy, posted by healing928 on July 7, 2008, at 12:29:47

Healing, if I am understanding you correctly, there is an awful lot of ambivalence for T2: loving feelings, longing, feelings of rapport, etc. and yet it also sounds like either he is not behaving in a trustworthy fashion or perhaps you are interpreting his behavior in that way. (I'm not criticizing, just trying to understand.) T1 on the other hand sounds perhaps more boring ;) but more solid and in your court. Am I right in picking up this ambivalence for T2 and if so, what do you think that's about? It may be helpful in terms of helping to resolve your feelings for him if you can clarify them.
And could you just return to T1? If you can work together OK maybe he can help you deal with your feelings about terminating with T2.
So sorry you are hurting.
-Lucie


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