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Re: Agonizing over T Relationships *trigger + ran MissK

Posted by Dinah on January 13, 2008, at 19:03:16

In reply to Re: Agonizing over T Relationships *trigger + ran happyflower, posted by MissK on January 13, 2008, at 18:55:39

> What she provides me is wonderful and I wouldn't mind a daily dose of that undivided attention and listening and psychological help and soothing.

Do you think that's what we're looking for? Daily stroking? Self indulgence?

> But I have to look for those things elsewhere too. She is there to help with certain things, she can't be, or more I don't want her to be my 'paid' best friend.

I don't want mine to be my best friend at all. Paid or not. I get my best friend needs met elsewhere.

I think at this point, I'll just say that I understand that you don't understand. My therapist says that to me all the time. With a little smile that drives me nuts. So I won't smile.

 

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